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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

In Hungary it's actually "kaki" that would be the closest translation of poop. So, spot on.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was not expecting to change your opinion instantly. I'm sure you have real experiences backing up your sentiments.

Still I hope you get this same feedback from other places, and realize that the world is usually not black and white, bad and good... and you're actually welcomed to develop more sophisticated views of things and people around you.

It's all easy and cozy to think in extremes, but it will get you nowhere as a person.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago (4 children)

As an HR professional, that's just incredibly hurtful to read. I'm really sorry you had that experience, which is making you generalize a whole a set of people based on what they are working on. And it's also bad to see a lot of people just jumped on the hate train and upvoted it.

This level of armchair negativity contributes nothing to the conversation.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Anyone else thinking about this? (Midly NSFW)

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

I've already read like 10 of these before, so I'm kind of confident saying that most people would recommend Mullvad as the best and most secure/private, and some of them would also add ProtonVPN. I'm using Proton here and there, no issues, would recommend.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 months ago

As others already stated there are solutions already to pin apps and to be honest, I feel I would not give the phone to a policeman like that.

On the other hand, what I'm more concerned about is giving the access to my phone's data through different permissions to my government.

For example this is the list of permissions for the Hungarian government app: https://reports.exodus-privacy.eu.org/en/reports/hu.gov.dap.app/latest/#trackers

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

That's something I was also considering, because there were some days when she already looked a bit sleepy in the morning already. Will be thinking about it, thanks!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for the variety of tips. I'll be thinking about how to use them. The car part we already tried and succeeded but trying not to incorporate it too heavy, since I heard that my boss used it so effectively with his kids they didn't want to go to sleep any other way 😀

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Quiet time sounds reasonable, thanks for the tip. Will try it out for sure.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Thanks for this. Nice to hear at least other parents also struggling with this. Trying to be more considerate on what she needs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Thanks, I was not really considering not to have the afternoon sleep. But I guess you're right. Pushing never feels like the good approach.

 

Hey everyone!

Wanted to check in here about our newest struggle, maybe someone can share our pain or even help with some advice.

Our little one just turned 2, the biggest development of the last few weeks is that she's really talkative now. Able to respond to questions, even describing events with some help. Other huge change is that putting her to sleep is getting more and more industrious:

  • Before, both in the afternoon and in the evening we had the nice ritual of putting blankets and pillows on the floor of her room, turning off the lights, singing some nice songs, maybe telling the tale of her achievements that day, and she went to sleep in ~20 minutes (40 minutes max).

  • Now, the afternoon sleep is taking more hours sometimes and she doesn't even look sleepy most of the times. And since the afternoon nap is happening later, the night sleep is happening later and slower. And we feel that we cannot push it further more.

We tried a lot of things already in the afternoon (as we're feeling that could be root of the problem for the evening sleep also) for example putting her to the baby carriage for a walk, putting her in one of these carriers on our backs, putting her directly into her bed... Nothing really works, it feels like she just needs us to try at least 2 hours and then she gives up. At least when she sleeps, she really sleeps like a baby, sometimes not even waking up at all for the whole of the evening (that is something that haven't changed).

Have you experienced something like this around 2 years? How did you solve it? Or do you have any other suggestion?

I would appreciate any input from you.

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