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TranscriptMastodon posts by @trenchworms@eldritch.cafe:

super revealing of the misogyny inherent to the space that "AI assistants" stopped being given feminine-coded names the moment tech chuds thought they were developing higher levels of autonomy

"i TELL Alexa what to do. i COLLABROATE with Chudbot. i will not reflect on this hierarchy at all."

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[–] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 56 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Top level comments on the internet engage in a discussion of misogyny and patriarchy constructively and in good faith challenge:

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

My wife makes more money than me and I make the sandwiches. Suck it stereotypes

[–] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

sandwiches can also be a paid skill, earning a lot of money in a sandwich truck in a major metropolis, but usually domestic skills like these are ignored and unpaid. what a shame.

[–] very_well_lost@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

If you're not profit-maxing your sandwich making skills are you even living??

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 37 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Is it blatant? This feels like they're picking evidence to support the conclusion they already came to

Who has expressed the opinion in that quote they made up?

[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 39 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Siri, Bixby, Majel (Google Assistant), Cortana, Alexa… they are all female names and all had female voices at the beginning. I would say it’s blatant and it has been an ongoing topic of discussion as well.

[–] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

Bixby is definitely more masculine than feminine. Samsung actually renamed it to Sam (and gave it a feminine avatar) when they made it smarter. Google Assistant was only called Majel internally and very briefly, as a reference to the voice of the Star Trek computer. Externally, it was always Google Assistant until it was replaced with Gemini. Alexa is still Alexa. Siri is still Siri. Cortana was replaced by Copilot. By my count, that's one masc -> fem, one fem -> neutral, one neutral -> neutral, and two unchanged.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 28 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I’m torn on this because there definitely is a worrying increase in bigotry and tech bro culture, but at the same time OP’s “it’s so blatant once you notice it” could just as easily be “it’s so blatant once you’ve adopted confirmation bias enough to handwave away the exceptions”.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

The evidence is obviously if you decide on the conclusion before looking for it

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[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

It's interesting you cite that article, because it was written in 2018 and presented feminist arguments that we should stop making AI assistants female-coded. Now that the industry has done that exact thing, it's being criticized for it? It looks a lot of a case of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

[–] papertowels@mander.xyz 8 points 2 weeks ago

Tbf, Cortana stems from a fictional AI that has far higher levels of autonomy. I don't think it was chosen with "let's find a good name for a limited AI interface" in mind.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

That has nothing to do with what the post is saying, though. The claim is that techbros stopped using female names because they thought their AI could become sentient. And they're using the "Voice assistants had female names" thing as "evidence"

Also, how many women named Bixby do you know of?

[–] BowtiesAreCool@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Also people absolutely tell ChatGPT and Grok and whatever what to do

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[–] pixxelkick@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

Literally only one AI assistant Im aware of was given a feminine persona out the gate and thats Alexa which is Amazon's.

Every single other one has been purposefully kept gender neutral.

They intentionally gave Siri a gender neutral name ages ago cuz you can pick what its voice sounds like

Same for gemini, copilot, gpt....

Only 1 out of many agents had a female name, and it wasnt "tech bros" that named it.

And only one tool has been given a male name, Claude

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 54 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Siri is a girls name, though. In like ten different languages. It was the 12th most popular girls name in 2009, 2 years before Apple launched Siri in 2011. I understand that it was named for SRI, but it was still a feminine name.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 38 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The default voice is also fem

[–] ch00f@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As someone who used dude-Siri when I still carried Apple hardware, people always asked why I changed it.

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[–] U7826391786239@lemmy.zip 47 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

cortana was named after the video game AI, which was definitely depicted as female

[–] pixxelkick@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah but also is a heavy counterpoint to the point in the post, because Cortana was already a "higher level of autonomy" AI in her first depiction (Halo games), from the start, and Microsoft named it after the character because Microsoft bought Halo and was just doing a nod to the character... So thats literally an outright counterpoint to whatever mental gymnastics the poster of the post was doing...

[–] s@piefed.world 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

In my experience, GPS voices also tend to be feminine by default.

