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[–] [email protected] 77 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean some of us hate grass so much we started a huge reddit community about it that made it's way too lemmy.

https://slrpnk.net/c/nolawns

[–] [email protected] 66 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I’m tryin’, man. Fruit bearing plants take a lot of work compared to the manicured suburban steriscape. They’re not super easy to grow (depending on where you live), require pruning and fertilizer, soil amendment, and unfortunately pesticides or fencing if you don’t want insects or deer destroying your hard work.

That’s way more effort than most people want to expend. HOAs or even local ordinances may also restrict what can be grown.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't know what your experience with gardening is, so I might be preaching to the choir here. But if it helps, No-Dig Gardening is a method that lets nature do a lot of the hard work for you.

https://www.rhs.org.uk/soil-composts-mulches/no-dig-gardening

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago

I’m not super-experienced, but this is absolutely a viable method if you have somewhat decent soil to start with. Unfortunately where I live it’s a ton of clay, so getting the soil to a usable state absolutely requires digging. It’s just as much work to dig and amend vs build on top and import soil.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Look into native plants. There are so many edible things that you can just leave in the wasteland that is your yard and they'll take over. Here in Tennessee we have pawpaws and maypops for fruit, tomatoes that pop up randomly, garden greens like wood sorrel and lambs quarters, and a bunch of other things that absolutely take over given half a chance. Sure, if you try and grow the seed packets from your local Lowes you'll have issues with pests and whatnot, but there is so much more food out there than these varieties.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It’s a stupid reason. Historically, if you were a peasant and had been granted access to land, you grew food or herbs. If however you were a lord, you got your food from your peasants. You had no need to grow your own food. So they could afford to grow lawns as a sign of wealth.

This has transferred across into the modern psyche. Lawns are a way of saying “i’m so rich, i don’t have to worry about sustenance. In fact i’ll throw money at it to maintain this slab of green rather than have it provide food, or shade.”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-brain/202002/the-strange-psychology-the-american-lawn

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is the correct answer. So many US'isms are bourgeois / aristocratic imitation.

Cars / wasteful transportation, lawns, sprawled out cities, high amounts of meat consumption, vacation homes / timeshares / exotic vacations, having servants, etc. These are things that are only possible for countries with huge amounts of land and resources, and not sustainable or doable for most of the world.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

@Turturtley @Confidant6198 Its worse, because, actually, even if they wanted to, most Americans are under the tyrannical rule of a Homeowners Association (talk about liberty huh) that forces them to plant grass, and can fine them a shit ton of money if they do otherwise

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrizmAo17Os

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Probably against HOA rules in many places.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)
[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 weeks ago

Ismt that the universal question with moet things americans do these days? ;-)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Because of 18th century French aristocracy, no shit.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 3 weeks ago

A lot of people are secretly cows and they actually eat that grass. Next time you say hello to someone and they respond “moo” you’ll know why.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Because having a big yard of grass that you have to mow every week while using up gasoline is the American dream and a flex for some reason.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 weeks ago

The answer is they were a wealthy European concept brought to the colonies as a status symbol. They are still associated with wealthier people which raises property values, so are enshrined in local ordinances and HOA rules.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

And for whatever the fuck reason, they wanted houses like the ones found in pre-1789 France

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

There is a pretty great website called Falling fruit to map trees and other plants that you can pick from freely.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Hey. Thank you for sharing this.

Websites like this are the good part of the internet.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Because this is illegal in most of America. You would be fined and the city would probably send a crew out to rip it all up and give you the invoice if you defied it and left it that way.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That’s a bit extreme? I think that you are correct that this may be the case in front yards depending on location, but backyards are usually fine for whatever barring some HOA BS or unusual local rules.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

I’ve seen this happen before in real life so extreme or not, it’s definitely the norm in upstate New York at the very least. Had the city called on us while we were out of the country and we came back to all 6 of our small fruit trees dug up and tracks all over the front lawn from an excavator and a $2500 bill from the city.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Growing crops is quite a bit of cost and effort and time. I have a little garden, but it's not like you just plant some seeds and you're all done.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

HOAs say “ew no that’s for the poors” and good luck finding a house that’s not in an HOA within a reasonable commute to your job

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

Looks like you are stuck with fruits, grains, herbs, and ornamentals in the front yard, then, lol.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

...pretty much this: you'll be fined for anything other than well-groomed grass growing in your yard...

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

In, or in the yard of? We're not talking about indoor houseplants, I assume.

If outside is what you mean, it goes back to the days of aristocracy. Having land you don't use for food was a form of conspicuous consumption, and you had sports for the elite grow up around stretches of short grass as a result, like golf and polo. The former is still synonymous with the well-off, even.

Then you have to skip ahead to the 1950's and 60's in America, where the "mid-century modern" philosophy of urban planning gains prominence. The idea was to get people out of the crowded, Victorian-style slums, which we might find quaint in hindsight, but at the time were very stigmatised. This extended to a certain disdain for cities and buildings in general, even - more nature was better. So, where do you put people? In tiny little rural estates modeled on the ones popular with aristocrats, separated by zoning laws from the other sections of the city.

