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“Doina Bumbea was born on 25 January 1950 in Bucharest, Romania. She had two brothers, one of them being Gabriel Bumbea. The other one died in 2014. Her father died in 1989, but as of 2014, her mother was still alive.

In 1970, Bumbea left Romania and went to Rome, where she married an Italian citizen. Bumbea would later study fine arts and become a painter. In 1978, she met an Italian posing as an art dealer who promised her a job as a gallery curator in Tokyo, Japan, if she made an art exhibition in Pyongyang, North Korea, first. She accepted this and was sent to North Korea, from where she would not be allowed to leave.

According to Charles Robert Jenkins, an American defector in North Korea, this country reportedly kidnapped Bumbea and other foreign women for a “spouse-sourcing” program for American defectors in North Korea, as the birth of ethnically mixed Koreans went against the wishes of the state, but also to obtain a number of ethnically non-Korean agents for the country. Therefore, Bumbea was forcibly married in the early 1980s to the American defector James Joseph Dresnok by the North Korean authorities. She had two children with Dresnok, Theodore Ricardo Dresnok, born in December 1981; and James Gabriel Dresnok, born in February 1983. Bumbea died from lung cancer in January 1997 in Pyongyang, isolated from the outer world. Her husband died in 2016, while her two children would become soldiers in the North Korean army.

Bumbea’s family only discovered what had occurred to her in 2006, when they connected Jenkins’s accounts with a BBC documentary about James Joseph Dresnok, who was still in North Korea. In 2008, following her death, Bumbea’s brother Gabriel founded the Doina Bumbea Association, a Romanian NGO dealing with missing persons and their search and rescue. In 2014, he attended a meeting of the United Nations Human Rights Council in Geneva, Switzerland, representing this association. At this meeting, the situation of the North Korean abductees was discussed. He also attempted to meet with or contact his nephews, although unsuccessfully. Gabriel has created a page in honor of Bumbea on Facebook.

The Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Romania was aware of Bumbea’s case and met with Gabriel to talk about it. It made some statements, but did not speak much about the subject. Gabriel has also met with former Romanian presidents Ion Iliescu and Traian Băsescu, but also with senator Dan Horațiu Buzatu and MEP Marian-Jean Marinescu, all in relation to Doina Bumbea. Although the Ministry of Foreign Affairs made efforts to clarify the situation with the North Korean authorities, they were ignored in Pyongyang.” (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doina_Bumbea)

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[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 1 points 57 seconds ago

Another wild NK story was there were these girls that were approached by someone asking for them to host a prank show on YouTube or something. They had them pull 4 or 5 harmless silly pranks on people where they sometimes sprayed people with like a fart spray or something. It was going well and the girls were excited to make some money. Then on one of the pranks this dude starts freaking out and calling for authorities saying he was a high profile figure. It turned out that dude was Kim Jon Uns half brother or something and NK used those girls to unknowingly be assassins. He had been sprayed with a nerve agent and later died. I believe the girls were acquitted for not knowing what was happening.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-39010244

[–] Seppo@sopuli.xyz 1 points 23 minutes ago

NK and China are garbage shitholes pretending to be civilised.

[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 1 points 36 minutes ago

Here's an interesting video about those handful of defectors and what their life was like on the other side of the DMZ, Doina and the other wives are mentioned as well as several other things you probably wouldn't even consider:

https://youtu.be/j-uACROt_Lw?is=ebsx7RxV3rhaONEc

[–] whereitsat@lemmy.zip -1 points 30 minutes ago* (last edited 29 minutes ago)

not a leftist or a tankie but america has probably caused more distress to immigrant women in the last year than north korea has caused in its entire existence.

think of the pain of every immigrant wife/mother/daughter in america as either they or their loved ones have been hauled away to who knows where.

really weird pearl clutching going on here.

[–] Sophocles@infosec.pub 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I just recently watched a documentary by one of my favorite YouTubers, Oki's Weird Stories, on this exact subject. It's definitely a crazy story

The Video: https://inv.nadeko.net/watch?v=j-uACROt_Lw

[–] slaacaa@lemmy.world 87 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Holy shit, what a story. Poor woman.

Fuck NK and fuck its tankie apologists.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca -1 points 2 hours ago

Let's invade it and topple its government. We care deeply about human rights and democracy right?

[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 8 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 23 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

What's cool is liberal mean four different things to four different people so even more than just two are bad.

[–] BlackLaZoR@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

It's orwellian destruction of language. You can't formulate opinion if certain words have no meaning

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 26 points 19 hours ago

Speaking of North Korea, Kim Jong Un so fat he's nationwide.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 112 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So she was trafficked.

I can't imagine such an awful fate. This is the kind of shit I think about whenever someone insists to me that there's a good god somewhere out there.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

She clearly didn't pray hard enough. Or she prayed to the wrong god. Or she needs to just accept that this was God's plan for her

I think I threw up in my mouth a little just typing that out

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 1 points 59 minutes ago

Even so, I appreciate the sarcasm. I wish more people could look around them and kinda just acknowledge the obvious.

[–] plz1@sh.itjust.works 19 points 22 hours ago

Did anything happen w/r/t the fake art dealer that trafficked her?

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 167 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Oh, boy. I can't wait for the tankies to spin this.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 12 points 19 hours ago

They'll just skip arguing on this post and argue elsewhere. That's everyone's "trick" with backgwards views.

[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 94 points 1 day ago (3 children)

No, you have to understand. The US is so much worse than NK. NK can only hurt 20 million of it's own citizens, the US is killing the world. But also, this is western media, so it's not true anyway. /tankie

I fucking hate those cunts.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 66 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I mean the US is much worse than North Korea by sheer humanitarian impact and it is killing the world (through global warming). North Korea fucking sucks anyway.