[–] meejle@piefed.world 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I think it's less true now than it once was, but I remembering hearing somewhere that pre-recorded messages on trains/subways/in stations tend to use feminine voices for information, and masculine voices for instructions.

There are definitely still times on the London Underground where you'll hear announcements that switch in the middle, and that does usually seem to be the pattern.

(I realise this doesn't really apply to GPSes, but your comment is what reminded me, so. 😅)

[–] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Defs true for NSW, Australia railways

Man says "smoking is not permitted", woman says "the next station is foo"

I first noticed as a child and it is one of the first times I remember thinking that society wants women to be servile.

[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It has been studied that people respond better for gendered voices in those contexts, but yeah that's probably because it's been preprogrammed into people. It's weird when you notice it in the wild.

[–] naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Not preprogrammed, because patriarchy

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[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago

but I remembering hearing somewhere that pre-recorded messages on trains/subways/in stations tend to use feminine voices for information, and masculine voices for instructions.

Dunno if this is still the case, but this was definitely true of the subway system in NYC when I lived there.

Female voice: the next stop is [x] street

Male voice: stand clear of the closing doors!

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[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Also, Gemini is decidedly masculine, as it refers to the male twins Castor and Pollux, the plural of the latin geminus.

[–] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Etymology is not the same as meaning.

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

And Alexa was named after the library of Alexandria

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[–] very_well_lost@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Siri's default voice is female and all of the early advertising used that same female presentation.

Cortana was female.

I didn't know if Google's original voice assistant had a name, but it's voice was also distinctly female — and still is, Google maps (and other android apps with voice assistance, probably) continues to use that same voice.

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[–] endless_nameless@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Here are my rules for avoiding companies/services based on name:

  • No first names
  • No "-ly", "-ify", or similar
  • No baby talk
  • No glossary terms

Follow these rules and you'll avoid 90% of slop. Not specifically AI slop, human slop too.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] endless_nameless@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Not from corporations :3

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

This is an extremely American English-centric take. The gendering of robot assistants varies widely across different cultures. It’s a heavily studied topic with lots written down for you to learn from. But you’re not intellectually curious, you’re just ignorant and want to make up pseudo-scientific crap to fit your preconceived biases.

[–] BartyDeCanter@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Shitty way to say it, but you’re right. I used to work on mobile industrial robots, the sorts of machines that deliver parts in factories, clean rooms, semiconductor fabs, etc. These are industrial machines and have about as much gender as an office printer. We sold them in countries all over the world. At some point we added an off the shelf text to speech library so that to robots could communicate with non-technical people and say things like, “Excuse me” or “I’m lost”. It supported a bunch of languages and could use a male or female voice.

People in different countries had shockingly strong opinions about what gender the voice should have. The US, Canada, France and UK customers wanted them to be female. Germany and the Spanish speaking countries wanted male. Korea and China wanted male IIRC, but Japan insisted on female.

I’m sure this says something about the culture in all of those places, but I have no idea what.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

American take: computer voices should be female because the higher pitch is easier to understand in an environment with any significant background noise.

[–] BartyDeCanter@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Middle-aged guy take: Computer voices should be medium pitched because we’ve lost too much of our high pitched hearing due to concerts and working in noisy environments.

Grumpy middle-aged guy take: Computers shouldn’t talk to me. If I want get information from one, I’ll use a terminal like Turing intended.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
  1. I mean I've seen Japanese porn too but women who aren't pretending to have pixelated orgasms don't speak that high pitched.

  2. Did Alan Turing live to see a terminal, or did the limeys Conservative him to death before the first interactive UI?

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[–] CameronDev@programming.dev 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Purely an anecdote, but one of my colleagues refers to the robot as "Claudette". I insist on not giving it a gender or anthropomorhising it, it's an it, and I'll keep misgendering/deadnaming the robot forever.

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I work with a lady who calls ChatGPT Chattiana and says she's her best friend. Decent wordplay, terrible way to live

[–] CameronDev@programming.dev 4 points 2 weeks ago

That's quite sad. I hope their joking :(

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[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

The correct pronoun to use was always "it".

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 5 points 2 weeks ago

Um akshualy it's spelled "Chodebot."

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