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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 day ago

So we’ve reached the point where calling someone what they want to be called can cost you your job. Imagine getting fired for basic human decency. 🤔

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Guys, everyone that read this, remember, Ted Cruz is his preferred name. His real name is Rafael. If you don't want to get in trouble, make sure to call him Rafael every chance you get.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Rafael Edward Cruz, the Canadian-American, US Senator.

It’s lowkey appropriate that he was born in Alberta.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Another immigrant, taking senatorial jobs from hard-working Americans! Damn you, Rafael!

[–] [email protected] 250 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

I remember when I was in school and teachers would ask each kid on day 1 how they would prefer to be named. This was in the 80s and 90s. In Texas.

There was nothing wrong with it then, nor is there anything wrong with it now.

What has changed is the vitriol and hate that has erupted against our trans brothers and sisters.

[–] [email protected] 78 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I spent my entire 9th grade (1991) as Kevin. My name is not, nor resembles, Kevin. 🤷‍♂️

[–] [email protected] 48 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Such a Kevin thing to say.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kevin, you're such a disease

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I ask everybody what they prefer to be called and how they pronounce it if it's not clear to me. It's just polite.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It’s just polite.

And so MAGAs hate it. Politeness is weakness! Be rude and hostile always!

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

My stereotypical old guy class teacher in rural Hungary who was a local prominent party member of Orbán's party and a devout Christian had no problems with that either.

This has never been a problem.

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 2 days ago

“Brevard Public Schools (BPS) was made aware that a teacher at Satellite High School had been referring to a student by a name other than their legal name, without parental permission when the parent reached out to us. This directly violates state law and the district’s standardized process for written parental consent.

“BPS supports parents’ rights to be the primary decision-makers in their children’s lives, and Florida law affirms their right to be informed.

Cruel, vindictive, inhumane and depraved control by the parents. The child is in danger and now knows that even trusted adults can't be trusted when their parents go digging. Without a doubt the child is being verbally abused for daring to control their own identity.

Disgusting law, disgusting people and disgusting country.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Great. Now nicknames will be illegal. No more Max or Jim or Bill. It's either Maximillian or James or you're fired (and no one cares about poor ol' Bill).

[–] [email protected] 78 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Jesus fucking Christ. When I was in middle school in the southern Midwest, on the first day of school I had the teachers straight up ask if anyone had a preferred name other than the one on their records. Unprompted. And no one gave a shit.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

She have a fund we can donate too?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Florida is purposefully trying to destroy it's own public school system. They make being a public school teacher so undesirable, and then complain about a "teacher shortage". Of course nobody wants to be a public school teacher in Florida. You can get fired for how you address someone?

[–] [email protected] 62 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Teachers, like all employees, are expected to follow the law.

No. If a law is unjust and immoral it is the imperitive of everyone at the district to disobey it.

Just because it is law, does not make it right.

[–] [email protected] 125 points 2 days ago (4 children)

“She is irreplaceable, not only a good teacher, but significantly more importantly she is the kindest and most caring person I have ever met in my life,” one supporter commented.

"Kindness and caring have no place in the classroom" - conservatives probably

[–] [email protected] 45 points 2 days ago

Conservatives, absolutely. They see empathy as a weakness.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

My mom's (teacher) old boss (principal) literally told her that she shouldn't even know what the kids do after they leave school, basically saying she shouldn't care about the kids.

Like why the fuck else do you become a teacher?!

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago

Probably because the most powerful conservatives all got to grow up in abusive boarding schools that disfigured their souls, deleted their empathy, and taught them how to savagely bully their way into power, humanity be damned.

Source: Trailer for Boarding on Insanity

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[–] [email protected] 92 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Well then, we need to fire every teacher who uses "Bob" instead of "Robert" or "Liz" instead of "Elizabeth" then. Only then will they realize how stupid this is.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 days ago (2 children)

"I can't talk to you; I don't know your middle name."

[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've known a lot of people who go by their middle names because their first name is a family name (who they hate). Like if you call them by their first name, it's the equivalent of dead naming.

Some of those people are anti-trans.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Just when I thought Florida couldn’t get any dumber… damn, was I wrong.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Imagine if she said Palestinians deserve to live.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A monster like that should be dragged into the street and shot!

/s cause I'm certain there are real monsters who believe the above.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I go by my middle name. Not because I wanted to, but because that is what my immediate family chose. I became comfortable with it. So I decided in certain settings to let people use my first name.

99% of my extended family doesn’t know my first name. Some of them are teachers. If I had been in their class, they’d be in trouble. Fucking stupid law.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Fucking stupid ~~law~~ state

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

In Florida, students have this one cool trick to get their teachers fired. Thanks, Florida!

Also, is that government punishing speech?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 days ago (2 children)

So we can't call people "Jim" "Liz" "Bob" "Sam" anymore?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

Of course not. They are Jimothy, Lizothy, Bobothy, and Samothy, as was ordained by Christ himself

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[–] [email protected] 62 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think the worst part about this story is that you know that kid's parents are exactly the bigots you think they are, and now the child has learned a valuable lesson that they are completely alone, unloved, and no one will help them.

It's terrible that Florida is doing this to teachers, but it's worse for the kids.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago

This was my first thought, too. The kid found an advocate and a trusted person. So depressing

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Damn.

She should leave Gilead and join us up here in Canada. Staple the news article to her immigration paperwork. It's a badge of honour. How can you all have pride in a country that does this shit? Stay safe down there!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Staple it to job applications too. I suspect many blue state and private schools would see it as a commendation.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

Just more reasons to never go to Florida again.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago

Welcome to the regressive fascist regime

[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 days ago (1 children)

America is a broken country

The worst thing though is that you spread your poison to the rest of the world too

There are cunts in many countries salivating at the opportunity to be cruel, and (wrongly) the world still looks at the US as an example

Decent people see it as a warning

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

señator Raf Cruz, shield your people with strong Texan wings! 🐧

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

2 of the 14 kids in my sons class go by different names and have since kindergarten. They aren’t trans gender, they just use different names from the ones on the registration forms and birth certificates.

His is it any different. Also goddamn nicknames should be outlawed. That state is so fucked it’s not even funny anymore.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I only have one data point but my kid's teachers (high school) have always both called my kid their preferred name and pronouns. I did get "the letter" this year to send back saying it was ok. Ridiculous.

This is just such a mess, why oh why.

What I really and truly can't understand are the parents. How can you be THAT controlling? What do they think it's going to accomplish?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Bro wtf kind of a name is James Donald Bowman? Seriously, "Bow Man"? Dude can't even lift a bow. 🤣 This is supposed to be a "Vice President"?

We need people to find this couch-fucker and start saying "Yo, James, you couch-fucker!" and tell the journalist to start asking "Mr. Bowman, when is the last time you've held a bow?" 😂

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Are teachers in Florida now required to call each student by their full legal name every time?

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