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I feel like such a bad boyfriend (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 day ago by throwaway789@lemmings.world to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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Yesterday, my boyfriend was very stressed and was going through a lot of family issues. I told him I couldn't stay for long. My family is strict and wanted me to go to bed and not be on my phone. My boyfriend then was asking where I was and why I was offline and not responding. He must not have seen my message but I had to go. And I feel so bad that he didn't read it and that I had to go, I feel like such an awful person for not being able to help. I know I suck, I know I just could've snuck it, but I just want someone to listen. Not criticism, please, like many people have said.

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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Did you re-explain yourself the next day? How did he respond?

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I did, he said it was fine but I still feel bad for making him panic

[–] dingus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Oh! Then you're not a bad bf and it doesn't sound like a toxic relationship (well from that minimal info anyway...could be other things going on)! Like the other user stated, it is a bit odd how your parents are still controlling your phone usage, but other than that it sounds like everything is ok! Don't worry about it! Miscommunications happen!

[–] throwaway789@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago

Thank you so much!!! I agree with the phone usage, they just don't want me to have bad sleep

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