The vision was that people would get home from their 9-5 jobs in the commercial-only zones in their very own car, and would hang out outside enjoying their government-mandated leisure time. The urban planners of the time probably pictured a giant croquet course going up and down a residential street, and the all-white 3.5 kid families that live there sitting outside on lawn chairs, playing friendly games against each other. These "white picket fence" suburbs had lawns, then, because you couldn't have semi-rural domestic bliss without them, according to some architects who graduated Harvard in 1920.

In practice, of course, none of that happened. Like so many other tidy ideas it failed to predict how the general public would interact with it. I've been around plenty of places like that. You know the names of your neighbor, but not much else about them, and the people a few doors down are suspect of being pedophiles or violent drug dealers. That fence line is sacred, each house becomes an island, and you're frightfully dependent on driving to get anywhere you can do basic errands. And that's not even getting into the racial issues that came out of it.

Now, in the 21st century, people assume houses have always had lawns, and messing with that formula irritates the local NIMBYs. New ideas eventually become rigid tradition, and as always it falls to the next generation to question the way things are done. Hopefully we will, but it will take a moment.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

Zoning laws in a lot of places.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

We do. Obviously not everyone can But I wager the number of Americans growing something edible on their space is decent. Usually it's easy stuff to grow, or someone's favorites.

Thinking about it and counting in my head I actually know dozens of people that grow tomatoes personally. They grow easily in large quantities in relatively small space and all taste better than store bought.

Citrus has been pretty plentiful my entire life too. Lemon trees especially.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I can imagine a few reasons.

I have a dog, she needs some running around space in our yard, so we make sure she has it.

Otherwise we do have a raspberry... Thicket? In the corner of our yard, and some smaller raised beds along the edges. Every year the local squirrels steal the veggies we plant, but not the raspberries, no matter what we do.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

We do? Some ppl dont, we have sugarcane, oranges, lemons, eggplants, peppers, and I forget the rest, my dad/grandpa are more into gardening. Its just not realistic to do a lot, cheaper and a lot faster to go the grocery storec more variety, hoemgrown stuff is ususlly more of an addon.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

Littering your yard with food attracts things like rats, raccoons, squirrels, etc, which destroy property and infrastructure, spread disease, and cause injury to people and pets. I'm not saying I'm against fruit trees, but I do understand people who are. It's a legitimate concern. Some areas even have things like boars or bears which are extremely dangerous.

I'm also curious with the way you can sue people in the US what would happen if someone becomes sick after eating one of your fruits. I imagine it varies by state.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

My landlord would get a fine from the city and it would be tacked on to my rent.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

Grass lawns as a concept came from Europe as a symbol of wealth. If you could afford a large green lawn, you were likely rich.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Plenty of people have these things called "gardens". You can grow food right in the ground with them. Fruit baring trees are also a thing people enjoy in thier yard.

Is your entire property filled with bushes or something?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago

Most people have both. A lawn is good to play on.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Bugs, pests, and animals, at least where I live. Unless you build a green house, clear the yard of all other foliage, or somehow fortify your garden, only produce with natural defenses like peppers will make it to harvest. However, I am jealous of my friends on the west coast, who don't really have to worry about bugs or other critters eating from their fruit trees just passively growing in their yard.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

If you're East Coast, I think you've just given up too early. Plenty of pests on the West Coast, too. There are also plenty of organic ways to keep them in check. Will you have perfect harvest? Never, but that doesn't mean you can't have anything at all.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

As someone who lives in an ex-industrial city (Birmingham Alabama), I’ve always been worried about air pollution and tainted soil (there are superfund sites nearby). I feel like every thing would have to be above ground and covered. That seems like a lot of work. Should I be worried?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

Canadian here, that's getting more and more common over here. There's a ton of HOA bullshit here too but I've been seeing more and more food gardening in Vancouver, but that might also be because food is expensive as fuuuck here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

I've lived in 9 states and in every neighborhood many people have food producing plants. It's one of the healthiest hobbies you can have.

I love gardening and have a small orchard and have other food plants all around my house, but I still maintain a lawn because it gets my kids outside playing sports, it's a very multifunctional space, and because covering every square inch of my property in food bearing plants would be way more work and time than we have to give. In every home (except Arizona) I've kept at least some portion of the property as grass lawn.

Some people latch on to your idea but then a few years later end up with an unmaintained berry bramble of a yard full of invasive food plants that is totally unusable. Moderation and common sense in all things.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Trees (e.g. apple trees or others) provide great shade and help lower the temperature. They are beneficial if you feel that summer heat is getting worse due to climate change. Additionally, if you have issues with heavy rainfall, trees can help by absorbing large amounts of water through their roots. This approach can be applied in most countries.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

We do, though? I have mulberries and gooseberries instead of decorative plants, along with various edible cabbages and herbs, and clover for bees.

And that's not unusual for my neighborhood. We're always swapping for mint and zucchini and squash and eggs with our neighbors, and one time even maple syrup!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

americans already do this i see it all the time

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

You think we own shit? Lawns are the landlord's landscaping equivalent of white paint: inoffensive but dull and useless

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Some do. Grass just got into the pop culture as the "proper" look for a residential property. But having fruit trees is amazing, especially in spring when they are all in bloom with flowers.

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