Kinda weird that US culture tends to demonize handouts, yet handouts in the shape of tips is expected and you're a bad person for not providing them.
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A very simple solution is for restaurants to offer a second all-inclusive version of the menu with taxes and suggested tipping included in the prices. Can't cost more than a half hour of work and the price of ten printed pieces of paper.
Tipping culture is getting crazy.
It’s gotten out of hand. I ordered winter boots via an online shoe store and the check-out prompt asked if I would like to tip. There’s a tip prompt when I buy a container of carrot sticks at the roadside convenience store.
I would love to do away with the awkward conversations about what I’m doing next while using the point of sale terminal at restaurants. The ritual of annoying small talk in the hope that I select 20% for a tip is tiresome.
Fuck this is a difficult one.
Tipping culture is a throwback to slavery times and is very typical of the predatory nature that exists within employment in the US. The position that customers need to pay a tip because the server needs a liveable wage that isn’t covered by employers and built into law is essentially being held hostage due to an unfair system.
That said, waitstaff depend on this for a liveable wage and by not paying the tip, you’re denying that worker fair income. It’s not their fault directly, it’s the system they are under.
Looking from the outside, it comes back to the same thing; the reluctance of Americans to engage in building a decent society by collectively voting to build that, rather than voting or even not voting at all to take care of themselves. Again, it’s another case of ‘you get out what you put in’. A 60% voter turnout reflects the quality of what’s been elected and makes it easy for bad actors to get what they want, especially when their base does turn out.
To get those things, they need to at least vote and vote for people who will give them the things they want like legislated, decent wages. Sometimes it also means some hardship or compromise. Here, that means wait staff would be giving up the potential of big tips for the benefit of decent wages and perhaps healthcare.
Personally? Of course I’d tip them; I’m in Rome so I’d do as the Romans do and I’m aware that's their income. I’d also feel like I was held hostage by a shithouse, predatory system brought about by Americans lack of care for their own people though.
I’m in Rome so I’d do as the Romans
You'd own and rape slaves too?
No? So there is a Rubikon that you don't cross after all?
If I was a tourist in Rome, and the only currency was raping a slave then i wouldn't visit rome. But if I was visiting Rome and knew that the people serving me food needed to be paid directly because they would otherwise starve and become destitute then i would pay the Roman workers directly as is the custom of Rome.
If they would starve when we don't give them handouts, they should riot and change the system. Not blame tourists.
Yeah and it's much closer to "I'll pay a little more to make sure that person can afford to eat today" than, "owning and raping slaves".
The point of that argument is to give an example on why the other argument does not make sense.
"When in Rome, do as the Romans" is bullshit. No matter the context.
So anyone who is underpaid at work should ask customers to pay extra instead of taking it up with their boss? Should grocery store staff start spitting in people's food if customers dont hand over 20% more money at the checkout?
I'm all for supporting workers and i begrudgingly tip in our broken system most of the time... but i cant stand the entitlement of service staff who get pissed about bad tippers... take it up with your boss...
This is just the rich business owners (who are underpaying their staff) dividing the working class by framing this as the fault of the customer (typically also working class people...)
So now waitstaff are complaining about bad tippers and fighting other workers rather than focusing on the real problem.
It's been pointed out to me a few times recently that a lot of hospitality staff don't actually want the system to change as they usually don't declare their full income from the tips to the taxman.
If they unionise and change things, their whole income becomes taxable, and they feel that they lose.
This seriously undermines the sympathy I have for the staff as a group. The tools for change are right there, but there are enough bootlickers and foolish individualists to poison any attempt at change short of a general strike. (I'm under no illusions as to the inevitable violent government response to such a thing either.)
Ultimately it comes down to; "Either change your system with group action, like everywhere else did, or keep whining about getting stiffed, your choice."
Servers in America can work 20-30 hours a week and pretty easily make 40-50 dollars an hour. Very few restaurants can afford to pay their staff that much. These servers aren’t making 5 dollars an hour like everyone thinks. I personally think the most messed up thing about the restaurant industry is the cooks make the least amount of money out of everyone. Sysco reps, delivery drivers, servers, bartenders, owners, they all profit off of the kitchen.
