Answer: I understand your pain, but also no one on Lemmy is qualified to help you in any way. Get off the internet. When using Lemmy is not serving you, dont come back to Lemmy expecting it to suddenly serve you.
Cattypat
joined 2 years ago
MEEOOWWW!!!!!!
Look into the concept of codependency. One should never be in a relationship DESPITE their wellbeing.
Frankly, having dealt with situations like this before, this level of attachment should be walked away from or cut off. Amelia seemingly needs to get over this and I don't even know that theres a charitable solution to this where everyone wins. I've always governed myself with the philosophy that I should look after myself. This can superficially sound selfish but it's because I can't take care of other if I'm not nearing my best. If Amelia is this dependent on Ana, for both of their sakes, I think the tie should be severed or minimized. This sounds cruel, I understand. How does Ana feel? Does she feel burdened by this? If so, it sounds like we have our answer.
Both of them are fucking insane. To devote this much energy to weirdos on the internet is deranged. They both need to devote their energy to better things, as evidenced by the fact that I had to press "show context" on their comment thread so many times I lost patience. I thought everyone on Lemmy was better than this. I dont care what the original cause of the disagreement was at this rate because EVERY step of the way, one of them couldve turned on do not disturb or gone to an alt account or SOMETHING. If either of you are seeing this, you can do better. Flying Squid specifically? Threatening suicide is the number one way to look immature (of every kind), especially over a stranger on the internet. Do. Better.
Edit: If someone could give a kind description of what the drama was even all about, I'd appreciate it. I can't bear to dig through either of their histories.
tell me, are your human rights personally challenged by the trump administration? mine are, and I would like to maintain what rights I have now
Can you elaborate on what specifically bothered you? I didn't notice anything when I read it but it was a good while ago
I'm sure you've read or heard this before, but project hail mary is great. The whole bobiverse series was incredibly satisfying to read and the 5th book is out recently in the form of an audio book. Low pressure, low commitment series thats just full of engineering porn.
those blue shark gummies at like trader joes
and if see a bright red? this doesn't seem very scientific I'd love to see some more info
I try <3
I love the look of the beaches in Australia, hope I get to go soon! nice pictures!!