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[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

I vehemently dislike "inarguably" claims as it's a similar strategy as "protect the children, you would want to leave a child unprotected, now would you?" and this is a double whammy as it is about protect children so, yeah.

Having said that.

I think there are definitely issues to be resolved.

The way social media keeps kids reeled in is one thing. In the past I saw teenagers doing stuff together, laughing, getting themselves into trouble (as a part of growing up), endless endless chattering together... Now I continuously see groups of teenagers quietly on their phones in a group, only interrupted by every now and then one teen showing something to others.

Just in general, I think little kids should have a bit less media to begin with. Again, I walk over the street and see mother's with tiny kids and they're already glued to the screen instead of looking around. I feel like that generation misses the beauty of the world outside in lieu of constant screen time. I getting, it's nice and quiet for the parents who also want a life, but it seems a lot. It sort of feels like these kids are losing humanity and instead get this new world of only tech, and soon, only AI.

I think there are loads of other issues to be resolved as well. I'm a staunch advocate for banning mobile phones on schools (exceptions where needed) for example.

Having said all that, I don't think that outright banning social media for kids is a good idea either, it doesn't have to be a nothing or everything decision.

One thing could be that social media companies could be forced to publish their selection algorithms, and requiring said algorithms to adhere to a set of laws that ensure kids can interact healthily with their products.

There are loads of other solutions out there. I don't think a full ban is right but leaving it at how it currently is also is not a solution

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This is the newest 'think of the children' panic.

Yes, social media is harmful because companies are making it harmful. It's not social media that's the root cause, and wherever kids go next those companies will follow and pollute unless stopped. Social Isolation is not "safety", it's damaging as well, and social media is one of the last, freely-accessible social spaces kids have.

We didn't solve smoking adverts for kids by banning kids from going places where the adverts were, we banned the adverts and penalized the companies doing them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I disagree, as you said it yourself: companies ARE making it harmful, so it IS harmful. That, and there are various other reasons why its harmful

Its not an empty panic if you actually have real reasons why its harmful.

First you'd need laws in place that determine how the social media algorithms should work, then we can talk.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Its not an empty panic if you actually have real reasons why its harmful.

Every panic has 'reasons' why something is harmful. Whether they are valid reasons, proportional reasons, or reasons that matter, is up for interpretation.

First you’d need laws in place that determine how the social media algorithms should work, then we can talk.

Yes, then we can talk about banning systems that remain harmful despite corporate influence being removed. You're still just arguing (by analogy) to ban kids from places where smoking adverts are until we fix the adverts.

companies ARE making it harmful, so it IS harmful

No, companies didn't make social media harmful, they made specific aspects of social media harmful. You need to actually approach this with nuance and precision if you want to fix the root cause.

That, and there are various other reasons why its harmful

Every reason that's been cited in studies for social media being harmful to kids (algorithmic steering towards harmful content, influencer impact on self-image in kids, etc) is a result of companies seeking profits by targeting kids. There are other harms as well, such as astroturfing campaigns, but those are non-unique to social media, and can't be protected against by banning it.

Let me ask you upfront, do you believe that children ideally should not have access to the internet apart from school purposes (even if you would not mandate a ban)?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Haidt ... is campaigning internationally to end the “phone-based childhood”. He says... Videogaming, porn and gambling gave boys such dopamine hits that anything else they did felt boring.

This is pseudo-science.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I remember reading a Haidt article for an ethics class in grad school. The analysis felt... underwhelming? It's been too long to remember the article, but I think it was something about the "morality" of conservatives being not worse but different than liberals (limited to the US, iirc). I just remember reading it and going... yeah conservative morality functions differently. It's also just demonstrably worse, though, even based on what the article was focusing on?

That class was weird though. Mostly just a bunch of folks going,"yeah well this is what I care about" and disagreeing with each other with seemingly no intention whatsoever to try and evaluate or engage with one another.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 days ago

It's complicated. The current state of the internet is dominated by corporate interests towards maximal profit, and that's driving the way websites and services are structured towards very toxic and addictive patterns. This is bigger than just "social media."

However, as a queer person, I will say that if I didn't have the ability to access the Internet and talk to other queer people without my parents knowing, I would be dead. There are lots of abused kids who lack any other outlets to seek help, talk to people and realize their problems, or otherwise find relief for the crushing weight of familial abuse.

Navigating this issue will require grace, awareness and a willingness to actually address core problems and not just symptoms. It doesn't help that there is an increasing uptick of purity culture and "for the children" legislation that will curtail people's privacy, ability to use the internet and be used to push queer people and their art or narratives off of the stage.

Requiring age verification reduces anonymity and makes it certain that some people will be unable to use the internet safely. Yes, it's important in some cases, but it's also a cost to that.

