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I’m from Ukraine and I was forced to move to Austria. I speak German at a B1 level, which I learned in about six months (I also had some basics from school).

What I keep noticing, quite often, is a kind of “white racism” toward Eastern Europeans, especially Ukrainians. Online and in the news there is a lot of sympathy for Ukrainians. In real life, however, we are often treated as if we were mentally backward natives. In one conversation, an Austrian seriously asked me whether we even have the internet in Ukraine. A friend of mine, who already has a child, told me that her child gets bullied at school because of their background, sometimes even indirectly by teachers. Situations like this are not rare.

I’m not here just to complain. I’m genuinely trying to understand why this happens. Why are we treated this way? Is it because Eastern Europe is seen as less economically developed? Yes, salaries are higher here, but not everyone here is a millionaire. I also see many homeless people on the streets who clearly look European, most likely Austrians.

Another friend once told me a story about an Austrian guy she dated. He seemed to come from a wealthy family, with parents working in a big bank. He openly talked about Ukrainian women as prostitutes and Ukrainians in general as homeless people, and his friends supported these views. I’ve also lived in Germany for some time and saw similar attitudes there.

For example, Ukrainians are very often pushed toward jobs like elderly care, as if that’s all we are fit for. Meanwhile, most Ukrainians I know who are now doing hard physical work here actually have higher education. Back in Ukraine they were lawyers, business owners, doctors.

I’m really interested in hearing thoughts on why this perception exists and where it comes from.

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[–] ManaYoodSushai@feddit.org 17 points 1 week ago

All the former eastern block countries (including east Germany, also Yugoslavia) are stereotyped as poor, which carries further stereotypes of criminality, stupidity and general backwardness. There are old German jokes about how poles will steal your car for example.

I would say that its slowly getting better as the economic situation of our direct neighbours improves, but that may well be my bubble, wich is mostly made up of university students. Far right parties are on the rise and I doubt their voters have very nuanced views about any foreigners

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

For example, Ukrainians are very often pushed toward jobs like elderly care, as if that’s all we are fit for. Meanwhile, most Ukrainians I know who are now doing hard physical work here actually have higher education. Back in Ukraine they were lawyers, business owners, doctors.

This part is less because of ethnic chauvinism and more because that's what most of the richer EU countries are short on, plus foreign qualifications just aren't accepted as-is even if you were French or Swedish, and I'd say that knowing the local language to a high level is rather important for lawyering and doctoring. Business owners, that's just how these countries work - I'm a native German who is poor, no one ever pushed me to be a business owner. Countries like Germany should definitely make it less of a pain in the ass to convert foreign qualifications into locally accepted qualifications, though.

I’m genuinely trying to understand why this happens. Why are we treated this way? Is it because Eastern Europe is seen as less economically developed?

Yeah, people from richer EU countries are kinda snooty about being economically developed and whatnot, and genuinely ignorant. People from East Germany were/are treated similarly by West Germans when the GDR collapsed and Germany reunited.

Also, sadly many people in richer EU countries are far right or even the pro-Putin kind of leftist. If they had their way, they'd send you right back and stop supporting Ukraine completely.

[–] HaiZhung@feddit.org 10 points 1 week ago

Crazy, the amount of discussion this questions generates. Nice!

Lots of people are diving into history for this one - I think the answer is much more simple (and stupid).

The people are racist against whomever because they are told to be. Living standards are declining across all western civilizations (fastest in US and UK) due to a staggering rise in inequality.

Now we can’t have the populace going for the uberrich, so we need scape goats. And those are: foreigners, the poor and the sick. The media tells them to hate these people; and so they do. It’s as simple as that.

[–] Scipitie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago

As I'm not a victim of this behaviour and don't share those views please treat this more as educated speculation then anything else.

I see three factors coming together in general towards Eastern countries:

Back in the 60s up until the 80s at least in western Germany there was a huge amount of traveling workers from all eastern countries - mainly turkey for the area I've grown up in but from what I know it was not that country specific.

Those workers were very focused in the construction industry in the beginning and then spread out to other physical labor intensive topics.

