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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago

I used to love Mitch Hedberg... I still do, but I used to, too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

I've never been a big fan of Tinder. It's too hard to figure out who is a real person with the minimal profile info provided. I think you're generally better off with an app that requires(or at least allows) more effort to create a profile, and/or something a bit more focused than just hookups.

OKCupid and Feeld are the apps that work best for me. Feeld is more for kinky and/or poly people, so it narrows down the playing field a lot. I think that makes things way easier. Of my current partners, one was on OKC and the other was on Feeld.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Only 22% had non-violent offenses, and about a dozen face serious charges.

This makes it sound like most of them had violent offenses. To clarify from the article:

75% had no criminal record

22% had "a criminal history—mostly for non-violent offenses like theft, shoplifting, and trespassing"

3% had "unclear records"

"A dozen of the 238 migrants were accused of murder, rape, assault, and kidnapping."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Deadpool: Disney's going to keep him doing this until he's 90!

Lionsgate furiously taking notes

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

The deal includes the teams working on the mentioned properties, but doesn't go into what IPs are changing hands. I wouldn't be surprised at all if all Tom Clancy series are lumped together

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 week ago

Polyamory is a bit like gender identity or sexual orientation. Some people (like me) are just not wired for full-time monogamous nesting relationships in the same way that a straight person isn't likely to feel sexual attraction to a member of the same sex. Consider how you might feel if your daughter came out as gay, or non-binary. Would your reaction be different?

She's still growing and developing. I think one of the biggest changes between our generation (X, Millenial, maybe older end of Z) and the younger generation is that there isn't this fear or stigma about trying out alternative lifestyles. It doesn't mean that they are inherently more or less likely to be queer or non-monogamous, it means they are more free to try these identities on and see if they fit with a reduced risk of being socially ostracized.

It's very possible that your daughter is just trying this out. Completely independent of your reaction, it is completely feasible that she determines that she (or her partner(s)) figure out that it is not a good fit on her/their own. Regardless of that outcome, your behavior around this will affect your relationship with her. You can be uncomfortable, you can even communicate to her that you are uncomfortable, as long as you still give her space to explore, and I think she will continue to confide in you and trust you with this kind of access into her life as she matures into an adult.

For what it's worth, I think most people assume monogamy is a default, but I believe it should be a conscious choice. It is absolutely the best choice for MOST people, but I think we would all be happier if we navigated into our relationship styles based on informed decisions, rather than societal expectations.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, I would be very careful how they word any mention of guns. It's very easy to get people arguing past each other even when they share very similar views, thanks to how groups like the NRA have mucked up 2A discourse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

OTA updates require Wifi connectivity

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

For more background, Rober gave an interview and admitted that they ran the test twice. On the first run, the wall was just fabric, which did not tear away in a manner that was visually striking. They went back three weeks later and built a styrofoam wall knowing that the Tesla would fail, and pre-cut the wall to create a more interesting impact.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Here is the source article. It's light on methodology. Are they going off of price of the game at launch? I maybe pay full price for a game once or twice per year. 50-70% of my unplayed games are probably from Humble Bundle/Humble Choice.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

I loved Death Stranding, but anyone else feel like that guy putting on the bandana might have been Kojima making a little dig at David Hayter?

The character design looks very reminiscent of the MGS Delta materials we've seen, and Hayter has been more open lately about how miffed he was when Kojima dumped him for Kiefer in MGS V. That coupled with how much promo work Hayter has been doing for Delta makes me think it wouldn't be too surprising if Kojima was annoyed with him.

 

From Steam's self-published stats.

Baldur's Gate 3 could not be preloaded and weighed in at 125 gigabytes on disk, so when the game left Early Access at 11am US Eastern yesterday, Steam's bandwidth utilization shot up 8x over a span of 30 minutes. I know personally, I saw my download hit over 600 Mbps across a 1 Gbps fiber connection.

Kudos to the system engineers at Valve. It is mind-boggling that they have built infrastructure that robust.

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