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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

thanks ❤️ ig cuz it’s so recent and i still harbor some old feelings, i feel like he can change

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

i also notice that although he’s bi, he’d only talk about hot men (especially fictional), wouldn’t mention me to other people, and would talk to me about his crushes as if we were just good friends. he would also try to make moves with some of them, presumably not telling them about me

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

the reason was that she wanted to stay friends after losing interest in me and she liked another girl, so idk

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

it was bc my current gf hated that i was a trans man

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

im obv in pain and he yells at me for it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

i detransitioned. tysm

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Khía uíne khóm ian ón Uísi?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

mine was a good ex, we were quite assholes in middle school but we’re on good terms and she’s nice now.

but considering shes straight, i probably don’t have a chance anyway

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

yes. i used to be a typical straight girl, but at an early age, i realized i didn’t care what the gender was. i heavily preferred men but wouldn’t mind dating a girl (bi-curious).

my first girlfriend was in middle school (6th grade) and after that, i liked a lot more girls than guys.

i still had male crushes though and was quite open to dating men. (bi)

when i transitioned to a man, i was still bi, but later began to prefer men again. (especially because i had bad breakups with women where they would cheat/ignore me/treat me badly)

i identified as gay until i got back with my gf and realized i still held feelings for women. subsequently, i detransitioned (due to some trauma/transphobia) and questioned being a lesbian.

after i officially broke up with my bf of a few years who didn’t treat me right, i realized i didn’t actually have feelings for men at all and it was comphet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

thank you so much! i have another too!

 

ni ón óa 😊

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á - not, no - á

ae - everything - аэ/ай

oé - animal - оэ́

aí - reptile - аи́

uá - speech, talk - уá

óa - good - оá

íe - bad - и́э

khéen - using - хэ́эн

khái - disgusting - хáи

ian - person - ян

iasía - mirror, reflection - яси́а

iéo - yellow, green - иэ́о

o - to hold, have - о

kháa - fish - хáа

khána - noise - хáна

khóm - come - хóм

khási - plant - хáси

khén - can, possible - хэ́н

akhú - raccoon - аху́

khíi - fruit, vegetable - хи́и

khín - also - хи́н

khísi - piece, cut - хи́си

khíen - rock - хи́эн

khó - goop, paste, powder - хó

khon - air, spirit - хон

khúe - color - ху́э

khúu - group - ху́у

khué - ear, to hear - хуэ́

áan - to steal - áан

ákhe - to sleep or rest - áхэ

áso - blue, green - áсо

auá - head, leader - ауá

ékho - block/square - э́хо

én - clothing, cloth - э́н

ée - cold, ice - э́э

séi - fire, hot - сэ́и

úi - big - у́и

íi - small - и́и

ókhu - mouth, to eat - óху

ina - line - ина

íu - paper - и́у

óie - red - óие

ón - is, at, exist - óн

úkha - hand - у́ха

úkhin - see, eye - у́хин

úna - hole - у́на

na - land - на

nana - parent - нана

néi - woman - нэ́и

níe - man - ни́э

nókhi - dead - нóхи

ónsi - back - óнси

nún - moon - ну́н

nusi - silly, play - нуси

núe - many - ну́э

nákha - number - нáха

nasa - strange - наса

nasin - way - насин

nena - bump, mountain - нэна

ni - me - ни

khí - this - хи́

nimi - name - ними

nókha - foot - нóха

óin - love - óин

ona - it - она

óen - open - óэн

ákha - break - áха

nái - do - нáи

aía - stick - аи́а

án - food - áн

ána - give - áна

si - of - си

síin - feel - си́ин

síeia - black - си́эя

síi - end - си́и

sisi - bug - сиси

okha - near - оха

ókhi - container - óхи

sána - same - сáна

séo - skin - сэ́о

séne - what - сэ́нэ

séui - high - сэ́уи

siéo - body - сиэ́о

síkhe - circle - си́хэ

sin - new - син

khía - you - хи́а

síkhin - face - си́хин

síkheén - picture - си́х

sona - know - сона

súno - sun - су́но

súa - table - су́а

súi - sweet - су́и

san - from - сан

sáso - but - сáсо

saua - to - сауа

sélo - water - сэ́ло

sénkho - time - сэ́нхо

óno - house - óно

sú - two - су́

únkha - sex - у́нха

úsa - mouth - у́са

úsaa - fight - у́саа

uáo - white - уáо

uán - one - уáн

uasó - bird - уасó

uaua - strong - уауа

uékha - away - уэ́ха

uíne - want - уи́нэ

áne - different

khóna - thing

éla - or

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khóm óa! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Uá Lasín

khóm óa saua khúu Lémi si Uá :)

Уá си́них

хóм óа сауа ху́у Лэ́ми си Уá :)

English

welcome to the Lemmy community about Uá :)

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name of language: uá

name meaning: speech, language, talk

writing system: latin, cyrillic (recently added)

there are 9 sounds in total

“a” - like father

“e” like bed

“i” like in “see”

“o” like in “store”

“u” like in “moon”

n “New”

s “Save”

kh, like in “Hat”

“m” - “Money”