There's also the fact that western society has systemically ruined all third spaces and other places for children to exist in that isn't their home or school. It used to be that it was possible for kids and teens to spend time at malls, or just wandering around a neighborhood. There were lots of places where they were implicitly allowed to be- but those are overwhelmingly being closed, commericalized or subject to the rising tide of moral panic and paranoia that drives people to call the cops on any group of unknown children they see on their street.

Police violence and severity of response has also heightened, so things that used to be minor, almost expected misdemeanors for children wandering around now carry the literal risk of death.

So children are increasingly isolated, locked down in a context where they cannot explore the world or their own sense of self outside the hovering presence of authority- so they turn to the internet. Cutting that off will have repercussions. Social media wouldn't be so addictive for kids if they had other venues to engage with other people their age that weren't subject to the constant scrutiny of adults.

Without those spaces, they have to turn to the only remaining outlet. This article is woefully inadequate to answer the fundamental, core problems that produce the symptoms we are seeing; and, it's implementation will not rectify the actual problem. It will only add additional stress to the system and produce a greater need to seek out even less safe locations for the people it ostensibly wishes to protect.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

No; it's not inarguable.

I do feel that some minor limitations around social media should exist; such as hours of the day you may not be allowed to read or post; but they should be simple age-gates created to privately verify a person's age via a simple SSO/OAuth style token. If you can't authenticate against some privacy respecting identity proving entity you probably aren't old enough and any account(s) you create would be limited.

Not all social media needs to be age-gated either; but social networks could be forced by law to avoid monetizing your account or habits at all if you don't willingly identify. (and by doing so; also CONSENT TO THIS MONETIZATION) In short; if you are not verified they're required to assume you are a child and handle your data as such...with utmost respect to your privacy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Man, I still really struggle to understand​ how we can reliably age-gate anything on the Internet without sacrificing privacy for everyone.

IRL you can just show your govt issued ID, but there's virtually zero privacy risk doing so. Bouncers don't register ID scans, typically, and they're just one person. The govt doesn't know you went to that club or drank at that one bar, unless they're actively surveilling you.

But if I needed to identify myself as an adult online, simply by virtue of how digital systems work, that probably requires checking against a govt database, and that database will keep logs, and now Trump knows I went to Pornhub, and likely also exactly what I watched or searched for.

Maybe I'm dumb, but I really don't know any way around this sort of thing.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 2 days ago (16 children)

This is ageism. Social media should be banned for everyone.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Videogaming, porn and gambling gave boys such dopamine hits that anything else they did felt boring.

Kids these days don't understand the rush of dumping their entire allowance into 15 minutes of Street Fighter, comitting borderline felonies while riding bicycles around the neighborhood, and then going into the woods to jerk it to that one Playboy before going over Steve's house to worship the devil.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was expecting a much stronger argument based on the headline.

Personally I'd prefer regulation on how social media is structured and how algorithms operate. First thing I'd do is ban infinite scroll, which corporations like because it increases 'engagement' whilst harming the quality of the experience for their users.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The argument they make seems to boil down to, there's various reasons to believe that social media can be a negative influence on teenagers, social media companies are intentionally manipulative and amoral, the idea of this type of social media ban is popular with the public in polls, and the Trump administration opposes social media regulation. So yeah, not all that comprehensive. Notably lacking is a case that a youth ban is actually the right solution and wouldn't cause its own harms, an explanation of why teenagers and adults are so different here and what that implies, or an acknowledgement of the cases against such a ban (for instance they make an uncritically positive reference to last year's ban by Australia which is extremely controversial and has a lot of good arguments against it, like the privacy disaster of making everyone prove their identity to post online). To be fair the whole thing seems like mostly a really brief summary of The Anxious Generation, maybe that book makes a stronger point.

It has to be acknowledged that much of what makes up human culture and society is online now, and will continue to be going forward. The real question should be, what do we want that society to look like, and how do we move in that direction? Probably there is a lot more to it than passing laws that ban things. Calling social media digital crack and demanding teenagers to go live in a past that doesn't exist anymore seems like a very head-in-sand attitude to me.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago (4 children)

So teens who don't fit in well in the IRL spaces that are available to them should have 0 ways to have social interactions?

If teen me hadn't had the internet, I would have 0 joyful memories whatsoever of my teen years. Anyone sympathizing with the ideas in the OP is in my mind purely evil and oppressive, I have no other words to describe this.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Calling people who are trying to protect children pure evil is unhelpful rhetoric. Disagreeing with their opinion is helpful. Sharing an anecdote against their proposals is helpful. Personal attacks are unhelpful and do more harm than good for the conversation. I will admit that they set the stage in bad faith by calling their stance 'inarguable'.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I tend to be unsympathetic in general to ideas that anyone (including young people) needs to be "protected" from their own decisions.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Are you genuinely comparing social media to social interactions? Twitter for example is like a parody of what social interactions are, and I think this article is talking about things like Twitter, TikTok, Instagram, and other algorithmic platforms that give the user an anonymous feed of slop. I can't imagine this is advocating for a ban on platforms like fb messenger, WhatsApp, ect. that aren't nearly as invasive and generally do serve a good social function.

