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[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 39 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Sounds great, but this "New lifestyle philosophy" also sounds a lot like hedonism

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

We've got wine and women and wonderful vices. Come and join the cult of Dionysus.

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago

Let's get mischievous.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago

trancy acoustic bridge

[–] astropenguin5@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Is hedonism just getting dopamine?

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Afaik, hedonism is about seeking pleasure. Dunno if that's a yes or a no, really.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Probably not just dopamine specifically, but general vibes yeah probably.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Why don't they just sell dopamine pills?

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 weeks ago

From my understanding that basically heroin

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Neurotransmitters aren't as simple as that really. Dopamine is more associated with engagement, which can be distressful (hyperfocusing) (and neurotransmitters also have a bunch of different uses in the body and brain etc)

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I love when I'm hyper-focused. It's the distracted and non-starting I can't abide.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, I get you, and I agree, but being hyperfocused can definitely sometimes be distressing to me. Especially when I'm hyperfocusing on something that I don't really "want" to hyperfocus on, if that makes sense. Obviously I want to hyperfocus on the thing as that's what engaging me in the moment, but it's the forefront of my mind, the conscious part, that might disagree. Especially if there's other stuff that needs to get done, such as work

..I get if this is a bit abstract, but it's how it makes sense to me

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[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

You might look into adderall. As someone with adhd, its the only medicine ive ever found that didnt have any major drawbacks and changed my entire world view. Its astounding what you can do when your body and mind arent fighting you.

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

I don't have a diagnosis, just patterns and suspicions. Something to think about.

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I find delight in getting angry that someone who is happy to use words like "amelioration", "betterment", etc., still has to shorten "something" to "smth" right in the middle.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago

I think it was "having a good laugh at Samantha "

[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Looks more like The Eight Delights plus "none of the above".

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 15 points 1 month ago

Dude said "I've never been pleasantly surprised" holy shit

[–] Klear@quokk.au 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 9 points 1 month ago

That's what I understood. If you can't do anything else be the wildcard.

Or eat an egg.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

One of those delights isn’t for me. The other eight look good.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is it goofing? Are you a serious person?

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nah, I’m just asexual and very sex-repulsed. I would hope that I’m a goof; I’m paid money to be a goof into a microphone fairly often!

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To be fair I was trying to get my daily goof in with my previous comment 😉

[–] Nindelofocho@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Thy cup runneth over

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Never heard that definition of ameliorate

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What definition have you heard?

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To make something less bad

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 weeks ago

I'm genuinely so confused.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

"I wonder how many people will reply only to say they can't/don't want to experience one or more of the nine delights."

-- several minutes later --

"About as many as I expected."

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I only care for 3 of these.

Deliciousness, Goofing, and Coitus.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Do not try to mix them. It is forbidden for mortals.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

laugbing at the delicious food I am fucking

[–] Klear@quokk.au 5 points 1 month ago

I'm currently listening to the new album by young scrolls and I read your comment just as Nazir said "Some seriously fucked up shit". Fit perfectly.

[–] zout@fedia.io 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Maybe I'm not a mere mortal, but how do you not mix these?

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] zout@fedia.io 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't know, my wife occasionally screams oh god during the mixing event?

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 4 points 1 month ago

Fair enough, proceed.

[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago

You broke the rule.

If somebody asks if you're a god, YOU SAY YES!

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I guess enthralment does not apply for most neurodivergents.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Really? I thought both autism and ADHD had enthrallment basically as a symptom. I admit I am not familiar with any other neurodivergency, so my knowledge is definitely limited

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 5 points 1 month ago

Yep, my point is that hyperfixation comes out of the box, and often it comes with a cost of everything else.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm (most likely) autistic, I usually have a good time when I'm "enthralled".

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, but I forget food, water, sleep, everything. It comes at a cost..

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That sounds pretty extreme even by autism standards ...

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 1 points 4 weeks ago

Have you done that test where they give you a kind of "rpg character sheet", where there are ND and NT traits and they put scores on each trait?

Well it seems I minmaxed for a very specific character build.

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago
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