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I try to give the most grace possible. I've only ever blocked two users here. That said, I'd totally understand why someone might block me.

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[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm very happy to block communities, much less so to block an individual. They've got to be consistently spammy for me to get annoyed enough to block.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 6 points 2 days ago

tankies one i will almost always block if i see thier comment, its never a good comment(its almost whining about the "not far left". only .ml i give benefit of a doubt, due,apparently alot of them have an .ml as a solely techy account and not a political one.

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I never block anyone. I just tag people so I know who I'm dealing with the next time I encounter them.

Btw I have you tagged too

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What do you have me tagged as ??

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nothing yet. But I'm sure your paths will cross in the future in some discussion and I will get to judge your whole life and personality based on a few comments and probably get you labelled as someone you're not, because that's how the internet works.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 3 points 2 days ago

you motherfucker ...!!

[–] acchariya@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I never tried to block anyone because I have the memory of a goldfish when it comes to strangers on the internet. Well, except that guy that replaced all his "th"s with "þ". That was annoying and if he didn't give up on it, get banned, or otherwise disappear I might have learned how to block someone.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Honestly that dude and the person super into dragon sex are actually the best trolls I've met. 100% harmless and it's wild how many people DON'T just hit the block button when they find them annoying. They're like a built in litmus test for whether a Lemmy user is a fully developed adult who can avoid getting entangled in dumb conversations (which apparently you are).

[–] JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago

I do recall blocking the thorn guy from my previous account. So that's a downside to establishing a new Lemmy account. All the users I'd blocked are now roaming freely in my feed again.

[–] zerobot@lemmy.wtf 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

i blocked everyone in this thread

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 2 points 2 days ago

lalala can't hear you you're blocked

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[–] OlPatchy2Eyes@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Mostly block people that I think are taking up too much space on my feed

[–] mybuttnolie@sopuli.xyz 14 points 2 days ago

ive blocked some users who posted the same crap 7 times a day, and the one who uses that weird character to replace every "th"

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I only block people who consistently post things I don't want to see or people who spam post the same thing eleventy billion times in different communities.

Personally I've thought about blocking you and violet for the horny posting but it's amusing enough that I haven't yet.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

One dude got into a highly uncivil argument about what constitutes "real physics" on a post of a tumblr screenshot with overwrought prose about... (tbh I don't remember now but I'm thinking electromagnetism?) then reported the other user. Don't get me wrong it was bad tumblr prose but like. It's a genre some people like and a staple of tumblr culture which the comm was about.

Anyway I temp banned them both (I think I did accidentally remove too many comments but anyway) because they were having a toddler level squabble with profanity over tumblr poetry. One of them called me some kinda profanity so I permabanned them and they made a post on power tripping mods and pretty much everyone was like "you know we can still dig out the comments AND your DMs and you're kinda just a menace... right? Like I woke up and pretty much everyone had already defended me. Anyway I blocked them and moved on with my life. People need to use the block button more often tbh.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

I tried to discuss but now I block tankies at the first sealioning attempt (or similar strategy).

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The second I see 2 identical posts by the same user on multiple communities

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

That is some annoying shit. I think half the reason I get so much engament with my posts is specifically because I don't do that shit.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 58 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm not gonna just willy nilly block people... already too low userbase, I kinda wanna just see the drama

Like even that user asking weird age gap questions is part of the entertainment lol

But if they start being overtly toxic... yea I'm just gonna block and ignore

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 1 day ago

I review the posts and either pull the trigger or don't. There have been plenty that I have not. My bar is seing a person with geniune diverse interests who does not always act like a dick.

[–] qaz@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

I mod several communities so I never block people, because I want to see their posts and comments

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Apparently, I block to curate a better-than-the-other-place experience, if the 200+ users, 100+ communities, and couple dozen instances I've blocked over the last 2+ yrs are any sign.

Mostly asshats & bots, and a zero-tolerance for hexbear, blahaj, ani/midwest/etc.social, feddit, yiffit, et al., but I'm open to suggestions, as well. 😂

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

why blahaj ? aren't they mostly a nice queer bunch ?

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago

That's what I read as well, and it sounded like a genuinely lovely place, but after dozens of nearly consecutive user blocks from there, I was compelled to just call it. 🥲🙇🏽‍♂️

[–] Jaegeras@piefed.social 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I block the moment I get a hint someone is responding to me in a snarkily asshole way.

I don't mind engagement, but I value my patience and sanity. I don't have all of the time in the world to be in constant word-jousting matches with a no-life.

[–] Malfeasant@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Have you blocked me yet? If not, it might save time to do it now...

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[–] Karl@literature.cafe 3 points 2 days ago (3 children)

If I find someone who speaks with reddit sarcasm, I'm blocking them

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[–] fizzle@quokk.au 45 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Originally I didn't like blocking people or communities at all but I've realised the lemmy experience is dramatically improved by blocking idiots.

The thing is lemmy is a relatively small community. If some nutter posts and comments every day they can really shape your impression of the place.

Some users have very little life experience, and depth of understanding, and are just fixated on some single issue. I'm not here to argue with that type of user.

Yesterday I blocked a community just because the single mod didn't understand the problems caused by editorialising titles when posting articles.

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Not often. I browse by new all so I can begin the downvote train as early as possible and report stuff.

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[–] SaraTonin@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I tend to label rather than block. But it’s been a while and either I’ve forgotten how or voyager has removed the feature

[–] Kazel@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago
[–] Libb@piefed.social 11 points 3 days ago

I'm lightning fast the moment I realize someone is only looking to either

  • be toxic, or worse
  • waste my time, troll me.

For the rest I don't block individuals, nor instances (I can have issue with people, but I don't want to condemn the entire population of their instance).

[–] promitheas@programming.dev 7 points 3 days ago

I never do unless they are a clear scam/troll account. No matter how much i disagree with their opinions, i still want to see it and engage with them, for fear of being the architect of my own echo chamber

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 days ago (10 children)

Life is too short to deal with assholes and bots. They get blocked very quickly.

When I made this account, I went through the communities and blocked a lot of them. All sports, foreign languages, anime, and furries. All the content I know that I have no interest in.

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[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (7 children)

I only really blocked power users on reddit and lemmy doesn't have those yet. Not the same way gallowboob was.

[–] whelk@retrolemmy.com 6 points 2 days ago

I feel like accounts like PugJesus, PicardManeuver, and LadyButterfly are doing a pretty hefty chunk of Lemmy posts. I don't dislike any of them (I like how PJ adds little contextual informative notes to their memes and whatnot, Butterfly seems to provide a lot of positivity), but I did add little colored tags to their accounts to help me realize just how many posts were theirs. I don't know how they manage to stay motivated to keep doing all that posting

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