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I value personality but I feel like my secret obsession with lady parts would only make others either back away slowly or run to get away from me.I know that being attracted to them is normal but this feels next level.

Some of the lewd content that I collect is mundane, but some of it is more abstract and involves photographs of furniture, jewellery, desserts, and other things in… “interesting” shapes. Additionally, I do graphic design in my spare time and I have made some unusual creations inspired by lady parts, including a virtual pinball table.

I feel guilty about my obsession, not because it’s sexual, but because it sounds disturbing. Also, I feel like I must be a shallow person who is not interesting for more than five minutes. I certainly have a few other interests, but this secret one is special to me.

Is this an instant turn-off that I should hide as much as possible? I’ve seen jokes ridiculing guys for being breast-obsessed but I am too socially awkward to tell if it is more the obsession itself or the apparent disinterest in both personality and meaningful relationships that turns people off.

Update: I’m surprised at how many comments this thread received and how many users wanted to see my pinball table! I restricted it to private messages partly because I assumed that NSFW images were forbidden here, and partly because I used numerous other artists’ assets without permission (I had not intended to publish it anyway).

That said, a moderator told me that I could share it provided that I marked the topic NSFW and I credited the artists whose work I used. I modified a small part of it based on one of your suggestions. Click here to see it!

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

As a private message?! Really?! You're gonna make everyone ask individually?

[–] Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Unless the moderators give me permission to share a blatantly NSFW image here, yeah.

Do you want a look?

[–] sdfric88@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Lmao I gotta see this too please. And just so I don't spam the thread, your interest is totally fine and not too wild. It's a harmless kink! Maybe some people will be put off by it, but like... A foot fetish could do that too, and it's a well known fetish. Really doesn't hurt anyone, don't feel bad about it. You'll find your person

[–] Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

Private message sent.

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 days ago

hi im a mod, if you want to post this, just make sure its marked nsfw and has a proper content warning in the title and i wont remove it

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What do you want for it? I want one.

[–] Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Oh gosh, I wasn’t anticipating it becoming a real pinball table. That is a nice thought, though!

Although I would personally have covered the ball shoot with a picture/sculpture of a naked woman and had the ball come out from between her legs. Just a thought.