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[–] Canonical_Warlock@lemmy.dbzer0.com 147 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I am a jack of all trades because I have ADHD.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 70 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Exactly. There's a reason why the full description is "Jack of all trades, master of none"

[–] nublug@piefed.blahaj.zone 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the full saying is "a jack of all trades, master of none is oft better than a master of one"

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You got it right. Its a complement when said in full.

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[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 43 points 1 week ago

"...ofttimes better than a master of one."

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because we shouldn't have masters, hierarchies are bad.

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That’s not really a hierarchy thing though.

Just a measure of how skilled / experienced someone is, and how suitable it is for them to be teaching someone else.

I think we need more people sharing their knowledge and we don’t need the blind leading the blind.

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

your mom is a measure of how skilled/experienced someone is and how suitable it is for them to be teaching someone else!¹

¹One i have disappointed profoundly.

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

… 9/10 response. I chuckled!

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 37 points 1 week ago (3 children)

No I am a jack of all trades. I seem to do well at whatever I need to. Thanks to ADHD.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah, I have a curiosity about how things work and it has allowed me to acquire a broad set of skills, including the skill of learning skills. Kinda lucky living in the internet age where so many things are much easier to learn than they would otherwise be.

I think a part of it is that when I learn something, I want to really understand it. It makes me not so great as a teacher, because I end up going into way too much detail (because those are what helped me learn), but it gives a deeper understanding that allows me to improvise on what I can do.

It also has shown me the value of people who understand how multiple specialties can fit together, especially when I go in only knowing one and can experience the shift from "why do they want this thing that way? What a silly requirement." to "oh, ok, that makes sense, you need that to do another important thing I didn't even realize was necessary". And the best is when, now that I have some understanding of both sides, I can see a better solution that accomplishes both goals and makes everyone happy.

Actually, it's the best for a little bit, until it's time to present the idea to multiple teams working together, because if it's a change, a lot of people aren't interested, they just see the work to implement the change and not all of the other work that becomes easier or unnecessary after that's done, so it can be frustrating.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

See this is why I like the channel Technology Connections. It's all about going into the in-depth of every day household tech and how it's all interconnected.

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I agree and have seen the same things many times. I can't teach but I can do a great many things competently. This is not always appreciated by others.

A synergist is someone who understands a whole process covering multiple disciplines. It pays well if you can get the job. The problem with that is you have to overcome those that only know one discipline and they don't take well to someone coming in and making changes they don't understand because they can only see a part of the process and can't see their part in the solution.

I could do that job but I'm not great with the hand holding necessary to get closed minds to shift to a new shape.

[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 week ago (7 children)

need? for me it's want. need without want is where the problems come from

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[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't think I have ADHD however, it was often the norm to try to cultivate a 'jack/jill of all trades' skillset if you weren't born wealthy.

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[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (11 children)

Humans are literally Jack of All Trades. The big evolutionary advantage of brain power is that it lets animals adapt to new things in a single lifetime, rather than having to evolve adaptations to it over generations, and humans primary evolutionary advantage is our massive generalized brain power.

Capitalism says to specialize, human nature says to be a jack of all trades.

I assume this community will disagree strongly, but ADHD honestly does not seem like an actual disorder (as in, an objective detriment, and one that evolution would select against in the long term), so much as just our brains not being particularly suited to capitalism and capitalists gas lighting the masses into thinking that's abnormal.

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.

[–] kza@lemmy.nz 7 points 1 week ago

Some guy wrote a book about this but basically it's hunters (in the Hunter-Gatherer sense) stuck in a farmers world.

SO back when humans primarily hunted and were nomadic, prior to the advent of agriculture and sedentary farming (where seasonal planning and forecasting was required), a lot of required traits for survival: high-vigilance, impulsivity, and novel-seeking - were what made great hunters and survivalists.

