TubularTittyFrog

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[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

they do... just like they can't breathe nitrogen.

Do you know anyone who breathes nitrogen?

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

there are 32,000 species of fish.

we only eat like 100 of them or so.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

15+ YEARS AGO. that was even before true crime even began a big deal, which was 10 years ago

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm not sure what world you live in, but nobody gets held accountable who can avoid being held accountable. And that's... true for everyone. Everyone is trying to avoid accountability all the time. People who seek accountability are rare.

Like, have you ever had a job or been in a school? Everyone blames somebody else for their issues. Very few folks say 'it was my fault I failed the test/project'.

Hell most of our social structures are specifically design to avoid accountability.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

you realize rich people are human beings right?

they aren't aliens from another planet. they have all the same emotions and desires as you do. they just have more money than you do, so they have more ability to fulfill their desires.

It's ironic, you expect them to have empathy for you, but you have none for them. You here, demonstrate yourself, that you have 'othered' them, and yet you think they shouldn't 'other' people who aren't rich.

Why do you do this? because you are cognitively removed from knowing wealthy people and they exist entirely in your imagination as these psychopathic monsters. further, I doubt you have any more empathy for the impoverished in Africa, than they do.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

yep, and they all see the class above them as 'rich' and themselves as 'working-class/normal/struggling'.

i remember my own parents going on about 'poor' and 'rich' in our town, and the income differential was like, maybe a factor of 4-6x. the poor people made 20k, we made 30k and the 'rich' people made like 50k. but this was in a rural area where we had no exposure to people making 100K+ let alone millions.

people don't get how the psychology of wealth is all relativistic. where i live now people making 300K+ think they are 'poor' because they compare themselves to people making millions. and the people making millions think they are poor because they compare themselves to people making 10s of millions.

my sister makes 500K a year, lives in a 5million dollar house, and endless talks about the people living in 10 or 20 million dollar homes and how she is 'just a normal working person', and she thinks those are the 'rich' and she is the 'poor'. the place she lives the 'poor' people make like 150-200K, and well people making under 100K just don't exist.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

a lot of rich people are rich because that way you don't have to see any affects of a lack of wealth.

that's the point. that's why they social isolate themselves in gated communities and exclusive resorts.

being subject to having to look at poor people suffering is a thing only poor people have to suffer.

your idea that rich people have 'feelings of immorality' makes me laugh, because you clearly dont' know any rich people, they don't have these feelings at all. that 'feeling 'is a projection of the poor onto the wealthy who think they know how the wealthier live and feel.... you don't. they live in another plane of existence and the concept of 'uneven distribution' doesn't exist to them.

you can't care about stealing candy from babies if you don't even know the babies exist. that's the element you are missing.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

both, or neither.

everyone has different circumstances.

there are rich people who live modest middle class lives, but lemmy thinks those people don't exist. it's that all moderately rich people are sociopathic monsters or something...

and plenty of poor folks are sociopaths. almost as if money isn't exactly a determining factor in any of this...

not to mention an influencing factor isn't necessarily determining factor... but hey that's too subtle for the fediverse genius who think we're all noble savages and it's society that corrupts us..

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

yep. my sister threw up in a house with a income of about 20-30K a year, she now has about 50 million in net worth.

her main preoccupation in life how how evil the government is because it wants to tax her and give her month to poor people, who grew up like her and how awful and terrible that is. she has a psychological block now, because in her mind now it's that she was always deserving of this and it's everyone else who is undeserving.

she also has a victim-complex and talks the way many people here talk, it's just she blames the poor people and minorities, the way lemmy posters blame billionaires. the rhetoric is exactly the same though, she thinks we need to eliminate the poor people/socialism, lemmy things you need to eliminate the billionaires/capitalism.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

it isn't though.

it's that when you accumulate power and privileged... you tend to be more likely to exercise it indiscriminately, because temptation to do so is strong and the consequences lesser.

i know people who grew up poor and became rich... it was only after they were rich... for awhile, after their hedonistic treadmill had readjusted, that they became greedier and greedier and more sociopathic.

it's a basic facet of human psychology you have backwards. when you don't have power over others... you can't abuse them. when you do have power over others, you can.

that doesn't mean the powerless are good, it just means they have less opportunity to be evil. and there are plenty of powerful folks who aren't evil.

entitlement is a hell of a drug.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yeah, that's how the economy works. demand and supply.

that's what's going on in tech right now, too many people chasing too few jobs.

there are no guarantees in life, so you have to adapt.

and a lot of people would be a lot richer if they had better economic habits.

define improving society? like a greater GDP? a greater per capital income? etc. also realize that your definition of 'better society' likely has nothing to do with someone else's.

healthcare for all sounds good on paper, but how can it be achieved if we already have a medical system that can't meet the needs of current demands? if we had medical for all and were able to provide decent service for all, we'd likely need to quadruple the number of healthcare workers...

it's easy to have high minded ideals about this stuff, it's much harder and murkier to get into the real world details and the real world consequences of 'improvement' in society.

if you passed medicare for all tomorrow, the medical system would collapse because it wouldn't be able to meet the demand. people would be waiting years for basic checkups, instead of months they wait now. my PCP books appointments six months in advance.

 

I lost my cat about half a year ago. Finally decided to start looking for a new cat and I spend this past weekend visiting several rescues. There were a lot of cats, mostly kittens, available.

I was a bit taken aback at the aggressiveness of some of the staff, who were like pushing and almost arguing with me that i had to have multiple cats and how superior having multiple cat is and it's not responsible to only have one cat. I am really looking for an adult cat, but I'd consider a kitten, but the staff were aggressively insisting I had to take two kittens or a kitten and an adult and didn't really listen to me when I tried to claim my lifestyle isn't really the best for two cats as I travel quite a bit and I can only travel with one cat, they kind of them went sour grapes on me. It was really jarring and off-putting.

Anyway, least to say I didn't really get any one on one time with any cat I was interested in and I walked away disappointed. I put my application in anyway, and now I'm getting voicemails and texts again like pleading for me to take 2-3 kittens or bonded adult pairs. When i reply I'm not looking for a kitten and I already have a dog who would be more than happy to play and be friends with a single cat, they just kind of come back at me insisting no you need two cats. This is across five different shelters this same kind of thing happened.

Is this a new thing? I have adopted cats before and never had I had this experience. Both times I adopted before it was far more laid back and the rescue staff were far less pushy, and I ended up adopted an single adult cat who were surrender for behavior issues I was able to rectify after a few months of focused attention and training, who became amazing animals. This is what I'm looking to do again. I am more than happy to put personal effort in, and it is weird to me the staff are like insisting 'two cats is easier than one'. I don't want easy. I don't see why that is problematic?

Are the shelters just like desperate to get rid of animals now and bullying potential adopters? Or is this another kind of trend like raw dog food, that rescue folks insist on pushing on new prospective pet owners? I had to deal when I adopted my dog a few years ago, there were some dog rescues who were like insisting you had to go on a raw dog food diet and it was... weird and offputting. Nobody was insisting you had to adopt two animals or a puppy or anything.

I will even say I have adopted from two of these rescues before, but I also applied to some new ones who seemed to have some cats who fit my needs, but they all actively steered me away from the cats i asked about and were pushing kittens or adults pairs on me that I had not inquired about.

Would having a dog already in my home also be why they are kinda pushing kittens on me? I understand that might be easier to integrate, but I kinda know what I'm looking for and have introduce animals before very successfully.

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