The case isn't clear for platforms like reddit and Lemmy imo, on one side they do have a slop feed effect, but they also feel a lot less aggressive to me for some reason.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Sounds like it's the platforms that are the issue, not the kids. Would you believe that maybe the corporations havent been acting with ours or our children's best interests at heart and should, shock horror, be forced into doing that? It's almost like designing social media to be an ad casino shouldn't have been allowed.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Again, how do you define "social media"?

I grew up on IRC as well as web forums and found those social interactions very fun overall, not dissimilar from IRL social interactions.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I would draw the line at having an algorithmic content feed as the primary way of interaction. TikTok, Instagram, Facebook (mostly), YouTube, Twitter, Reddit would be out or would have to drastically change their content discovery system. By algorithmic I mean - one that adapts to the user's personal viewing habits.

I'd classify stuff like IRC and web forums as communicators, in the same basket as WhatsApp, email, sms, and perhaps Discord. I agree that they have, in general, valuable social interactions. They also don't have the same effect as algorithmic platforms where you can be scrolling for 2 hours and not remember a single thing you read, or where you're served content tailored to keep you engaged.

I'm sure there are some valuable platforms that would get hurt by this distinction, but imo it's a good first guideline.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's a possible distinction to make, the main problem is that the article in the OP didn't make that distinction.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

You're right, I guess I just assumed the author had the same view as me.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (3 children)

This is exactly the conversation that happened in Parliament over the Australian social media ban and its absurd.

There is a broad recognition that in a regulatory vacuum corporate social media created toxic and addictive "engagement"-maximising algorithms that harm all facets of society exposed to them.

So a solution is proposed: ban it for children.

When exactly, did it become fine for corporations to actively and deliberately harm people as long as they were old enough? How about preventing the harm?

It would be just as easy for a government to ban opaque and engagement maximising feed algorithms. But they went with the option that allows "tech" giants to keep harming the less marketable 80% of the population.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

There should really be a different term for Instagram/TikTok/FB/etc style social media sites (I call them "push-style" social media, though "algorithmic" is probably a better term) and websites like public forums, chatting platforms, etc. The former is what I think this article is talking about. The latter seems both fine and necessary these days, even in some cases among children.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I just go with "corpo social media" - is there a company trying to get infinite growth and profit behind the website?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

As a thought experiment, it's somewhat fascinating to ask what "social media" has done. I don't really consider anything past MySpace truly social. The term now means "let's keep you addicted to posts from people you'll never meet" -- essentially, the modern form of checkstand tabloids.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I mean, I don't disagree on the broad strokes, but it does beg the question:

What are you doing here?

This is that. You're on social media. We don't allow smoking and drinking for adults because it's any less harmful for them, it's just that we choose to let grownups choose whether they want to mess themselves up.

So why do you choose to mess yourself up and what should society do about it?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I have full control over my feed here. That's an important distinction. I'd imagine if I end up in someone else's hometown off Beehaw, we'd end up getting a beer or lunch.

Saying Facebook is in the same area code is specious.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

So the problem isn't actually "social media" but corporate control?

Well geez I wonder why everybody is attacking social media... \s

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Oh, ok.

So is this fine for kids, then? And if so, how do you draw that line in a piece of legislation?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not OP, but i am here because it's addictive.

Ostensibly, I came to be informed about special interest areas... But that's not a fair representation of how my time is spent.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'll cop to not having read the article and I'll say I might, but I can think of some pretty good ones. It's so children and teenagers can tell people when something bad is happening to them. Like being in a child marriage. Or being abused. Or being shot at in school. Or when their community is being preyed upon. Or when they're in a cult. Or when they're kidnapped and they have a phone. Or when they need to advocate for themselves against policy that chiefly affects them. Or when they're afraid something is happening to their friends. Or when they're suicidal. Or when they're lost. I could probably come up with a hundred of these. The thing is that children and teens are half-finished people and we afford people certain rights. So we need to decide if we'd rather treat kids as human or as another group of pawns to control. I loathe this debate.

[–] lena 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

How would they implement such a law?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

By bringing the violence of the state down upon children.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The same way Australia is doing it, a big fine for companies that don't comply and add an age verification process to sites.

Will it work 100%? No

Will it work enough? Probably

[–] lena 18 points 2 days ago (2 children)

So people would have to provide an ID to use social media? That seems like a privacy nightmare.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

I mean, Facebook already requires ID in many cases. https://www.facebook.com/help/159096464162185/

You're required to prove your age in a bunch of real life scenarios too, like buying alcohol, tobacco, or a firearm.

It is a privacy issue, but the question is on the balance is the privacy concern worse than the harms being done by youth on social media?

Given that there are literally hundreds of university studies showing how bad this shit is for kids, and leaked internal documents from the social media companies themselves, I think it's the better choice at the moment.

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