[–] architect@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 hours ago

The us can’t do this without its western allies. If the usa is bad, so is the entire western world.

[–] Lydon_Feen@lemmy.world 58 points 1 day ago (5 children)

This.

Both can be true.

Fuck the Kim family and all that horrendous North Korean regime.

And fuck Trump, his family, his cronies, his sycophants, and all MAGA morons, and the regime he's trying to establish. The US was never "the good guys" except by comparion against other, even worse places, but now? Under Trump? There's no shred of decency, honesty, competence, and by the looks of it, democracy.

[–] Tja@programming.dev 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, plenty of countries can (and do) have flaws. That doesn't mean that every single person in those countries is a criminal, of course.

Even now, the US is nowhere near the bottom of the ladder, many worse countries out there. The problem is, the US acts like they are still a shining city on a hill or whatever they use. Not even close. They aren't even reliable now, which one of the things China has going on for them.

[–] Lydon_Feen@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I never said every single person in those countries is a criminal.

[–] Tja@programming.dev 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

And I never said you said it. I was agreeing with you.

[–] Lydon_Feen@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Oh, ok then.

[–] YawningNostalgia@thelemmy.club 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I know I'm thinking about it simplistically but the Trump family dynasty and their hangers-on have a lot of wealth that's just figures in digital ledgers, right? What's to stop someone on a computer from just wiping that away? Realistically, if you were able to put all their accounts at zero, what recourse would they have? I guess I just don't understand modern banking.

[–] Nautalax@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

If you zero out their balance but there’s no transaction, that doesn’t match up and will easily be reverted. If you make a fake transaction that is also easy to dispute and revert. Most digital things have backups or histories where you can compare and clearly see if some funny business occurred. That’s why most scams involve social engineering to convince the target to willingly transfer money in some method that can’t be easily reverted rather than editing databases.

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There was that time during WW2 where they kicked the nazis out of some countries and then actually let the original owners of those countries have their countries back. That was a definitively "good guy" move.

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 3 points 3 hours ago

They also rigged various votations after that in those countries and many others and i am sure they also were behind the decline of many communist parties during the cold war

[–] 4am@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah there was also that time where WWII was started by methed out Germans who admired how calculated and efficient America had become at using eugenics and racism as tools of power and decided to have a go at it. You know, to “build a better world”.

So the shit-winds are blowing in both directions, Randy

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[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 40 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Tankies unironically say that US attacking Iran is US starving Philippines because the latter has no oil reserves to draw upon because of oil shipment being restricted in Strait of Hormuz. Meanwhile, they spin China literally driving away Vietnamese and Philippine fishermen from their livelihood by being waterhosed by the Chinese Navy as "international dispute that would be resolved diplomatically." I haven't seen such obvious PR answer since arguing with tankies in Reddit.

[–] TheFrirish@tarte.nuage-libre.fr 3 points 18 hours ago

The US is starving the Philippines (not intentionally but with complete disregard) and the Chinese are kicking away the Filipino fishermen and as a bonus they are claiming Batanes Island in the North and sending monkey memes about Filipinos. Both can AND are true. Philippines is really the butt of the joke of the world Geopolitically and environmentally.

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The reason there's so much pro-NK propaganda is because NK is being propped up by China. They're the biggest trading partner. China could exert pressure or influence to get the NK government to be better to its citizens. But China doesn't want that, because that might convince Chinese citizens to demand the same.

So their only recourse is to convince everyone that North Korea actually isn't that bad and it's actually all just western propaganda telling you that it's bad and if they are bad it's actually because of western sanctions.

[–] jumjummy@lemmy.world 6 points 22 hours ago

That and China is more than happy to have a malleable weak state on its border vs the alternative of a unified Korea that is much more pro-Western.

[–] betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 51 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Obviously, she chose to remain there after catching a whiff of one of Kim Il Sung's farts on the breeze. So inspired by the delicate fragrance of his colon, she rejected her decadent capitalist ways on the spot and embraced the Juche idea. Western imperialist media would never report on this story because it's too damaging to their evil system.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

the decadent capitalist ways of *checks notes* cold war-era romania.

i mean they're there...

[–] betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I thought the first detail I'd get busted on was something about Great Leader not having a butthole or along those lines.

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[–] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

"How else are they supposed to feed themselves if the whole world sanctioned them into poverty"

Seriously, I read this argument several times.

It's BS for many reasons, but I just checked and back then the USA was the only country to sanction PRK according to wp.

AFAICS all other countries only started in 2006 or so. Something must've happened then.

[–] SomethingBurger@jlai.lu 1 points 29 minutes ago

AFAICS all other countries only started in 2006 or so. Something must've happened then.

North Korea started testing nukes in 2006.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 36 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Since this is a story relayed by Charles Robert Jenkins, who was not exactly an objective journalist, and rather a quite interesting individual:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Robert_Jenkins

Sharing the context since there's such an excited appetite for, uh, tankie spin.

[–] slaacaa@lemmy.world 17 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

What a rabbit hole this woman’s and the US defectors’ stories are. Absolutely fascinating how strange lives they have lived (by choice or not).

I’m actually from Eastern Europe, my mother worked as an international tour guide and traveled all over the Soviet Union and its allies, including North Korea.

She told me the story how she was with her group in that building in middle of the DMZ, staring down the US soldiers on the other side. And lot of other stuff, taken cameras, fake villages, etc. It’s a very crazy country.

[–] dandi8@fedia.io 53 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 day ago

Yeah, that poor woman :-(

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