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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 7 hours ago
[–] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Silencing your inner critic is not a thing you can finally do once and for all. If it were, there wouldn't be entire families of therapy approaches aimed at doing this.

Some things sometimes help some people. Ethan Kross has summarized modern findings in Chatter.

I like ideas from Internal Family Systems therapy (the voice in your head is trying to protect you, so show it gratitude while you remind yourself you're safe) and basic mindfulness (the thought is merely a pattern of the mind and you don't need to give attention to it, let alone believe it).

But, you know, that's just, like, my opinion, man.

Peace.

[–] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 hours ago

The techniques in this article worked for me. My inner critic can suck my dick, and they suck it well!

[–] SarahValentine@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 15 hours ago

Long story short:

"Students who were asked to repeat ‘positive verbalisations’ between throws improved faster than a control group who simply rested between throws. Students who were asked to repeat ‘negative verbalisations’ performed the worst of all."

As someone who suffers from the internalized criticisms of my shitty parents, it's nice to know that self-affirmations can actually do some good. I'll take whatever I can get.

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 12 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Um, unless you get the anxiety and paranoid spiraling... then it's the exact opposite.

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Quiet you are just like the other voices.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That's because I am the other voices.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 hours ago

We're all here, fam. Always. Even when we let you sleep.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

In my experience, that has been from taking too much.

A light couple of puffs every now and again can be great, but if I get super stoned I get super paranoid and easily freaked out.

[–] FenderStratocaster@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I'd like to throw an anecdotal study into the research as well. Alcohol is INEFFECTIVE in this regard.

[–] SarahValentine@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 minutes ago* (last edited 11 minutes ago)

Yeah. In my experience, alcohol will shut the voice up for the night but the next day it'll be back, and it'll have something to say about your drinking.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 1 points 10 hours ago

Needs peer review. I'll be verifying this

[–] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

It's summarizing a lot of techniques used in cognitive behavioral therapy, which has entire studies confirming they work. And I can confirm from personal experience, they work, too.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 5 points 15 hours ago

"Finally"?

This is just CBT. Old news.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 1 points 12 hours ago

I wonder if cortisol levels can be measured and where I would sit on a chart