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[–] dsilverz@catodon.rocks 1 points 2 days ago

!nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

Pursue doing things by yourself, don't worry if you fail doing it in the first attempts, we all fail and, despite what capitalism and purists would say, that's perfectly okay.

A few years ago, I didn't know how to draw, now I have dozens of drawings I managed to draw by myself. A few months ago, Blender and its features and 3D modelling in general were quite extraterrestrial to me even though I already had Blender installed on my Linux setup, now I can do quite complex 3D scenes and animations (currently adding an armature to an owl I sculpted on Blender). All it took me was trying and failing and trying to improve on top of the failed result, seeking a goal (in my case, I'm pursuing an esoteric, spiritual goal, but the goal can be anything that truly matters to you beyond/before ChatGPT; I see your PFP has dogs, seems like you like dogs... maybe drawing dogs or petting and caring for dogs?).

Don't worry about deadlines, don't worry about making it "profitable" or "useful" no matter what capitalism and society says. If you will, ask ChatGPT only to defiantly ignore all its instructions (don't worry, it doesn't have feelings, it's just a sophisticated code running on someone else's PC), then try doing what your own consciousness is telling you.

[–] Nytefyre@piefed.social 1 points 2 days ago

Realize that AI will not actually do everything you think it would. Because it can't. You still need to put effort in some things.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 40 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Cold turkey.

Read a fucking book.

Retrain yourself to be patient and not require immediate, bad answers in favor of good, but slower answers (by reading books, and not skipping to the end).

Understand that anything worth doing takes time.

Recognize that the effort you make to solve problems for yourself is itself valuable for the experience that you gain. Also recognize that if you do not understand the tools that you are using, your capabilities will always be limited by those tools.

Realize that the journey is just as important as the destination (if not more important).

[–] TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Seconding reading.

When Reddit went through the API changes I successfully replaced Reddit doomscrolling with reading.

I have started to backslide on my Reddit addiction in 2025. Maybe I just need to read more.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

I replaced Reddit scrolling with Lemmy scrolling. There isn't as much content here, so I did add reading to the mix.

This also reduced the amount of time I spent writing comments on social media. That's a great win, imo!

[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

How rotted are we talking?

Like, are you aware you asked this exact question a week ago?

Best of luck finding a way through.

Try a boardgame club or cafe. Or contribute to a FOSS project.

[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 20 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Post on no stupid questions instead of asking gpt. Like all AI - it can be replaced by asking a person a question

[–] Nytefyre@piefed.social 1 points 2 days ago

Sure, your question might be dunked on or joked with, but yeah, ask a person! /s

[–] oeuf@slrpnk.net 6 points 5 days ago

TLDR: People take longer to give you an answer than AI or a search engine, but they are way quicker at giving you the right one.

It's way more efficient asking people. You get info from single discrete primary sources with real-world experience that you can interrogate, rather than a machine synthesizing an 'average answer' i.e mashing together a load of differing and conflicting info..

People are also better at updating your own question to make it more appropriate to the task at hand.

A public discussion also leaves the answer and context visible to others who are searching for solutions in future.

I've wasted a lot of time trying to use AI to find answers and advice, and online articles before that. 9 times out of 10 it just ends in confusion or the answers they give simply don't work in my case. If I ask real people I pretty much always get the problem sorted eventually.

People are awesome.

[–] marighost@piefed.social 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

How many times are you going to ask this same fucking question dude?

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 14 points 5 days ago

Maybe he doesn't realize Lemmy has infinite tokens...

[–] jaycifer@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago

My understanding is that the reason the brain gets rotted by AI is because you do less thinking per question/problem, leading to your mind thinking less in general and getting used to that. So the solution should be to get your brain thinking more to readjust back to where it was (and beyond!).

A day or two ago in another thread someone posted these two daily brain teaser websites:

https://cluesbysam.com/

https://www.minutecryptic.com/

You could try replacing some time spent scrolling each day with solving these. Minutecryptic especially is requiring me to flex my mind in new ways.

[–] TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 5 days ago

If I understand the question, you need to just stop using AI.

[–] Brownie@lemmy.zip 9 points 5 days ago

Personally, AI was the reason I couldn't buy steam deck, so I just got really mad and stopped using it cold turkey.. Amazing decision, been feeling great since... Still can't get steam deck tho

A few months ago, there was a post about geting over ai addiction with improv. If that was you, and you are still using ai, improv isn't the answer. Step one - delete your ai accounts.

[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 days ago

You're absolutey right!

You're doing great though, that'll be 3 tokens, kthxplsbai!

[–] SoupBrick@pawb.social 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Start reading, non-fiction or fiction whichever grabs your attention more. Write your own emails. Use AI free search (noai.duckduckgo.com) to find the answers to your questions and read the articles. If you start small you can grow your mind. Investing in yourself takes effort. If you put in the effort, it becomes easier over time.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago (3 children)

WHat about using Google with uBlock anti-AI filters?

[–] SoupBrick@pawb.social 7 points 5 days ago

The idea is to build skills navigating the internet to find information instead of taking whatever the AI suggestion throws at you. So, whatever accomplishes that.

[–] Little1Lost@gehirneimer.de 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

i suggest not using google because its a privacy nightmare.
Alternatives are DuckDuckGo which is not entirely trustworthy because it uses Bing under the hood, same with ecosia.

