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[–] AlternatePersonMan@lemmy.world 100 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Took me a second. Can relate.

"Where do you want to eat?" "Anywhere is fine with me. You pick." "How about burgers." "No, I don't want burgers tonight." "How about..." "No. Not there." "Okay, you choose." "I don't want to choose."

[–] superkret@feddit.org 62 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Not sure what went wrong or right in my marriage but I can't relate to these common tropes at all. Maybe it's a difference in culture (I'm not from the US), but my wife and I both actively work to find a consensus in any decision no matter how small.

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 84 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You're probably not in the boomer generation:

They have this 'I hate my wife' trope in their humor for some reason.

[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Don't mind us X-gen over in the corner. Sometimes it's better to not be part of the disaster anyway.

[–] porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gen X is just slightly less ancient boomers with occasional tattoos tbh

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[–] 5too@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like you can track this some in early TV shows. Way back when, you had shows like I Love Lucy and Leave it to Beaver, featuring loving, largely functional families. Once this became an expected trope, shows like The Honeymooners and The Flintstones subverted that expectation, but became such a hit that they became the formula to emulate - so it became common to joke about marital strife.

Sometimes you'd get a show like The Addams Family, that would again subvert this new expectation; but they didn't start becoming the norm until much more recently.

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[–] originalfrozenbanana@lemm.ee 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah I’ve never really understood the β€œmy SPOUSE am I right?” bits. That’s your spouse. You ought to…work on that.

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Women in America (other countries too I’m sure) have been (and still are to some extent) treated like objects or property of a man. It’s barely been over 100 years (1910) since they finally earned their right to vote. It wasn’t until the 60s that no-fault divorce was allowed, as well as women being able to have their own bank accounts.

Even the Charleston Heston movie Soylent Green perpetuated the property stereotypes by calling all women in the movie β€œfurniture”.

We’re still fighting some of these same battles today (no-fault divorce seems to be on the chopping block, and abortion is banned again).

So we β€œ1st-world” Americans as a country still have a long way to go to bringing women (and other non-white male groups) to genuine equality.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't forget that being a divorcee was a bad tag to have hung upon you.

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[–] zeet@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Think you'll find 'Charleston Heston' was the dance number performed to, "Don't it Taste just like your Mammy's?", in the musical version of Soylent Green.

[–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Boomers are just at the (hopefully) tail end of a long tradition of bad marriages. No fault divorce has only been in the US since the mid 1970s, so a lot of boomer parents were kind of stuck with each other. Today, there's at least the possibility of parting amicably, before it all really turns to shit. The parents of boomers were a lot more likely to be coerced into early, or even arranged marriages by social and economic power structures. So boomers were brought up in environments where shitty marriages were common fodder for comedy.

By the time Gen-X & esp Millennials are born, women get a lot more autonomy, both parents frequently work and have active interests outside the home to temper home stresses, and it's much more common to break up bad marriages and try again.

It really is amazing how much better life can be if one is not locked into rigid social structures.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Divorce was socially unacceptable, no matter the laws. That was a big deal.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You married a man. /s

In all seriousness. I have a happy marriage. We're awesome at communication and never argue. But things get indescivie during take out. It just happens.

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Exactly this. My wife and I work together, like the adults we are. Just be honest with each other.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 48 points 1 year ago (2 children)

After my wife heard a similar complain and we guessed that what they want is us being able to figure out their taste and preference, she now says: "CHOOSE MERE MORTAL YOUR FATE, know my heart's desire wisely or perish"

Or something along those lines. She's a Ghostbuster's fan if you can tell.

[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] TheLowestStone@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Seriously, is she single? Also, please don't tell my wife that I asked.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I gave up playing this game.

"You hungry?
'Yes.'
"What do you want?"
'I don't know.'
"OK I'm craving burgers from X place. I'll order two burgers in 30 minutes unless you tell me you want something else."

So far it's working well. Either she orders from where I want or somewhere close by.

'I'm feeling Chinese.' Baby you can get whatever you want. I'll hit two spots or switch my order.

[–] wjrii@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

I’ve allayed liked that the idea that if you say no to a suggestion in this situation, it is now your turn to suggest something.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

It took a couple years to get my wife to be more assertive about this stuff. I'd just keep picking places I knew she hated until she'd make a decision.

Just the other day she turned it around on me. Asked me which of two options I wanted, I said whichever she feels like and she came back with, "No, I want to know what you want." So I laughed and gave her my preference.

[–] Moobythegoldensock@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

My wife and I always give each other 2-3 options and take turns narrowing it down. Same with movies: We start out with our Trakt list and take turns narrowing it down until we get something we both want to watch.

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[–] MNByChoice@midwest.social 64 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I thought for sure this was a sex joke.

[–] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

It doesn't have to not be.

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I've heard that the trick is to make it a guessing game.

We're going to eat out tonight, but it's a surprise. Guess!

Don't always go with the first option, keep it random between options

[–] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

You devious genius.

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[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I hopped up and I said

"I don't know, do you want to get something delivered?"

She's like "Why would I want to eat liver?

I don't even like liver!"

I'm like "No, I said 'delivered.'"

She's like "I heard you say 'liver!'"

I'm like "I should know what I said."

She's like "Whatever, I just don't want any liver!"

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[–] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 year ago

My wife sent me this unbidden

Meanwhile i'm double-digit hours away from WDW

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
    (Oh no!)   
She's gonna rock  
      down   
       to  
*ELECTRIC AVENUE*
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[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 5 points 1 year ago

These two remind me of AJ and Miranda from the now defunct User Friendly webcomic. On the plus side, it would mean that AJ got his act together enough to be in a relationship with Miranda, but either she's found a new favourite restaurant all of a sudden or he's goofed something up and this is a subtle way of messing with him as revenge.

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