The "link" between physical work and a lack of intelligence dates back even way further, "go to University or you have to become a construction worker" stuff. I've seen texts in that direction from the Weimar Republic but I guess it's way older.

Those two combined have anchored te link Eastern European == Construction Workers == Dumb.

That's a stupid chain but I've seen it IRL.

And then there is the general "foreign is evil and weird" that seems to be ingrained so deep in German and Austrian culture it's sad. For some reason everything (food, people, behaviours) that are not familiar or "wrong" until proven otherwise often enough. This tendency makes easy targets out of everyone foreign - and if you look even slightly different that's good enough.

All of that said I've never seen or heard Ukraine specific things - but this is more saying about my bubble than that doesn't exist I assume.

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

It's not just Ukrainians, all eastern Europeans are treated like this.

[–] troed@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago

Great question! Yes, it's from ignorance. Older Europeans still live in the "behind the iron curtain" mentality where we "know" everything's underdeveloped with an oppressed and ignorant populace. For some countries this has started to change, but I'm sure even Poles can attest to it still being the case.

The average knowledge on the difference between Belarus - Russia - Ukraine has increased a lot since 2022, but in 2020 I was asked by my CEO to create a new development office and I realized most people in the company had no idea what the difference was between the top two choices Belarus vs Poland (I went with Poland).

Sincere apologies for our ignorance.

/Swede, who housed a Ukrainian refugee family for a year before they went back. The mother was in IT but could not get any jobs in Sweden although she tried really hard. The daughter immediately excelled in school and found it to be at a way easier level than school in Ukraine.

[–] kalapala@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 week ago

I don't know if this is worth to be noted but currently it seems to be generally hard to find a job no matter the education.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Let me explain. There are multiple factors why Eastern Europeans are looked down upon and underestimated by Western Europeans. Biggest factors are the second world war and the Soviet Union and ignorance. Let's also be honest, rich countries like to think they are better by virtue of being rich. From what I remember Ukraine was also seen by the Soviets as farmland. If I'm not mistaken, Russia still thinks that Ukrainian is just poor, farmer Russian.

A lof of this has to do with history. Germany used to be a big kingdom and had a large neighbour, the Austro-Hungarian empire. The French also had a large empire, many colonies from which they extracted wealth and exacted inhumanity upon. They were only second to the United Kingdom which owned a large chunk of world in the 20th century. Spain and Portugal were smaller players despite their humungous impact on South America. The first and second world war allowed Eastern European countries to gain independence, only to be invaded again and taken over by Russia which became the Soviet Union. Due to this, they had to rebuild from less and had less time as independent nations.

While Eastern Europeans were either under foreign rule, rebuilding, or fighting each other (Balkans are a good example), Western Europe was pulling away in nearly all ways. Most Eastern European countries were mostly agrarian, not industrial, had fewer highly educated people, and recovering from the yoke of the Soviets. Even in Germany, some 35 years after unification and the fall of the Soviet Union, people do not understand the value of democracy. Eastern Germany has the biggest support for the new Nazi party. There are maps of Germany showing the differences: wages are lower, education levels are lower, cities are smaller, religion is more wide-spread, and so on. One famous map of Germany is that of incandescent light bulb usage. Western Germany had moved on to LEDs and Eastern Germany was still buying up incandescent stock.

Eastern Europe still is behind Western Europe on many, many things. Human rights, expenditure, press freedom, democratic values, types of corruption (Western countries are corrupt af, it's just called lobbying and not a visible to the common folk), environmental protection, air quality, expendable income, separation of church and state, alcohol consumption, etc. Videos of anti-queer protests, anti-abortion protests, pro-Russia protests and so on, do no help the image. Migration also still mostly happens from East to West, not the other way around.

I remember talking to Polish people and they were making jokes of Ukrainians. "Did you know that Ukrainian men live 10 years less on average than Ukrainian women? Do you know why? One word, vodka." Poles aren't shy about their drinking habits, but they were tipping their hats to Ukrainians.

