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[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 11 points 1 hour ago

MLK jr and the civil rights movement are just as much a part of America as Jim Crow and slavery. ICE is America but so is every protester fighting it. Lincoln is America. The KKK is America. Trump is America. Luigi is America.

The thing about people is we like to make things simple and put things in a box, and not have exceptions. But that's almost never true, and the US is a land of contradictions. We're very good people, and we're very bad people.

So yeah, it's going down the drain, but it's always been going down the drain. It's also going to get better, and it always has, little by little. Hopefully we can weather this storm and rebuild.

[–] SuspciousCarrot78@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago

I don't know. You (as an American) are in a better place to judge that than I.

What I do know is this: people are people. And for every rotten son of a bitch, there's someone else, quietly, moving heaven and earth to do good - both in big ways and small. If we're going to tilt at windmills, we may as well tilt at windmills together.

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Everywhere there are good people doing good things with the best of intentions - people doing art for the love of the art, actually taking care of natural areas for the love of nature, helping others because they don't want others to suffer rather than as some "charity" grift to make money or make others think they're good people, and so on.

They're just not in power in the US and, IMHO, don't add up to anywhere close to being the majority of people.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Uh, we have the best military, the best medicine, the best universities, broadest cultural reach... etc.

Life in liberal blue progressive areas, is highly desirable and really great, but it's very expensive.

It's just that you aren't getting access to any of it unless you're part of our social elite. If you're in the bottom 90% of the economic status, you are only ever going to get access to the middling/average stuff.

I'd say it has made most Americans stop taking democracy, or even sanity in our leaders, for granted. We've always looked out over the oceans at "them" and pitied those countries with crazy leaders and corruption and now it has taken roost here.

[–] Xylian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Accelerating EU integration through the threat of invading Greenland,Iceland and thus Greenland -> Denmark -> EU.

[–] JackFrostNCola@aussie.zone 19 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I would probably say your movie and tv show industry, im not going to comment on the the actual conditions for writers, actors, people who work in the industry (out of my expertise), the output is pretty amazing. No other country has produces the sheer content and quality of media you do.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 hour ago

This was unexpectedly wholesome. Thanks homie.

[–] dg2445@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 hours ago
[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

American here.

No. We're living in the early stages of a fascist dictatorship. And we've been doing this to the rest of the world for way too fucking long. The sooner we come to grips with the fact that the hens have come home to roost and we're reaping what we've sown, the sooner we can actually take it down and build something better.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 3 points 2 hours ago

I don't think there was much of a reason to ever be proud of it, if you're ashamed now. You can still be proud of what your fellow americans put out : on the culture and research fronts most notably... the US shines far, even though I hear the Trump admin hurt some universities.
But on the political level ? it's still the murderous empire it has been for the past 80 years, just a little more open about it

As a fellow American, I'm going to make a big assumption here and advise you to engage with more people outside. Lemmings are great and all but we do not represent the real world. I can say this has helped me and man, am I worlds better for it.

Right now, the internet is quasi-weaponized against everyone's better mental health. A lot of people are being fed propaganda that aligns strongly with their beliefs, with many people being sucked into a narrow, amplified, and semi-fictional view of reality. You have to dig deep to find real journalism, facts, and then puzzle together a less biased worldview; few people are there to do any of that legwork for you these days. It's all exhausting and a recipe for mental illness if you do it constantly.

Instead, try to get out there and just talk to one person; better yet a stranger. Even if it's just smalltalk. Even if it's about the weather with a librarian or a checkout clerk. ANYONE. If you can make your way to a club, mutual-aid hub, local meetup, whatever... that's even better. The goal is to just verbalize with other humans. The rest will follow from there.

[–] reksas@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

i'd say only americans that have cause to be proud of themselves are the ones who are actively opposing what is happening to your country.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 2 hours ago
[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago

All hope is false, unless engineered, built action by action. You want hope? Build it.

[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 18 points 5 hours ago

It's very easy to disparage a nation state due to the actions of their government and forget that there are good people everywhere that are well intentioned and trying to do the right thing. The No Kings protest movement is a good example of that. Building solidarity movements with humane values is the way we change society for the better.

[–] zbyte64@awful.systems 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Yeah, we are about to get served a big slice of humble pie so bring your appetite. The pain we are all experiencing is there to tell us we cannot continue the way we were. We had the option to change in the past but didn't because it was too hard, now there is no avoiding change.

[–] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

the lgbtq+ rights in your country seems amazing compared to my own

[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

they are being eroded fast tho

check literally any LGBTQ+ focused news site

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

No they aren't. They are being eroded in red states, blue states are expanding them.

Hell, San Francisco has a UBI program that' exclusively for LGBT folks.

[–] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 1 points 4 minutes ago

There's absolutely some federal bills eroding LGBT rights, particularly for trans people.

There has been an increase interest in NATO and I believe they are working to contribute more to defense because they can no longer expect help from the USA.

[–] cabillaud@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Not US here. I sometimes think that Americans are nice individuals, generaly speaking, but they are collectivly ferocious.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Americans are radically different depending on what region, and social class, of American you are interacting with.

But that's true of any country. Every country hates and is embarassed by the poor uneducated douchebags, and loves their elite well-off cultured population.

UK has way more chavs living in shitty places with bad economics, than it does 'posh' people with nice accents living in London. USA is no different.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

For some additional geographic context: The United States is roughly the size of Europe. A little larger if you include Alaska, a little smaller if you don't. The entirety of England is roughly the size of Illinois.

[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 20 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You should be proud to be human.

Not to be born within some imaginary line drawn on a map, in an area that later got "cleaned" as much as possible of everyone else not speaking the same language or worshipping the same god.

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

Pride comes with accomplishment.

Being human, being American, being male, being white, these are all accidents of birth. There's no reason to take pride in any of it.

Bring born in to a disaffected class of people, being gay, or a person of color, and overcoming that adversity to any measure of success, that merits some pride.

But just being human? Anybody can do that.

[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I understand but I think we call pride also the sense of belonging to a chain of individuals that achieved growth of knowledge, rights, scientific discoveries and engineering results.

It is a meaning of the word that would easily lend itself to manipulation but also one that allowed individuals to contribute and to stand on the shoulders of giants.

In that sense, the highest level one would easily be being human.

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[–] Reygle@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago
[–] Sgt_choke_n_stroke@lemmy.world 15 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

No we're at the end of an empire and the dawn of a new world. Our bases across the middle east will be abandoned. More will be emptied or destroyed. Our influence across the world will shrink more than it is now.

The states we have may stay. Alaska might try to break off and join Canada in 50 years. Hawaii might join Australia and New Zealand as well.

Unless we get a political party that will advocate for taxing the fuck out of the rich to invest in america via trains, healthcare and R&D.

Don't get your hopes up.

[–] ZMonster@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Alaska might try to break off and join Canada in 50 years.

I wish we would do that today. But unless the military and oil leaves the state, we're still carpetbagged by southern evangelical morons. This state is solid red for now. And they think Canada is socialist because they think it's bad and that's all they know. We're not going anywhere.

[–] fierysparrow89@lemmy.world 8 points 6 hours ago

Whatever may come, there is one sure thing: nobody will trust the US ever again. It may take the old allies a while to find their footing and they may still be dependant on the US. But that relationship will be more like that of the abusive caretaker vs abused teen. Biding their time until they finally can exit the dependance.

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