this post was submitted on 13 Oct 2026
174 points (98.9% liked)

Mildly Infuriating

47847 readers
725 users here now

Home to all things "Mildly Infuriating" Not infuriating, not enraging. Mildly Infuriating. All posts should reflect that. Please post actually infuriating posts to !actually_infuriating@lemmy.world

I want my day mildly ruined, not completely ruined. Please remember to refrain from reposting old content. If you post a post from reddit it is good practice to include a link and credit the OP. I'm not about stealing content!

It's just good to get something in this website for casual viewing whilst refreshing original content is added overtime.


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means: -No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...


7. Content should match the theme of this community.


-Content should be Mildly infuriating. If your post better fits !Actually_Infuriating put it there.

-The Community !actuallyinfuriating has been born so that's where you should post the big stuff.

...


8. Reposting of Reddit content is permitted, but attribution is not required in any way. No links to Reddit in post body


-If you would like to provide a source link, do so in the comments but not in the post body.

...

...


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Lemmy Review

2.Lemmy Be Wholesome

3.Lemmy Shitpost

4.No Stupid Questions

5.You Should Know

6.Credible Defense


Reach out to LillianVS for inclusion on the sidebar.

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules.

founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Just bought a 2m section of flexible tube for a gas stove, and the sales clerk asked first for my phone number, to which I replied "I don't have one". Then she asked me for my name, to which I replied "I'll pay in cash". She then insisted it was so "the cashier will call you by name", to which I replied "I'm not giving you my name, I'll pay in cash". [Edit: she apparently got a bit upset when I refused to give info, but ended up entering "no name" according to the receipt]

Am I wrong for not wanting to give personal data for an item paid in cash, in person? No other hardware store ever asks me for my personal info.

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] myyass@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

My name is Sargent Slaughter and my phone number is 867-5309.

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I've never gotten pushback with "I'd rather not".

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

No some shit is stupid. I once took 20 minutes on phone trying to cancel ADT because "I had to give a reason" to which I refused.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

my name ? Seymour Tit, Biggus Dickus, Donald Trump etal

[–] ikidd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] don_kiedyck@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago

I use the same name that I use here.

[–] Pistachio@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

I now use 8675309 because I'm old and the people taking my "info" don't catch on or don't give a fuck.

I also give the name "Nünya" and tell them its French

[–] tempest@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 hours ago

They don't care either way.

They are working retail jobs and harassing you for personal information is just one in a long list of things they have to do to get paid.

I myself just go with a "no thanks" , "I'm good" or sometimes a "I don't believe in (thing they are asking for)"

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

If you gave me that i would but your name down as Jenny

[–] Bruncvik@lemmy.world 27 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (21 children)

Local area code + 8675309. Used it since the early 00's. As an added bonus, many places have discounts set up for that number.

[–] CheesyFingers@piefed.social 1 points 2 hours ago

Local area code? Hell no --> 805

[–] Ersatz86@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago

You as a matter of course pronounce the last digit “ni-e-yine”, do you not? De rigueur, I would think.

load more comments (19 replies)
[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 18 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I’ve told people “I don’t have a phone number” on autopilot because that’s what I always say when they ask for me email address. I’m sure no one believes I don’t have an email but I KNOW they don’t believe me when I say I don’t even have a phone number. No one has ever pushed back through they’re like oh… uh, ok? Then I just get on with the transaction. It’s not like they won’t sell it to you if you don’t have an email or phone number. I’ve never felt the need to fully decline giving a name I just give them a random name if need be. I think you handled it just fine, if you don’t have to and you don’t want to, don’t! Exercise your agency!

[–] ItWasTheDNS@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I just flat out say no thank you - most clerks couldn’t care less

[–] SmoothLiquidation@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

I’m like this, a simple “no thanks” has worked for me and I don’t have to construct a whole narrative about being a hermit.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 hours ago

I can't remember what I was buying or where this happened now, but recently I was buying something (by cc) in store and they would not let me pay without providing a phone number

[–] myplacedk@lemmy.world 104 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

"So the cashier will call you by name" means they don't care if it's your real name, just react when they call it.

[–] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I used to say ridiculous names to acknowledge their policy and politely rebel against it. It's fun when the hostess calls out "Batman, party of 4"

[–] myplacedk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I can just use my own name while traveling. They have no idea how to spell it. And even if they ask and get the spelling correct, the next person has no idea how to pronounce it.

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Kevlar21@piefed.social 26 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] neidu4@piefed.social 11 points 6 hours ago

Smug achually-voice

"It's pronounced Yawn"

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 78 points 8 hours ago (12 children)

Not wrong at all. More people need to learn to say no instead of mindlessly complying to every request.

Like the guy at Walmart that wants to look at your receipt when you leave. I just say "no thank you" and keep on walking.

[–] diemartin@sh.itjust.works 31 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I always found that really weird. Like, what's the point of self-checkout then? Just hire a damn cashier, or two.

load more comments (11 replies)
[–] DoctorWhoDMC@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

... Some of the comments here are ridiculous. People, I get this is annoying, but some of you are acting like there salespeople are "in on it." Just make up a name.

[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 21 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I remember Barnes and Noble asking for my phone number to buy a paperback copy of 1984.

I was like nah man.

[–] diemartin@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 hours ago

If only there was a book on the topic of the dangers of mass surveillance...

Any recommendations?

[–] Godric@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago

Order for Nunya Bizniss, phone# 123 456 7890

[–] JustPlainDave@lemmy.zip 9 points 6 hours ago

In all likelihood, her boss gripes at her for not getting name and number from every customer, and his boss gives him shit for the same thing.

I worked at AutoZone for 8 years and our DM and up would hound us constantly about getting people's phone numbers and emails and act like their weren't people who were never going to give that information.

The worst part was that there was no incentive to annoy people like that for the cashier other than avoiding getting bitched out by the manager.

[–] Babalugats@lemmy.world 34 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

A new water company (currently the government want to privatise these) was checking water meters last week. long story short they broke one and the cap on the hole keeps popping up outside my house on the pathway. Rang them today to tell them about it "what's your address?"

I had to obviously give them that - I guess I could've said I was a neighbour, and just given them the location. Wanted my name and phone number. I said "I don't want or need to give that, I am just telling you about the manhole cover."

"I need to get your name and phone number to continue"

"I don't know my phone number, my name is private Jones. I have been put on hold two times already. a lady and a child already tripped over this cover, I don't care if you can't continue. I have given the information, and it won't be me that anyone sues if they break something tripping over it."

I stayed polite and we ended the conversation. but holy shit. You are not wrong to not give it to them. They are wrong for persistently asking for it.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 15 points 7 hours ago

I had the same issue when I called a utility company to report a cable hanging about sedan level on the street. I was on my way to work and got annoyed and said something similar: it's your cable, so if it damages someone's car or decapitates a motorcyclist, I guess the lawyers can cal you. What's your name?

They thanked me for the time and when I got off work, it was fixed. 🤷‍♀️

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

You can give them a fake name, or you can dead ass stare at them until they feel awkward and continue the transaction. But there's definitely no reason they need that info.

load more comments
view more: next ›