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So, GayBros, how are you doing? (lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Me.. meh.

A very important friendship ended... I truly gave my heart for this friendship, helped this friend countless times in several things and.. it just ended, with me blocked and him avoiding me whenever he sees me. He goes as far as pretending to go somewhere else just so his path doesn't cross with mine. It truly hurts. Some of it is my fault, some of it is his. He was so manipulative, but at the same time, there were good things. I also spent quite a bit of money on this friendship.. I feel like he left an emptiness.

Hopefully better days will come.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That really sucks, hopefully you have other friends to rely on

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

It does suck indeed. The trick is to keep busy. A bit sad that one has to keep busy in order to not feel sad but ya. Try to fill the emptiness he left with other things. =((

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My fiance is a recovering addict and has been through a manic episode for the past couple weeks.

He also apparently used this week too.

He's starting to finally relax, but god I'm tired.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I am so sorry. That must be though. I truly hope things get better for you and your fiance.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We're doing good now. This was his longest clean period since his last relapse. A relapse is bad, but it's never the end unless you allow it to be the end.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Indeed. Setbacks are not the end-all. May your days be full of happiness!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have a bf now, but tonight he's watching comedy shows and smoking weed while I'd rather get more cuddles and gropes. Would be cool to get a polyamorous thing going but it would be hard for me to rope in more boys since my social skills are shit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yay boyfriend! Is he watching those on a TV/couch? Just go to him and cuddle anyway! Put your head in his lap or just hug him!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I cuddled him last night per your advice. I wish my cuddle powers extended to every situation.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm loving the single life, I think I'm ok with being alone indefinitely without the daunting expectation of needing to find someone whose life view, attraction, and values align just well enough for something serious. And even then, I can't guarantee their side of the commitment, so I won't. Yay for me I guess.

And I'm also incredibly worried about Americans whose rights are being suppressed. But I'm also incredibly thankful of the people who are making a difference. Hang in there, America!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Loving the single life is honestly a super power. Proud of you. Any tips?

I am more lonely nowadays, wishing for more and more interactions, to the point I do stupid shit. But I am learning, it is a process.

And yes, America is going through some shit right now. The world really. The next few years will be... interesting.