Accent means the syllable is drawn out slightly/more emphasis

á - not, no

ae - everything

oé - animal

aí - reptile

uá - speech, talk

óa - good

íe - bad

khéen - using

khái - disgusting

ian - person

iasía - mirror, reflection

iéo - yellow, green

o - to hold, have

kháa - fish

khána - noise

khóm - come

khási - plant

khén - can, possible

akhú - raccoon

khíi - fruit, vegetable

khín - also

khísi - piece, cut

khíen - rock

khó - goop, paste, powder

khon - air, spirit

khúe - color

khúu - group

khué - ear, to hear

áan - to steal

ákhe - to sleep or rest

áso - blue, green

auá - head, leader

ékho - block/square

én - clothing, cloth

ée - cold, ice

séi - fire, hot

úi - big

íi - small

ókhu - mouth, to eat

ina - line

íu - paper

óie - red

ón - is, at, exist

úkha - hand

úkhin - see, eye

úna - hole

na - land

nana - parent

néi - woman

níe - man

nókhi - dead

ónsi - back

nún - moon

nusi - silly, play

núe - many

nákha - number

nasa - strange

nasin - way

nena - bump, mountain

ni - me

khí - this

nimi - name

nókha - foot

óin - love

ona - it

óen - open

ákha - break

nái - do

aía - stick

án - food

ána - give

si - of

síin - feel

síeia - black

síi - end

sisi - bug

okha - near

ókhi - container

sána - same

séo - skin

séne - what

séui - high

siéo - body

síkhe - circle

sin - new

khía - you

khísi - face

síkheén - picture

sona - know

súno - sun

súa - table

súi - sweet

san - from

sáso - but

saua - to

séo - water

sénkho - time

óno - house

sú - two

únkha - sex

úsa - mouth

úsaa - fight

uáo - white

uán - one

uasó - bird

uaua - strong

uékha - away

uíne - want

 

[DO NOT READ IF YOU’RE SENSITIVE TO DISCRIMINATION, EMOTIONAL ABUSE/BULLYING, OR TO START AN ARGUMENT. I JUST NEEDED TO RANT.]

my friend for 4 years is someone who i had to cut contact with. they’ve completely discarded me, perhaps before i cut contact altogether and won’t even look nor talk to me.

they are definitely something else, and i should probably feel good about that but it kind of hurts. part of the reason why seems to be because i’m an autistic woman, as she makes fun of autistic people and views them as lesser despite using autism as an excuse to be “stimmy”.

she also used to do the “don’t leave me for these other people! they don’t understand you like i do” thing. for years she convinced me that most everyone is ableist and evil and that i would never be good enough.

she convinced me it’s normal to treat people badly when you wanted to “mold” them into the person you wanted them to be, and it wasn’t until sometime last year that i realized this behavior was harmful.

she started treating my childhood friend badly too, and i had enough and we both cut off contact with her.

she, as of now, only talks to and hangs out with men and completely ignores women unless she wants a favour from them.

she also only hangs out with straight women because not only are they dating/hanging out with/romantically involved with “cool guys”, but they’re less likely to be “obsessed with her”. (last year, she didn’t hang out with lesbians because she thought they all were attracted to her and “lesbians aren’t my type”.)

her views are a shame because i’m autistic and a lesbian who somehow had feelings for her in the first year or so i met her.

she has some sort of pyramid, where straight men are at the top and autistic people are at the bottom, even worse if they’re autistic women because women are “dramatic b*tches”

now, rather than being mean towards women (specifically autistic women like me) she doesn’t even talk to them, which i guess is improvement, but i needed to rant.

 

i love the idea of creating conlangs. i’ve experimented with the idea of them in years past but have never done anything with them, let alone created one.

i did create some toki pona-based ones as they consist of few words (~100) but i want to create ones that aren’t just based off toki pona.

 

someone i long since cut contact with due to abusive behavior said they don’t care about other people’s rights or respect for them?

they said they don’t care if trump ruins the us (despite being american), that they don’t care about the discrimination and social disadvantages faced by minorities (they are black, bisexual too[?])

and they always say “i don’t know and i don’t care” when someone asks them something. they also talk about how bad it is to hate “illegals” (which i agree with) but says she doesn’t care ahout illegal hatred too??

 

some straight guy i was friends with was obsessed with me. he only cared if i liked men and had a bf for some reason, and would ignore that i liked women. he would act like i was straight and that if i dated women, that just meant i was single and obviously interested in him.

 

a lot of the time, i’m either busy doing something where i literally cannot respond or overstimulated.

when i’m overstimulated, i physically cannot talk or barely register what someone’s saying. i also have trouble understanding out loud speech for some reason, where i’m listening but can’t process the words.

when my sister asks or says something, i often ask her to repeat it because it’s a lot of information. she says something like “never mind, you don’t care anyway, it’s not important” when i ask to be repeated.

she doesn’t care when i told her why i need it to be repeated.

she also thinks i’m mad at her all the time, gets frustrated when i don’t talk (because im incapable), and starts talking badly about herself when i don’t laugh at her humor (which consists of loud screeching and tiktok “brainrot” words)

since then, i decided to feign laughter so she’ll not think i’m upset with her.

i do try to be there for my sister, but there’s times where i cannot or just can’t talk.

 

i just broke up with my bf who ghosted me bc he realized he's gay (im a woman). i don't even think i like guys but i have this compulsion to ask out my friend who i blocked to have a man that treats me right instead of the other guy that ghosted me, and also to make him happy.

he kept talking about how he could treat me better than anyone else, that i should've ditched my bf for him (obv i said no), and badmouthed not only his gf of a few years since age 16 but also his first time. he left her bc she showed signs of schizophrenia and she blocked all his socials after he left.

he kept guilttripping me when i said i didn't want to be his gf so ik he doesn't care about consent regardless of what he says. he also completely ignored me liking women and acted like i was straight but i feel lonely.

i kinda wanna make him happy and have a bf who pays attention to me but ik i'm probably just saying this out of sadness. we were friends but i had to block.

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