People with ADHD just have the wrong OS for this era or more like they are peak human (Windows XP) and current humans are bloated Windows 11... it's evolutionary enshittification.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

I often wonder if we're supposed to be as smart as we are, like in general. I see some people and think "what a fucking moron" but like put them next to basically any other animal on the planet and they're doing alright.

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[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm a millwright with adhd. I'm a fully qualified jack of all trades.

[–] BurntWits@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How do you like millwright? I’m looking for a career change and that was something I was considering.

[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I enjoy it well enough for work. I have an aptitude for it and can fit in the tight spaces I need to in the role that I'm in. It's all the issues of being a mechanic with the added joy of your machine can be as big as a building.

I know in Canada with a red seal I have a lot of options if I am willing to travel/relocate. The pay is on par with other trades if your boss doesn't want massive turnover.

[–] BurntWits@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That’s good to know. I’m pretty good at fitting into tight spaces too, and think working on machines would be really interesting. My dad actually did millwright apprenticeship for a year before changing to welding, so I’ve spoken to him about it too, but it’s good to have multiple perspectives, especially from someone who actually does it as a career. I’m also Canadian, so that’s good to know too.

[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One of the things I have noticed is that there are more and more electronics on things. So if you do decide to become a millwright pay attention in the controls block.

[–] BurntWits@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

Good to know. Thanks for the info, I’ll keep it in mind.

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A jack of all trades can complete a task

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I "increment the progress" of my tasks. Completion is optional

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

Can I report this? I'm in this meme and I did not consent to that.

[–] 5in1k@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

One preceded the other.

[–] BotsRuinedEverything@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We let the NTs use that term because the real answer would terrify them. It's all pattern recognition. I'm not "good" at any particular skill but the world is transparent to me. If I understand how something works I can recreate its function.

To them it looks like this is happening in real time. To me, the constantly spinning wheels in my mind grab traction for a fraction of a second giving the illusion of progress.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’ve got good fine motor control, which means that I can sew, knit, roll a joint, braid hair, make a pastry, seal a dumpling, fold origami, draw, sculpt, paint nails, pick a lock, and most other fine dexterity tasks, excluding musical instruments.

This sounds like bragging, but I didn’t do anything to earn the ability to do this, I literally just do it and it works. I’m not proud of it (though I’m occasionally proud of the things I can craft) and I don’t think anyone else is unskilled because it doesn’t work when they do it.

I know exactly what you mean. I got the musical talent version. I remember being in 10th grade in music class and the teacher passed out band instruments to everyone in the class so we could play with them and laugh at how bad we all sounded. I was late that day and got the only thing left over. A trombone. A week later barely a handful of the students could get a solid note or two out of their random trumpets or clarinets, etc. I was playing "When the Saints go Marching in" with flourishes like a New Orleans brass band.

I got an entry level job sanding military helmets a couple years ago. The kind of job that hires anyone to do the shit work. Two and a half years later I am in charge of the most complicated product the company makes. I'm now the only person in the world who makes the JHMCS helmet. (Google it)

[–] PattyMcB@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

But that makes me a jack of all trades. ADHD is just the reason I go from one thing to the next

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Sometimes a jack of all trades master of none is better than a master of one.

[–] jambudz@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 week ago

Don’t describe my career so accurately

[–] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Better than a "John" of a... uhm... particular trade.

[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Calm your tits, Mickey7 alt.

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[–] Onyxonblack@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 week ago

Is that a young Christian Bale?

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm more like a 4–8 of all trades if we're using playing cards as a scale.

maybe a 10 at Balatro

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[–] leftist_lawyer@lemmy.today 4 points 1 week ago

Some call it ADHD. I call it novelty seeking. I mean, I'm probs somewhere on the spectrum, but if ADHD is abnormal ... I don't want to be normal. Normal seems boring and narrow minded.

[–] MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

Pfffft you’re just jealous…

[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 week ago

I CAN BE BOTH!

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

Looking at the tin whistle I've had for over a decade... it's just been gathering dust... but who knows, maybe I'll have motivation to learn it once more.

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