So, Western Europeans, especially those who have never been to Eastern Europe have prejudices. I'm not saying they're right to have them, just giving an explanation of why. We are all human and I've met some wonderful Ukrainians, some wonderful Russians, and I've met some asshole Ukrainians and some asshole Russians.

I wish you good luck in Germany.

[–] kalrados12@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Regarding progressive ideas, I strongly disagree with the claim that everyone back home is unprogressive. People who were born and raised in large cities are very progressive. You can also look at the demographic map and see that we have a large number of cities. In addition, a significant part of the population from eastern Ukraine is generally atheist. Those who identify as Orthodox are, in practice, not really religious, and many people there do not even celebrate Christmas. Overall, the country is secular on all sides.

There are also historical and social facts that are often ignored. Women in Ukraine gained access to higher education relatively early compared to many European societies, and women’s participation in education, science, and the workforce has long been normalized. Urban society was shaped by industrialization, strong scientific institutions, and a tradition of secular education. Even today, attitudes toward gender roles, education, and personal freedoms in major cities are closer to what is usually called “progressive” than people from outside often assume.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 1 points 1 week ago

I'm not saying it's "everybody", but look at LGBT rights in Europe - Poland even has "LGBT free zones". Look at how women are treated in the Ukrainian army despite the nation desperately looking for soldiers. Climate change denial has been a problem in many countries, but in 2020 Eastern Europe had more denialism than Western Europe.

If I recall correctly, there are, percentage-wise, more highly educated women in Eastern Europe than Western Europe.

And cities tend to be more progressive wherever you are, but statistically, Eastern Europe as a whole is less progressive, more religious, less highly educated, and poorer than Western Europe.

But just because things are that way, doesn't mean that it's right to pre-judge or treat Eastern Europeans worse. Everyone should be judged by their character, their actions and words, not by their age, ethnicity, sex, gender, or appearance. And even then, we need more empathy to try and understand others.

[–] deifyed@lemmy.wtf 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I believe it's because fear of the unknown is a strong human instinct. Also, it doesn't help that people clawing for power knows the oldest trick in the book for gathering support is to exploit it by blaming something (or someone) less known for any prominent problem

I'm sorry this is happening to you

[–] GarbadgeGoober@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

Very well described.

I think the fear of the unknown is a very big problem.

If you only go on holiday in the 5 star ressorts and never get in touch with the real people who live there, they will always be strangers to you. But if you travel the countries and speak with them, get to know them, a lot of the sentiment will disappear.

As many Europeans couldn't travel the eastern block for a long time, we had our prejudice against the east.

And in the last few years right wing politicians are fuelling them again.

[–] Loui@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

What I've heard from my conservative and far right coworkers is that Ukrainians are leeching. Especially since they got (get?) more money than other immigrants here in Germany if they still depend on the states money.

And those coworkers hate on all immigrants getting money constantly..

I guess their disdain for Ukrainians is not about culture and behaviour like it is with African and Arab immigrants but about the money.

Of course Russian and far right propaganda pushes that narrative to the front and the compassionate narrative back.

But still I think what you experience is a fraction of what African and Arab immigrants have to endure.

I'm sorry. I wish people where more compassionate and less propagandised.

[–] kalrados12@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don’t know how much migrants from other countries receive, but there is one clear difference I personally encountered. On courses in Austria, Syrians were allowed to take exam tests more often and fail them, while Ukrainians were only given a few attempts. If a Ukrainian fails, they can lose their social benefits. I met many Syrians who intentionally failed the test in order not to work for longer. In my group, which I completed, more than half failed the test, and all of them were Syrians. All Ukrainians passed the test. And please understand, I am writing this without racism. This is simply the only situation in which I personally encountered different treatment.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

And yet it's an opinion formed by anecdote.

The same justification can be used by Germans who view Ukrainians with disdain because they know many who get state financial assistance.

