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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] Walk_blesseD@piefed.blahaj.zone 88 points 1 week ago (1 children)

men and females

🙄🙄🙄

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

~~men & women~~
~~males & females~~
men & females

It does feel kinda weird, right?

[–] jeffw@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

Idk what this comment means but yeah, that’s the point of the original comment. Neckbeards who call women “females” are weird

[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 week ago

At one time, a man seeing a female fully naked was the equivalent of a man seeing a female today too... because, you know, everyone was fully naked all the time, clothes hadn't been invented yet...

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 23 points 1 week ago
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some countries still don't allow women to show their faces because its "indecent exposure" morality laws or whatever 🤦‍♂️

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 2 points 1 week ago

Religion is truly the ruin of every civilization

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The knees? Are you high? The ankles.

[–] GalacticPanther@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I am so pissed I missed her OnlyFans. This was hilarious 💖😂

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Not even that. It's a myth. Most skirts were short enough to show the ankles because nobody wanted a muddy skirt.

I appreciate your well actually here. I would just like to point out for future reference that any comment containing the question "are you high?" like that is most likely tongue in cheek.

[–] elvith@feddit.org 1 points 1 week ago

The ankles? Looks nervously in the rough direction of the middle east You mean her face?

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You know I really doubt this.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah, i'd say it was only true "at one time, for some people." e.g the upper class in 1800s britain and america.


I think the historical norm can be derived as follows:

Long ago, say medieval times, people probably took off their clothes more often and nudity was more common. People bathed in rivers in public in those days, they needed to work in water sometimes (hence would show knees from hoisting up clothes) and probably chose to take their thick clothes off during sunny harvest days.

Historic accounts actually say that women would go shirtless, i.e boobs literally out, to relieve from heat during outdoor labour - this was the case in some parts of japan in the very early 1900s and some parts of Britain in 1800s. In Japan towns women went fishing together, in britain it would have been farming groups if i remember correctly.

The exception to this historical reality is localised to industrial-era elite, who preferred to button up tightly and show absolutely no skin (except for face). I suppose it might also be the case for men living in countries where burqas and headscarves are the norm for women, but those countries are still the same way today.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean, we all know that women are just...completely covered in skin, right? They've got it all over them.

[–] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've got an even bigger secret: Men are too

[–] Infrapink@thebrainbin.org 2 points 1 week ago

You know what's crazy? So are intersex people!

In men it's the third layer down under hair and grease.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No, because people are wired to like boobs.

Not just people, mammals in general

If you don't like boobs, you might starve to death as a baby. So loving boobs is probably one of the most selected for traits for any mammal.

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I lived in Haiti for three years. Breasts weren't considered private. After 2 months, I didn't even notice them. Interestingly, once I came back to Canada, they reverted back to being sexualized.

[–] medem@lemmy.wtf 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Interesting !

Reminds me of the Islamic concept of the Aura, which basically denotes body parts that should be covered in public. There's the so-called greater and the so-called lesser Aura. The greater Aura (= the body parts for which you commit a greater sin should you uncover yours in public or look at someone else's), goes from the navel to the knees. Thus, for a Muslim woman, it is less of a sin to go topless (as long as her pants cover all the way up to the navel) as it is to run around in a miniskirt or shorts.

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Interesting. It would sure attract the tourists.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Related: I wonder if "Daddy" is sexualized in places like say Singapore or Hong Kong...

I see "Daddy" used in TVB Shows... 👀

@NorthWestWind@lemmy.world So I hereby summon thee, our resident Hong Konger; is there like a sexualization of "Daddy" like there is in western countries?

Or do y'all just use the Cantonese word?

[–] NorthWestWind@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Daddy is used normally here. I can't think of a Cantonese equivalent off my head right now, but we have plenty of phrases describing different relationships types.

For example, 食軟飯 (eat soft rice) means a man being financially dependent on a woman.

[–] RoidingOldMan@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago
[–] UnspecificGravity@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And seeing her breast was like seeing an MRI.

[–] jeffw@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Okay Eric Rohmer