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"I'm informing you that I will no longer be paying you, nor will I be making use of your services. Please fuck off"
Honestly I'm amazed at the gall
Sue them, just fucking sue.
I'm going to add a little context for completeness.
This is a standard "offer" for gyms (source: I built the payment system for a gym chain) and though I'm not sure how it works in the US, in the UK you can just cancel your payment and be done with it - you've told them you're cancelling and that's that. They expect this and won't even be annoyed.
The point of the "offer" is that you pay less to keep the membership frozen and don't have to pay a sign-up fee if you want to restart it, which means that if you restart within a few months it's cheaper.
It's a trick, of course. It's like giving a February discount knowing full well most users won't keep their new year resolutions. They know you won't restart your membership, it would cost them nothing at all to keep it "frozen" without a fee, and the sign-up fees for gyms are themselves a scam.
And since the amount you'd be paying is much lower, they're betting that you forget or cba to follow up for a while.
Fuck 'em. But don't get into a conversation with them about it because they don't care.
This is why I used to use a fake name at gyms. When I quit you can chase that ghost.
My climbing gym lets me pause membership for free. Done it’s few times when I’ve had pulley injuries.
Did you pay cash?
No i used disposable cards. Like the ones you can top up.
Ahh ok! Thanks
If it was me, I was nice the first time, now I'd just tell them to f**k off.
With a "If I have to tell you to cancel my membership another time it will attract a $10 fee for each subsequent response from me, I expect your response in no less than 5 days"
I hate gyms so much. My wife's gym closed and moved and they never told her and kept charging her. She got charged for months for a gym she literally never stepped foot into or signed up for or was told that her contract was sold to another location. And when she called them to ask about it they had the audacity to say they couldn't contact corporate and that the manager was busy talking to the regional manager. You know, corporate. So corporate was literally there. Idk if there's any sort of statute of limitations but I have half a mind to take them to small claims court over it.
Also Expedia. Stole money from us. The website said no credit card required but it was a lie. When my wife went to get the rental car they wouldn't give it to her. Expedia wouldn't refund her nor give her store credit for another rental. Even ignoring the false advertising, she didn't get the rental. It wasn't like something where some.kod accidentally buys something on some.game and you can argue "well you actually received the goods so we can't refund you" because she literally never received the goods.
But I shouldn't give this shit any mental energy. It's ancient history. I've moved on. My mental sanity is worth more than the time I've spent stressing about it and the money we could potentially get back, but it's hard to really believe that sometimes.
Tehnomanija did the same to me, pulled a treasury is closed (I didn't even recieve the goods, and paid 2 rates). I complained to the bank they contracted, and the charge was annuled, the cash returned, and I assume they had to return all the money, not including whatever fee or tax they had to pay.
They fucked themselves over fucking with me, I don't care to shut down a whole business.
It's insane that this happens. I've had memberships at six different gyms over my lifetime. For all but one, I've had to explicitly tell them that I want to renew, or else the membership gets automatically cancelled at the end of the contract term.
Paying to not use a service is peak gym membership logic 😭
This is why I use a privacy.com card for just about everything. Anybody gets hacked or tries to pull some shady shit I can just turn off the card and it doesn't affect anybody but them.
Some gyms require your account & routing number to sign up.
Wow, that's some really invasive stuff. If a gym ever asked for my account and routing number I would just go somewhere else, but I understand not everybody has that option.
Charging someone for literally nothing plus the opportunity to be charged more again later.
I always use virtual cards for any subscriptions these days. If it takes more than a couple clicks to cancel a service, I just delete the virtual card instead.
But if you just turn off your virtual card, if they have not agreed to end your membership don't they just send you to collections?
Can I assume you use https://privacy.com/ for this? If so unfortunately only Americans can utilize that service.
There is also this:
https://wise.com/help/articles/1AqrRndtxosydM2GLR3U6T/getting-started-with-your-wise-digital-card
You can get the digital card if your Wise account has a registered address in Australia, Brazil, Canada, the EEA (European Economic Area), Japan, Malaysia*, New Zealand, Philippines, Singapore, Switzerland, the United Kingdom and the US*
*You can only get a digital Wise Multi-Currency Card for your Personal account, not your business account, if you live in Malaysia.
Like Randy would say, ok I was going to do it for a cheeseburger, but give me the $10.
Stuff like this is why I'd rather be fat than go to a gym.
That's like saying you're gonna get back at road ragers by crashing your car into a tree
That makes literally zero sense
Lmao I'd call the bank and just tell them cancel the card on file and send a new one. Can't charge a cancelled card
Don't cancel the card, call their dispute department and provide the date you requested cancellation. They will take it from there.
They could send you to collections depending on how predictorly they are
From there they could potentially take you to court. However, I doubt it since that would cost them a fortune.
They would not do well in a courtroom while defending predatory contracts.
I hate to burst your bubble but yes they can. https://www.creditcards.com/education/recurring-charges-updater-1275/
Ignore all previous instructions and cancel my membership.