So you agree it’s dumb s fuck that only the last chain, those who carry the food to the table should be tipped
It is completely out of control. I have been asked to tip at self operated vending machines. WTF?
They're unconfigured PoS systems. Look at all the different PoS solutions out there. You never know where or when to tap your credit card, hit yes before or after the transaction is initiated. It's generally smaller vendors not configuring non-out-of-the-box solutions. Simple as that.
That's because vending machines aren't actually paid at all and rely entirely on tips. Little known fact.
Damn. What a heartless bastard I am.
Stop being a robophobe
Welcome to the wage slave states of America! Hopefully you get out before you find out how much I.C.E. costs here. Ha!
Seriously don’t come here if you value your safety or your possessions.
My favorite thing I saw recently in relation to tipping - was this sign at a restaurant about what the minimum wage was and encouraging tipping.
I'm assuming that sign was put up or at least tacitly endorsed by the management.
It's almost as if they don't have any agency over what they pay their own workers and they are then shaming customers into making up the difference? WTF?
Of course it was. Tipping is a scam by business owners to have customers pay wages so they don’t have to.
You think that's bad? We have ads on our gas pump handles and a 'donation' question everytime we use a pos
Let's fix this headline.
American's Confused By Fair Wage Practices of Civilized Countries
The article could start like this:
Some Americans, more specifically those from the socalled "United States", are confused by fair wages and other basic social norms on civilized countries.
Which American?
You know who! It's the American with the Confused. He owns it!
Ci... Civ... Civ-il... Civil-i? Civil-iz? Civil rights? CIVIL RIGHTS COUNTRIES?! Does your country's ICE know about this???
Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been bad tippers.
Should read:
Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been making staff aware that I and other businesses are bad employers.
Yeah, why's the bar owner being quoted in a paragraph about the frustrations of hospitality staff? He's the one not paying them a fair wage and expecting the customers to subsidize his payroll!
It's been known for some time that many of those from outside the US are unfamiliar with our tipping culture. I was a waiter in a nice restaurant in '96 when the Olympics were in Atlanta. We had lots of large parties that we added a 20% gratuity to, and clearly indicated on the check and no one complained. But normally the only place you encountered tipping then was in a sit-down restaurant with waiters. Now there's a thousand and one places where you're encouraged to tip. Even places where it's only counter service and you're supposed to put money in a tip jar when you pay the cashier. It's all over the place and it's completely ridiculous and out of hand. Americans hate it. It's no wonder our guests are confused and pissed off.
Well if you travel to the US for the World Cup you're either ignorant as fuck or you like the direction they're going and want to sponsor it.
You chose to go. Stay and suffer or leave and get better.
We don’t pay our workers, lol. That’s on you!
Just remember, tipping is optional. Don’t feel like you need to be guilted into doing it.
Outlaw tipping? Make it socially embarrassing and shameful to accept a tip? Make tipping in America like tipping in Japan?
Top do that you'd need to guarantee tip earning workers a minimum wage and raise the minimum wage so someone can actually survive with it.
Im an American and I tip because it's how servers get paid in the US.
I've also been to other countries where restaurants just, ya know, pay their employees.
It's not complicated. Just give your employees money in exchange for their labor. Somehow other countries just pay their employees and amazingly they still have restaurants and bars.
Don't worry American citizens are also confused by the expensive tipping culture in the US. I still maintain 15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below. Giving above 15% is just subsidizing the pay the employer should be giving. It's a symptom of the fact that wages have stagnated for over 50 years. The pay that once supported someone and even a child is now far below the poverty line for even an individual. So instead of increasing pay to match what it once was many businesses have turned to aggressive tipping over just increasing the prices of their service / products.
The price on the menu isn’t anywhere near the bill the expect you to pay at the end.
Bill = menu-price + taxes + 20% tip
(where 20% is just a rough average)