[–] Kornblumenratte@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

There is a cultural meme in Western Europe, that dates back to antiquity: West = Good, East = Bad. The West aka "us" - originally the Roman Empire, later through the ages the Franks, the French, the Germanic Tribes after their integration into the Western culture - are the good guys, of course. In the East are the bad guys - the Germanic Tribes before they were integrated, the Sassanid Empire, the Huns, the Awares, the Magyars, the Mongols, the Turks, the Soviets. Western Europe was invaded by people from "The East" basically every couple of generations for almost two millenia. This meme is still pretty alive - just look at the moral geography of Tolkien (who adds South = Bad and North = Used to be Good from an Anglo-Saxon perspective).

Another meme, or rather deeply rooted prejudice is that Slavs are uncivilized. This one is not as old, but dates back to the Middle Ages. When Germanic and Slavic cultures started to clash in the Middle Ages, the Germanic people had absorbed and revived a lot of the antique Roman culture. This lead to a complete Germanification of all Western Slavic tribes between Elbe and Odra. Later Poland was subdued by Prussia (and Russia and Austria) for centuries. In the south, Bohemians and Moravians were partially Germanized, too (Prague has been the capital of the German Empire for quite al long time, and the oldest German university is in Prague). For centuries, German was the language of culture, commerce and administration in almost the entire region inhabited by Western Slavs. When Germans encountered Slavs identifyable as Slavs by their accent or their language, most of them would be be peasants or poor people. Hence Slavic = poor and uncivilized. It was only in 1918 that the Western Slavic people got their freedom from Germanic (i.e. Prussian and Austrian) dominance. During the 20^th century, Fascism and the Iron Curtain did not help to mend these old deep-rooted prejudice, though.

I'm sorry we have not been able to break this prejudices, and ashamed that they are on the rise since a couple of years

[–] Miaou@jlai.lu 3 points 1 week ago

The DACH core, and especially Austria, is the most racist place in Europe, tbf.

[–] TheTiltster@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

Welcome to Austria, I guess. On a positive note, I can assure you that austrians tend to discriminate against anyone not from Austria. Source: A bunch of anecdotes from people in my peer group (germans) who studied or worked in Austria.

[–] kalrados12@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

i also wasn’t sure where exactly this question fits best, so i left it here. if someone knows a better place for it, i can repost..

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

To be blunt, you're asking why does racism exist - humans be shit to each other, it do be like that, unfortunately.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

"Still" - it will never change. The entire point of national identity is to keep people divided. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divide_and_conquer

I think that on a personal level it comes from having to rationalize prosperity in the West. The resources come from unfair trades that can't be acknowledged directly or we would have to accept that these are still colonial structures. So it's national cleverness that sets nations apart. After all, each country can study science and engineering.

Online and in the news there is a lot of sympathy for Ukrainians. In real life, however, we are often treated as if we were mentally backward natives.

  1. Remember the Kurds. The people who push the positive news can take it away.

  2. Look how you have the same prejudices. Other natives have the same potential as Ukrainians.

Look how much some citizens want their country to be part of central Europe. Those prejudices are not limited to Austria.

[–] 5715@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In Germany and Austria, this intensity might very well be a remnant of the fascist past. Culturally though, this sentiment might even be much older: From Charlemagne through the Teutonic Order, Prussian expansionism to 19th century ideas of Ostkolonisation, the East and its people were seen as foreign or lesser. Anti-slavic sentiment was further fueled by religious or ideological differences. After the horrors of WW2 there was little room for reflexion, because the society wasn't willing to recognise what it did and why. It took figures like WW2 resistance fighters (Brandt) in the government to even apologise for the deeds of the Germans. Since then, there was little significant cultural work outside of the GDR to convince the public that this sentiment is bad.

Add to this orientalist white-on-white colorism, i.e. racism that constructs a white other, to discriminate both white people and PoC.

Anti-slavic sentiment is so prevalent, that small children are informally taught to say stuff like "The Russians are coming" when a large group of people is running fast. There is just so much stuff like that, which the society as a whole never really reflected about.

I'm really sorry about your experience.

[–] unknownuserunknownlocation@kbin.earth 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Since then, there was little significant cultural work outside of the GDR to convince the public that this sentiment is bad.

I don't know if you've been to the former East and former West in Germany, but the east generally has more problems dealing with their past as well as fascist sentiments. There's a reason the AfD is mostly represented in the former East.

