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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] Allero@lemmy.today 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I feel this way about religion.

It is literally being bullied by a supernatural creature that doesn't even exist. Do X, do not do Y, else the entire wrath of the Almighty will be upon you.

And at the same time the Almighty can do absolutely anything they want - mass murder people, sleep with anyone, get everyone drunk, tell father to kill the son - because what, are you gonna defy or question someone who else destroys you and tarnishes your soul for the rest of eternity?

The good is replaced with compliance, because an authoritative voice says what's good and you better obey. 1984 type shit, invented millenia before.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Depends on the tradition and insight of those who are alive

Tradition as in "we do this, because our ancestors did" is insanity, no questions there

[–] Strive7307@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 3 hours ago

„we do this, because our ancestors did and because it‘s fun/ brings us joy“ is a completely valid reason however :)

[–] bookmeat@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 5 hours ago

Not even original

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 13 hours ago (4 children)

.

There's no original thoughts left

[–] Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago

You mean, this is traditional?

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 6 points 7 hours ago

I also think the older one (peer pressure) is more apt than "bullying."

[–] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

This Showerthought has become a tradition!

[–] scottrepreneur@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

Rip Alakazing

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago
[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Anything done more than once is tradition.

[–] bitcrafter@programming.dev 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I will eat lasagna every year for Christmas dinner until I am in the grave, and I am perfectly fine with the fact that I was bullied into this by all the Italian ancestors who came before me because lasagna is delicious.

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

what sauce did italians use before tomatoes were brought over from the New World?

[–] bitcrafter@programming.dev 3 points 9 hours ago

The blood of our enemies.

[–] NostraDavid@programming.dev 23 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

Tradition is innovation that survived long enough to stop being questioned.

or

Tradition is a solution that forgot the problem it solved.

Yours feel unnecessarily disrespectful.

[–] Xechon@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

I get the sentiment, though doesn't it seem unfair to assume all tradition has such grounding? Plus, disrespect is the mechanism for weeding out harmful or redundant traditions. It's fine.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 44 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

In a modern society, generation by generation, we choose what tradition is acceptable to keep and what is not. We've abandoned many more traditions than we have kept, so they aren't inherently sacred and unquestionable.

Anyone who wants to keep a tradition that causes harm is just malicious.

But there were plenty of traditions out there that just add richness to a culture, that stuff is good as long as no one gets hurt

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 15 points 22 hours ago

Saw this on Reddit years ago. Looks like posting it has become something of a tradition!

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Beau of the Fifth Column introduced me to this quote, not sure if he started it.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

what went with him? Is he in rehab or something?

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Something with mental health & workload I believe. His wife is running the channel now which is okay but it's different. I really hope he's doing well but understandable that any youtuber could get burned out, especially with the subject matter he was covering.

[–] cibbecker@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Tradition is brainwashing younger people that they should keep doing what you did even after you're gone.

Not that every tradition is bad, or that everything should be done differently. Humans learn from the previous generations, that's a fundamental of our existence. But the way some traditions are imposed onto the young despite all issues with them sucks. It's about balance and not being dogmatic, I guess.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Speaking of brainwashing, its just do easy for a parent to abuse their position of power and like manipulate their children however they want.

Like if you got born into a crime family, you would have no choice but to live your childhood/teen years doing their bidding...

You could be born into a family of racists, a family of terrorists (think: Bin Laden), or a morally corrupt rich family (like: every politician ever)

Brainwashing is even more effective when you show affection 50% of the time.

But I think I just have a better "sus meter" than my mom anticipated, I detect her her bullshit all the time. Mom thinks I'm a gullible little servant that will obey her for the rest of her life. I guess being birthed by a manipulator naturally give you that BS Detector DNA?

But my brain is so weird... I get weirdly attached to my... emotionally abusive mother... I think I might have a bit of stockholm syndrome... I think I just really fanticise about the idea of family that I always desired...

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

yes, most people have mommy/daddy issues. they say the first step towards true personal growth is identifying/dealing with those issues

also, yes, most people want that happy family dynamic

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

It’s the living people who carry on traditions

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 5 points 22 hours ago

Were you browsing 9gag in the shower or what?

[–] bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Tradition is loving your ancestors’ wisdom.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

OP needs to see Fiddler on the Roof, multiple times.

[–] Zahille7@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

Even Tevye didn't know why they kept up their traditions.

[–] Vengefu1Tuna@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

I like this one. It's an amusing way to think about it.

[–] Engywuck@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 day ago

Tradition is something silly. Endlessly redoing the same things at a fixed time just because...