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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] TASchwitters@lemmings.world 3 points 1 day ago

But you don’t retain your memories from the previous life, and what if you are reborn as someone who has a worse life and isn’t aware they can do it again?

[–] Sir_Simon_Spamalot@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm pretty sure in Buddha, where the concept of reincarnation comes from, suicide would negatively affect the karma, which would affect how one would reincarnate. CMIIW tho

[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

As if religious teachings ever stopped people from doing certain things...

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago

One step forward, two steps back.

[–] NoOutlinesBand@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Life sucks?

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

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[–] 0x0@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

For a moment i read Suicide rats would likely rise sharply if reincarnation were ever proven. and i'll just leave it at that.

Good band name, callin' it.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

The short story collection/sorta novel Haunted by Pahlanuik ends with the discovery that the planet Venus (I think? Might have been Jupiter) is essentially an eternal awesome orgy heaven, which everyone will eventually end up reincarnating on when they die. So everyone on earth essentially decides to kill themselves. Stores have to start locking up suicide kits because people will just take them in the store and die before paying.

That entire thing is fucked up. I read it somewhere around sophomore year of high school and existentially traumatized me. There are stories in there that somehow 4chan shock image level in just written words.

[–] FlyingCircus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Pahlanuik has a certain way of planting images in your brain that stay there for decades. Such a weird, brilliant, fascinating and slightly off-putting author. He really captures the ennui, alienation, despair, and absurdity of late-stage capitalism.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

stay there for decades

Yeah. I read that book 20 years ago, and I can still vividly remember someone microwaving some meat and discovering that it was their own ass cheek, or a cis woman being accused of being trans and being sexually assaulted, someone falling into a spring at Yosemite, and of course, “Guts.”

He has a schtick with memorable twists, similar to Fight Club. I think Choke was the only novel of his I remember not really having a giant record scratch moment - Lullaby, Invisible Monsters, etc have huge twists. Like discovering the orgy heaven at the end of Haunted which really just serves to punch you in the gut - absolutely all of the fucked up things that the characters were doing to try to be famous was absolutely pointless, because everyone on Earth is killing themselves anyways.

The only fiction authors I can think of that have given me the same level of intense shock and revulsion would be Ágota Kristóf with the Notebook trilogy (which is spectacular and everyone should read) and Samuel Delany’s Hogg (which no one should read under any circumstances.)

[–] stickyprimer@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago (11 children)

Frankly I think there’s already a gap on this with religious belief. If SO many people truly believe in god and an afterlife, there should be more suicides. Okay, it’s a sin. Fine. But then why aren’t people happier when a relative passes? It’s almost like no one actually really believes this shit at the end of the day.

[–] Saffire@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I've always said that if I were to believe that there was an eternal afterlife that entry depended on how you lived your relatively short life on Earth, then why would I waste any time in life doing anything other than securing my chances at the good afterlife. Like if you actually believed that, then wouldn't you live your life as a model person according to how the Bible says you should? It's shortsighted to do anything else with your life.

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[–] DarkMetatron@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I am atheistic and agnostic personally, so not speaking from faith but:

People can have two (or more) emotions at the same time, they can be happy and joyfull that their relative is in a better place now and at the same time sad and tearfull that the person is no longer with them. Happy for the dead, sad for themself.

It is not a contradiction, it only shows the very deep and complicated ways of our mind and emotions.

[–] stickyprimer@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That’s fair - I’d agree. I guess I just don’t see the happy at all.

[–] DarkMetatron@feddit.org 1 points 22 hours ago

I think that is because emotions for ourself are stronger and directer then those that we feel in behave of others. The pain and sadness of the personal loss overshadows the happyness that the other person is in a better place.

But this is only my personal explanation, based on my 45 years on this planet but without any hard facts or scientific data to back it up.

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[–] ductTapedWindow@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If I could be a bumblebee for 12 seconds I'd do it

[–] NotEasyBeingGreen@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You can still wiggle your butt and dance, sister!

Oh wait. That's honey bees. Do bumblebees do anything fun?

[–] LunarLoony@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They bumble! Bumbling seems fun.

[–] Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago

Nah, I tried it and never got any matches

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 95 points 3 days ago (12 children)

Technically reincarnation is for realsies. Your bits and pieces will be used by nature again.

[–] daannii@lemmy.world 33 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

To be even more technical. You are being reincarnated constantly.

We shed skin and cells and those become something else while our own body rebuilds itself constantly from other life.

The only cells in the body that dont change out are neurons and sensory receptors.

A lot of proteins stay forever though. Like bones, teeth, and probably a lot of proteins in muscles. A lot of others I'm not listing.

But the cells themselves are always dying and being remade (except neurons and receptors).

[–] callouscomic@lemmy.zip 27 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

If I had to go through my childhood and resulting alienated adulthood again, I'd try to delay death as long as possible to NOT go through it.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

It would depend on how reincarnation works. Do I know I'll be reborn in a better life? They say the grass is always greener, everyone has problems and perceives others as better off. My old guidance counselor's husband said that if everyone sat in a circle, wrote down their problems, put them in a hat, and randomly drew other people's problems, everyone would want their own problems back

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[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I read a short story back in college about a woman who helped people remember their past lives. Somehow she gets transported to a universe where reincarnation is completely real and everyone remembers all their previous past lives. Suicide was rampant and the world generally sucked. She somehow transitions to helping people forget their past lives to make the world a better place. I really wish I could remember the title of the story.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 10 points 2 days ago (10 children)

I started thinking that it's crazy that those who do believe in reincarnation always seem to think they are gonna end up back here on Earth. If that shit was real, it would have to be a part of the laws governing the entire universe. Maybe it is real, but nobody on Earth has ever reincarnated back to Earth. They became an alien on another planet trillions of lightyears away.

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[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Come on big money, no whammies… awww sheep liver fluke again

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Cultists are already kinda like that, even christians that believe in the afterlife. They don't care if they're destroying the environment, because the real life begins after the current one.

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[–] SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I highly doubt it. Believers say that when a person dies, their memories are pretty much obliterated. So even if someone is going to be reborn, who they were no longer exists.

[–] sheogorath@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (4 children)

In some of the beliefs, your soul maintains the memory, but it’s blocked off by your body. Essentially, when you die, you’ll get your memory back, but you’ll forget it again when you’re doing another cycle.

So the main goal is to get enlightened so that you escape this cycle and graduate to a higher level of existence.

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[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 42 points 3 days ago (12 children)

Maybe it does and the queue is so long we just forget about our old life by the time our number comes up

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[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I don't follow. Is reincarnation not usually effected by the life you lead?

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

What is reincarnation without memory? It's nothing. The same as it is without reincarnation. The same nothing as exists now.

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (9 children)

There would be reincarnation preachers, coaches, and scammers, promising you an ideal reincarnated life.

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[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Yeah and get reincarnated as a stink bug, roll shit all day. And since you don't have sentience you won't be able to kill yourself again.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Reincarnation into what?

"Hey, if you die in this life, you can come back as a bug that gets eaten by another bug shortly after hatching. And then you can do this for the next 10,000 years until you get lucky enough to come back as something remotely sentient."

Sounds like that shit sucks, man. You have a real pivotal moment in this life to embrace dharma and appeal to heaven for a higher place in the great pattern. I'll admit, I'm not much of a mystic, but I don't think eating a bullet after a night spent guzzling whiskey is what gets you up the ladder.

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