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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 month ago (4 children)

My uninformed guess is the person posting this is NOT the person in the picture.
Most likely, it's some weirdo's bizarre roundabout way of harassing whoever's picture this is.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 month ago

I never considered this, and I hope it's not true.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's a totally different angle and I hate it. You need to be a special kind of jerk to post someone else's picture in a spam message.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you think about it: have you ever gotten a picture of the spammer itself in an spam message

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yup. This is 100% the case. Either it’s a stolen image simply used for scamming, either it’s a harrasment technique.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

This makes sense to me because why else would they keep creating the same exact account on every instance and sending the exact same message?

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[–] [email protected] 62 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Hello all! I'm Rose. Also a Fediverse chick. Unlike Nicole I don't spam people. Also I'm not on Friendica (not many people are) and you probably shouldn't add me as a friend on any Fedi platform because I'm a hella boring nerd.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How do I send money to you?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

Sheesh, at least buy them a drink or something first, you don't have to jump straight to brass tax

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

I am interested.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Hi! I'm John, but you can call me the fediverse dude. Unlike nicole and Rose, I don't claim to be someone i'm not! Please add me on all platforms, I crave attention!

(Sorry Rose, I need this)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel like hella boring and nerd are mutually exclusive

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Depends if you're into each particular nerd's special interest(s)

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago (2 children)

When the cost to try something is virtually zero, you don't have to try very hard. If only one in ten thousand people will fall for a scam, then millions of attempts will still get you thousands of successes.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Theres no millions to message though. Some of the accounts are the same people, just jumping servers to fine one that works for them.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I don't think there is a million people here

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago

People, stop it, she already promised to marry me once the bitcoin transfer is received.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago

What a coincidence! I'm the fediverse dude!

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago

We're engaged. Will be getting married as soon as my deposit check for half the expenses clears.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Seriously, y'all need to stop doing the spammers work for them by reposting it

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

How are we supposed to be aware of the potential scams if they don't post it though?

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago

me :3 I've fallen hard

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Stupid question maybe but what's the goal of this scam? The URLs seem safe, is the goal to convince us to send money to her?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's almost certainly a pig butchering scam

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

be wary of any man who has a pig farm.

eh bricktop?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Might be just someone wanting to highlight an architecture issue that allows someone to spam everyone.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago

Incels. Incels are falling for that crap.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Srv guys

It was me all along

I'm a hot Toronto girl who just wants your money.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

One of the giveaways for me was the complete ignorance of the Canadian post-secondary system.

She said that she's taking pre-health sciences at George Brown College. College in Canada means community college (which George Brown is). You take a course, typically 1-3 years, with a specific goal in mind.

Also, Canadian universities do not offer pre-med or pre-health sciences tracks. You get a degree in chemistry, biology, or whatever, and apply for med school irrespective of the program you are in. One of my classmates was accepted into medical school straight out of chemical engineering. Someone else I know was finishing a degree in Spanish literature when he was accepted into medical school.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I tried messaging back and she never replied :(

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I cashapp sent her my life savings. She's going to wire me back 10x that amount any minute now.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Everyone knows there are no girls on the internet

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

nope, if that porn is on the internet those are MEN and that porn is GAY 🌈

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

It seemed pretty out of left field. Like, okay... I'm not clicking on any of that. No explanation of why someone would message me this and as I expected, it seems to have been some sort of widespread spam.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Joke's on you, I got myself a new friend 😌

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

I'm lonely, OK?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Fine, I'll play along

Joe who?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

She’s like our Myspace Tom

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 weeks ago

You know, I've seen so many people getting these messages... I never got any though... Not even spambots want me sigh

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Wait for Prince of Nigeria to hear about Fediverse.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I had seen posts like this circulating before so I tried to track them down:

https://lemm.ee/post/57432653

https://jlai.lu/post/16111085

https://lemmy.cafe/post/14113013

Some of these posts suggest they are using the pictures of someone else on purpose. Some say they're a bot. I personally haven't gotten these messages but I don't get DM's so that's probably why. I'm pretty positive this is some kind of Honeypot scam. Either way I wouldn't trust it.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Has anyone followed the links to see what the deal is?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I've had 3 or 4 already of this exact msg.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I fell for her pretty hard, I don't even mind that we all share but I get Saturday nights.

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