Socsa

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[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sort of related, in my last year and a half of HS I started a commercial electrician assistant program which was supposed to be like an accelerated apprenticeship path. I kind of liked it, and it legitimately the best pay available to a 17 year old at the time, but it was the master electrician I worked with who convinced me to quit and go get an EE degree instead. I distinctly remember the conversation where he asked me how old I thought he was, and I guessed he was close to 60, nearing retirement. He was 43, and he'd fallen off a ladder a year earlier, which was why I was doing all work over 8' for him way fucking beyond what your typical HS assistant would normally be doing. "Go to college" he told me. "I chose this instead of Mechanical Engineering and now I can't do the job anymore, with 20 years to retirement."

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 27 points 8 months ago (4 children)

She literally spent a good portion of her eulogy talking about how wives are not supposed to be slaves. You can't make this shit up.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 7 points 8 months ago

This is literally loony tunes. China makes up 27% of global manufacturing capacity. The US makes up 17% and the EU is 16%. Russia is 1.7%.

This is your brain on tankie.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 7 points 8 months ago

Bro literally refers a to it over and over as "SMO" which literally nobody other than a literal Russian propagandist would do.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 months ago

I saw this thread and bookmarked it for the next time someone asks for "proof" that .ml is infested with Russian trolls.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 5 points 8 months ago

yes/aye/oui

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 32 points 11 months ago (1 children)

drinks verification can

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

Youth is still very much wasted on the young

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I want pee in my butt

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

You leave my mom out of this.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean the flip side of what you are saying is that people aren't allowed to have a social life free from romantic pursuit. Yes, it's a thin line to walk but you are only seeing the view from a person with limited romantic opportunities, not the person who is tired of every social interaction being hijacked by dude number 67897 "out to find people you enjoy spending time with, and maybe some of them are also people you consider pursuing romantically."

Like I totally get your perspective here. Doing things, and then... Organic relationship with no pressure. That's ideal. The problem is that horny dudes hold this ideal in their head, and then use it to justify blowing up every coed activity in existence. You might think, "ok, if she says no, I'll drop it" but the counterpoint is that this ritual becomes a chore for the other side of the fence. You are socially awkward, now imagine that any time you socialize in a group you have to awkwardly defend against someone's iterative advances. And that this happens so often, it begins to color the way you interact with every acquaintance.

Yes, meeting people in group settings often leads to dates. But going into those settings with the intention to find a date is a recipe for problems. This is a subtle, but important distinction which seems lost on a lot of people.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If there is a god, it will happen on live television.

 

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