throwaway789

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Okay, so I found out that my boyfriend went from loving to indecisive and seemingly distant. I feel bad, though, because it turns out that while he says he wants me and he can handle a relationship, he's actually badly depressed to the point where he can't do much and can't talk to me much. He is always doing bad and extremely upset and low.

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 2 points 15 hours ago

Thank you so much. πŸ«‚

 

I hate this. So I (18FtM) have a BF (24M) and he has been showing me less affection and not really taking an interest in my things or what I want to do. He doesn't really like my interests but it's okay, we've been getting along. Sometimes, he doesn't even know if he wants to be with me, but it's okay.

Meanwhile, I just met this guy (19M) earlier today and we're really hitting it off, although we just met. I'm starting to like him and IDK what to do because I like my boyfriend too and probably like him more.

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 1 points 18 hours ago

Thank you so much!!! I agree with the phone usage, they just don't want me to have bad sleep

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 1 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

I did, he said it was fine but I still feel bad for making him panic

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 3 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

thank you so much. I'm 18, he's 24. i told him i couldn't be there because i had to go to bed but he didn't seem to read the message

 

Yesterday, my boyfriend was very stressed and was going through a lot of family issues. I told him I couldn't stay for long. My family is strict and wanted me to go to bed and not be on my phone. My boyfriend then was asking where I was and why I was offline and not responding. He must not have seen my message but I had to go. And I feel so bad that he didn't read it and that I had to go, I feel like such an awful person for not being able to help. I know I suck, I know I just could've snuck it, but I just want someone to listen. Not criticism, please, like many people have said.

He doesn’t know if he’s ready for a relationship in general, thank you so much

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Thank you so much, hopefully he'll act better soon. If not, I'll leave for sure.

That makes sense, thank you..

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks so much

That could very well be

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 6 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Thanks so much. Maybe because I'm in love so I'm sugarcoating it, but I feel like he really tries not to hurt me and just wants to be friends.

 

I made a throwaway so as not to clutter my main. I'm a bit sad but he doesn't want me to feel bad. He keeps me so he's not lonely, but he doesn't know whether or not he wants to break up and just strings me along, I guess. "I love you" one minute, "let's break up" the next. My mom says I'm being played, IDK.

I don't even know what we are because he keeps trying to walk out of the conversation and he doesn't care about my interests or what I want. I've tried talking to him, he says it's the way he is. Also, he gives me words of affirmation but apparently my brain says that's not enough. I don't know anymore. Just venting, ugh.