i fucking hate when some entrepreneurs who left Ukraine come by and obviously can speak Ukrainian but still insist on speaking English-only even though there is no real reason for it. And even when you just start talking Ukrainian they will still speak English for some reason and never switch and pretend nothing is wrong. Now that's an inferiority complex.
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As a person from a Ukrainian immigrant family who's mom is theblast to speak the language, that is just painfully sad. The language is such an important part of the culture and to deny it's existence even to yourself is just sad
it is what it is. these guys think they are better than those in Ukraine by virtue of moving out to another country and doing business there even though most Ukrainian entrepreneurs in the field probably end up making more money than them anyway. But then magically - when it comes to do their dream project - some tinder for deep thinkers or whatever the fuck with AI - they turn to their motherland for some cheap labour and act like they're the master race even though they're just cheapskate poseurs who are ashamed of their own national identity.
Taím ag obair ar mé féin a fheabhsú 😔

Oh you're a language fan? Speak every language.
Me gusta patinar en mi clase de matematicas
I grew up knowing the most popular language, why would I learn some backwater dump of a language like french only spoken by like 3.8% of humans unless I'm going to go live there or in one of the places they fucked over? Mandarin I could get, same with Spanish just due to total surface area and the best Venn diagram result. But there are so many little languages in the world and humans have finite time to live.
it's so wild to me that people just speak with their mouths all the time... like they can't switch it off to sign in a real language when they need to
"It's so wild to me that people just speak... When they can just text"
- My wife in an adjacent room
Listen, I'm trying, men min dansk er stadig meget dårlig
We are talking about real languages, not swedish with a potato.
Did you mean German with a Köttbullar ?
Selvom dansk lyder en smule fjollet, det kan godt lide jeg 😁
Jeg er sikker på dit dansk bliver bedre og bedre :)
and you try to learn Danish, one of the hardest languages in the world. I mean, same, jeg lærer dansk, but ayoo we need to chill and just pick up spanish or something
At least it isn't dutch, a language I still think is a prank people took seriously.
Ret flot, du huskede nutids -r på et ord med r-lyd, det er der mange indfødte, der ikke forstår... Pero, hablamos Español oder Deutsch... Bara inte prada det dritt sproket Svenska... I have no idea how close to Swedish I got there, maybe I mixed in a bit of colonial Norwegian, who cares? Real people speak real languages, not drunkenly Danish with mashed potatoes dripping down their shirts. (There, that should be enough to piss off those frikadelle reinventing posers across the sund)
lol, maybe. But, I was in Copenhagen recently and fell in love with the place. Just kinda sparked an interest, you know?
Hey same, talk about an uphill battle!
Although I don’t think English is that great of a language overall, imo it’s very very powerful.
What it lacks in logical consistency it makes up for with lots and lots of words (and idioms) that mean similar things but are slightly different for different use cases.
It has a very powerful toolbox for describing things in a very direct, specific manner.
I think other germanic languages are much better at that. Look at german or swedish, they often have much more precise constructions for concepts. Tho langauges are very complex and its very hard to speak generally about them like this. I still hate how english works even tho im basically a native speaker. Standing there and listeneing to a non-native trying to pronounce priests or trying to explain to them what shouldnt've means is painful. Of course my other first language being hungarian this is kinda hypocritical cause thats much more of a bitch to learners.