The approach in the GDR was very punitive, while in the West there was a more holistic approach. Of course, that means that the GDR had more direct consequences to show, but the results speak volumes.

[–] 5715@feddit.org 1 points 1 week ago

The focus of this post is specifically about Anti-East-European-sentiment. I'd say that in the »New Federal States« fascism is an existential threat and I agree that the GDR has a significant co-responsibility in that, but we weren't talking about that. Both FRG and GDR became de-facto satellites of their respective power blocs after the war and this condensed culturally as well, with the GDR having Russian soldiers stationed, percentages of the populace being taught Russian, propaganda campaigns painting East Europe and Russia in a positive light - none of that happened in the FRG.

I also want to highly recommend decoupling sentiment and political ideology. Sentiment resulting from propaganda (by Nazis, Kaiserreich, Aristocracy etc) might last much longer than the exchangeable and complex political ideology. That means: Todays fascists can have no Anti-East-European sentiment and Conservatives or SocDems can have Anti-East-European sentiment.

[–] unknownuserunknownlocation@kbin.earth 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think there are a multitude of factors at play here.

For one, as with any country, it's different from community to community. There are communities that are more accepting and communities that are less accepting. Unfortunately, you seem to have run into there latter.

Is it because Eastern Europe is seen as less economically developed?

I think that's one of the reasons. I think a further reason is the iron curtain, I've noticed that still influences the thinking of a number of people. For quite a while, there was barely any exchange across that border - that allows stereotypes and prejudices to fester. I've noticed in a number of communities that actually having regular contact with the affected people is the best way to break down barriers. The Iron curtain did the exact opposite of that.

Then, I have the impression that for many there is a certain visual similarity between a number of East block countries and Sinti and Roma, where there are a lot of stereotypes present, which comes on top.

I think the fact that there is a war going on there also changes things. I've noticed a tendency to look down on war torn countries (and to be fair, I don't think it's a stretch to say that wore torn countries are worse off - you've left Ukraine for a reason, after all, as difficult a decision as that must have been). That compounds the whole situation, regardless of why that war is happening.

For example, Ukrainians are very often pushed toward jobs like elderly care, as if that’s all we are fit for. Meanwhile, most Ukrainians I know who are now doing hard physical work here actually have higher education. Back in Ukraine they were lawyers, business owners, doctors.

I don't know if that's directly a result of the discrimination. I don't know about the specifics on Austria, but I do know that getting diplomas recognized is a huge can of worms, which will definitely make things more difficult.

Then comes the language barrier, which can add quite a level of difficulty. Learning a new language is no easy feat, and I feel like even that is an understatement. From that perspective, your reaching B1 within a half a year is an impressive accomplishment - congratulations! Unfortunately, the occupations you mentioned are mostly occupations where communication is extremely important. In the position of a doctor, for instance, a miscommunication can lead to serious consequences. I've worked in a safety critical domain and have had to work with people who didn't speak the language too well, and I've definitely contemplated sending people away. Better someone being insulted about their language skills than a misunderstanding leading to, well, in the worst case scenario, serious injuries and deaths, to put it bluntly. Hard labor generally involves less complicated communication and less communication in the first place, making the language barrier less of an issue.

I don't know the details of your situation, but try to see if you can't get your German to at least a B2 or even better, a C1. While it won't change the other factors I've mentioned, it should significantly reduce the language barrier. And since you've managed B1 within a half a year, something tells me that at least from a skills perspective, you should be able to do it.

EDIT: I forgot, the "Ukrainians are Nazis" propaganda definitely doesn't help, either.

[–] kalrados12@feddit.org 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have better chances here, because I still plan to complete higher education, as I have some opportunities for this and the age to do so. I should note that I already have a higher education degree, which I obtained in Ukraine. I understand that I mentioned examples of professions that are difficult to integrate into society. But believe me, in many cases language is not the problem, because all these people, regardless of age, learn the language well. They all have B2 or C1.

I should also say that Austria does not allow us to complete language courses at B2 level or higher for free; those have to be paid for out of pocket. In addition, we are not allowed to train for professions where there are many locals.