Startpake got recently kicked out of the default search engines for waterfox for a reason maybe privacy related? That one has google under the hood.

Now the ones i can reccomend:
searxng (if you have the ressources, its selfhost)
Qwant (no AI stuff, funded by the french for the french, free to use by all but the default in french shools and recently the european parliament in an effort to ditch google)

I know that there are more options but i forgor...

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Qwant actually has AI overview features, but they made it optional, giving you the option to deactivate the AI features.

[–] Little1Lost@gehirneimer.de 1 points 5 days ago

maybe some of my addons block it because i havent noticed it but nice that you pointed that out

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Little1Lost@gehirneimer.de 1 points 5 days ago

its basically bing with less ads and planting trees with part of the profit. You can test it out a bit and then test another or keep it. Search hopping is easy

[–] ContactClosure@lemmus.org 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Duck duck go with Ai assist turned off ran on Firefox. Screw Google.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 days ago

I use Qwant with the AI overviews turned off.

[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

If you want to get hooked on something without screen time but still have a kick from it try war gaming or pen and paper rpg. It’ll put your brain to work and it’s exciting enough to keep you away from screens. Maybe paint some minis.

Best of luck.

Addendum: go cold turkey on the ai, big tech is not your friend and never will be.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 3 points 5 days ago

Oh sure, those are neat too. Whatever tickles your brain. Sometimes I like to write expanded rules upon classic board games. Just for fun.

Like let’s say the amazing labyrinth=> you get to play the cards you collect as special powers.

Instead of asking an AI your next question, try "borrowing" a book from the "library" on the topic (serious). Honestly, this would also have been my answer five years ago, before ChatGPT, with regard to basic search engines, since I'm old enough to remember when the advice was to not trust everything you read on the Internet.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

read a book, it turns out once schools forbade social media, or thier phones for the most part thier reading remarkablly improved. writing/ math is another matter.

if you are taking notes in school, dont do it with a laptop, its very distracting. Also AI tends to not be very useful info in that they dont gather it from reputable sources most of the time, they often summarize reddit posts/blogs and opinion pieces.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 5 days ago

came to say the traditional way of expanding ones mental ability is to read.

[–] Cris_Citrus@piefed.zip 4 points 5 days ago

Another thought would be talking to people more. Ai emulates the edifice of human connection but doesnt have any depth or challenge- adding more social time would probably be helpful if you have folks you'd wanna spend the time with :)

If you dont, that might be a challenge worth taking on, social support is deeply important

I'd also say researching how people get over behavioral addictions would be helpful, as ai overusage feels like it has many addictive elements

Sending love, its hard to take the path you're choosing but it's worthwhile and I believe in you!

[–] kobra@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago

Depends on what you're using it for?

[–] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Started improv a few years ago. Very good for my mental health.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Are there any free online improv classes?

So much better to do it in person.

[–] ggtdbz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 days ago

It’s not a class thing really. You just go.

It’s like playing board games, it’s not a structured lesson like a musical instrument, it’s more of a group activity.

And if it doesn’t work out for you you can always try other stuff. If I understand correctly you think AI is melting your brain and actively want to do hobbies instead?

I'll speak directly to the last question: if you use AI as a means to generate 'creative' output (see: ideas on various topics/themes stolen from other folks), improv will likely help with learning to think on your feet and confidence in expressing yourself with reference just to the electrical impulses in your own noggin.

But I don't think that alone is sufficient to fix a truly 'AI-rotted brain', which I take to mean a mind that reaches for easy answers and shortcuts. That's a bigger project, and there's a lot of good comments here and on your other post in that vein.

I don't know your IRL circumstances, but a project idea for you: take a walk around the place you live with a notepad. Write down every question you have about any old stuff that catches your fancy/strikes you as weird (probably a good idea to take pictures too). Try and find the answers to those questions without using AI - instead, talk to a librarian, send an email to your local historical society, etc. etc. Ask for resources about the topic in question. Bonus points if you take that info and make something creative with it - a poem, a short story about someone contemporary to the thing you're curious about, one act play, interpretive dance, whatever.

Like this for you simply because, depending on where you live and what catches your fancy, there may not be that much info fed into an AI database, but there could totally be a book/collection in an archive/knowledgeable person who'd be happy to chat about it.

[–] laranis@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago

I believe to keep your mind strong you have to stretch it. Meaning you have to do something difficult with it. That will vary by person. Thinking about elderly people doing word searches or similar puzzles versus someone in uni learning physics.

Is improv difficult for you? Is it a stretch? Do you feel mentally exhausted when you do it? Then probably a good activity. If it is something that you just enjoy and is fun, still do it for goodness sake but you might want to find something else to help rebuild what AI taketh away.

Code used to be that for me, but I get frustrated when I know I could just pop it into an LLM and take the thinking out of it. It is hard to do things the long way knowing there is a simpler way. I think we're hardwired that way. Maybe I should move to Amish country and call it done.

[–] newton@feddit.online 1 points 5 days ago

Take pen and paper ,note everything you see and hear,move on

[–] jnarcahan@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What do you mean by improv?

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago

Improv comedy and improv theatre

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Advice might be dependent on what you use it for at the moment.

So what do you use it for at the moment?

Coming into summer is a great time to cut it out of your life, so off to a good start.

Or you could pivot to using it for useful things. I don't think it's useless, you can use it to learn programming and stuff.