I’ll give an example. My best friend, after graduating from university in Ukraine, went to her caseworker, who asked her what she wanted to work as here. She said she wanted to work as a Bürofrau. She was told that this was impossible because only Germans work there. She didn’t just face resistance — she was effectively pushed into becoming a caregiver for the elderly. Her diploma was completely ignored. And these stories are the same for almost all Ukrainians.

Ouch, OK, that's pretty extreme. I've heard things are worse in Austria - I didn't realize they were that bad, at least in the area you're in. Sorry to hear that.

Maybe it's worth looking for a more accepting area? I have a colleague who's from Egypt and a number of distant colleagues from all around the world including Ukraine who are working here in Germany - and as academics, not as caregivers or manual labor jobs (mind you, I don't mean it as putting down those jobs - they can also have be really fulfilling, just obviously not if that's not what you're after). I obviously can't say that there's absolutely never any discrimination, but they obviously managed to get into those positions, which is a lot better than what you're experiencing.

I understand that it's much more easily said than done, but it might be something at least worth exploring.

Oh, and

She was told that this was impossible because only Germans work there.

I'm pretty sure that's illegal unless the laws in Austria are that different. Might be worth reporting that. Might not yield any direct results, but if it even just increases the statistics, it might be worth it. If just to have a counterweight to some people claiming foreigners don't want to work so that one can point at that statistic and say "see, they are being prevented from working".

[–] freeman@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

There is a two dimensional racist dynamic in Europe. As you go East and South you are considered less European/"White" by the people North/West-wards.

[–] butiloveyou@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

well as other said, it boils down to basic rasicm against everything that's different, the more different it is, the more stupid people voice and show their dislike for it.

and I don't know about Austria but there is a noticeable percentage in Germany that also eats up Russian propaganda and see you at fault for the war.

[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 2 points 1 week ago

IDK, ask the Polish.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago

probably propaganda perpetrated by RUSSIA too, since they also use it to spread "anti-immigration" message to the conservatives in europe.

[–] zout@fedia.io 2 points 1 week ago

It's because extreme right wing politicians have been calling for decades that any foreigner is out to take your belongings and your job. Sure, there was some sympathy when the war started, and in the news there still is. But the right wing just thinks the Ukranian people should cut their losses to end the war so everyone can go home. It doesn't help that most right wing politicians get payrolled by Russia.

[–] BB84@mander.xyz 1 points 1 week ago

I know this is not your intention, but I think your post is poorly phrased and could be misinterpreted as "Why are they racist toward me?? I'm not African!!!"

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Can't answer for Europeans, but as an American I gotta say Eastern Europeans are my favorite Europeans personally.

There's a lot less of the "I'm better than you" attitude I see from Western Europeans, I'd rather drink illegally imported Rakija with a Serb than talk to another Dutch guy for five minutes any day of the week.

Sample "size" is some British, French, Dutch, Spaniards, and more I'm sure I'm forgetting, VS a couple Yugos fleeing the war, a Polish guy, a Croatian, a Serb married to a Russian lady, about 5 Russian dudes (they're all cool though they're over here and not pro-war), two Bulgarians, one guy who idr where he was from but he was a Merchant Marine, and I think that is it (also a Ukranian girl but she was raised here and I never met her parents so I don't count her really). Literally without fail all of the Easterners have been cooler than the Westerners in terms of ego if nothing else (but also way cooler in other ways too, they're not snitches, they're resourceful, they'll help you with shit if they can, they're just more chill in general, they're usually funnier [not always but usually]).

There have been a few Western Europeans I've met that fit better with the Eastern category in terms of "how much I like them." The Irish are usually pretty cool as well (they're dicks but in a fun way ime, I just give them shit back and we become friends), and one German guy who was cool as hell.

[–] kalrados12@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

I don’t know how true this is. But I spoke to an American guy here, and when I asked him what struck him about Germany and what is different compared to America, he mentioned attitudes toward other cultures. He said that if an American hears that you are from some unusual place or an interesting culture, they will want to take an interest in you and ask questions. Germans, on the other hand, never really ask; they may simply not care.