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[–] blazeknave@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I really don't know the last time I got rid of an article of clothing besides shredded socks. I like this post.

[–] kalpol@lemmy.ca 2 points 47 minutes ago (1 children)

Socks make excellent dipstick wipers, then once well impregnated with oil, they're good for lubing bike chains

[–] humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 1 points 28 minutes ago

And once they’re 51% oil, they’re self-lubricating cum socks.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 12 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Shit, TIL I'm a man.

Ah well, now to pick which hole-ridden shirt will be my pajamas tonight.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.cafe 1 points 40 minutes ago

Holey shirt.

[–] Beth@piefed.social 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I use my scrubs this way. And my jeans. Nothing else really lasts that long and I kinda blame the additional wear and tear from my boobs. I buy thick socks and mend them when they get a hole I guess.

[–] MrShankles@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I've just accepted wearing my (thick) socks with a hole on the heel... why tf have I never considered mending them‽ I feel a bit (very much) embarrassed about that, and I appreciate the thought. Also excited to realize I can reclaim like 4 pairs of my socks. So thanks for making me feel a little dumb, friend!

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 17 minutes ago

I ain't darning socks. I'mma just wear mismatched socks without holes before they hit the rag bin. And while I will use my own washed wornout underwear for rags, I ain't no way in hell ever going to use yours.

Signed, Old Man in the forest.

[–] Beth@piefed.social 4 points 4 hours ago

I…uh…any time? lol.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

If good mens clothing was that hard to find in thrift stores, we would never have gotten the lyrics:

I wear your grandad's clothes,

I look incredible.

From what I've been seeing in memes recently, I wonder if this is just another shitty thing only seen at Goodwill, the worst thrift store chain ever.

[–] arrow74@lemmy.zip 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

See those lyrics are proof of the lack of selection in men's clothes.

90% of the donated clothes are something you'd see old people wear. My theory is that this is from families clearing out closets after someone dies

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 14 minutes ago

Pretty much. Not that fashionistas aren't on the lookout for vintage fashion.

[–] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Exactly, these just happen to be the clothes that he hadn't yet worn into oblivion

[–] lemmyng@piefed.ca 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

The good men's clothes you find at thrift stores are there because the owner passed away and their next of kin donated them.

[–] Manticore@lemmy.nz 3 points 5 hours ago

Yes, this. That's why the clothing in op shops are frequently classic, dated styles. Sometimes you get more modern things (maybe a young adult moved out and the parents cleared their old room) but anytime I walk into an open shop, it has 'estate sale' vibes.

Another thing i notice is that all of the clothes in my local OP shops are pretty dated, but the women's section is always ten times larger (or more!) The same is true for places that sell modern, returned goods, too: Women's clothing gets returned/exchanged at far higher rates than men's.

[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

There's another aspect of this. Y'all are assuming cycling out your wardrobe regularly is "normal" and men are "abnormal" because they don't. But the reason women cycle out their wardrobe regularly is not because of some universal law that men ignore, it's because women go through weight fluctuations that render their old clothes unwearable. You'll hear a woman talk about losing 30 pounds and having to buy new clothes because of that... the fact that women's fashion includes a lot of form-fitting items (whereas men's fashion is often looser or more forgiving) certainly contributes to this as well.

I have some items I've had for over 20 years I could still wear, because I haven't had any significant changes in figure in that time... because I'm a guy.

Yes, as a woman that does not like shopping, I still have to buy clothes more often than my boyfriend. Even with a relatively stable weight (+/- 3 kilos over the years) clothes stretch out and loose form, which makes the fit bad. The shirts that survive are the shirts with a more boyish loose cut, the form-fitting stuff looks bad after a while.

That said, I do put them in the home/nightwear category until significant holes appear or they don't feel comfy anymore.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 108 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (5 children)

Literally what everyone should be doing now for the environment. Clothes waste is a huge problem. The fact that people throw away stuff that can still be sold at thrift stores is appalling. Understandable if your body shape has changed or something, but "getting bored" of clothes is indefensible. This extends to people "getting bored" of phones and cars too, which is terrible.

Also: I'm in this picture and my wife hates me for it. I have something from 25 years ago thats still wearable.

OP's post has also missed the category of "sleep clothes".

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 19 points 9 hours ago

If your body shape has changed, donate your old clothes! My wife lost a bunch of weight because medical reasons, and she recently went through her entire wardrobe; I dropped five 30-gallon bags of perfectly serviceable clothes off at a nonprofit thrift shop.

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 12 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

30y/o.

I have bought a grand total of 3 brand new pieces of clothing in my whole life(not including underwear/socks). Every single other piece was either given to me for xmas/birthday/random gifts or bought from thrift stores. Anything I can't wear anymore has either been donated back to thrift or cut into rags myself.

I've also directly worked in a thirft store, where anything unsellable get tossed into 'rag out' where it's donated to a company that turns it into cheap bags of shop rags: so even stuff that's falling apart is still worth donating.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 13 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

In England they tell us not to donate anything that we wouldn't consider worthy of gifting to someone. They have to use volunteer time to soft/sort (and I guess clean) all items. If it's not something anyone will buy then best to take it directly to clothes recycling drop offs rather than charity shops.

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 8 points 9 hours ago

(and I guess clean)

May be a difference between regions, but thrift doesn't clean clothes around me. You're expected to donate clean clothes; But if it's visually in such rough shape that it needs to be washed first, it's 'rag out', otherwise it goes on the sales floor. Laundry is a huge expense for a nonprofit; instead, they expect you to wash it yourself before wearing it.

I'm not aware of any seprate clothes recycling facilities around me, and can't find one with a quick search. Just the typical thrifts.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I have a sweater that my grandma got me when I was 7. It's purple with a handful of printed comic panels featuring Harry, a snow dog. It goes "Harry is a snow dog. Harry is a good dog." and you can see Harry doing snowboard and stuff.

I am 35 today. It's worn out a bit but still my dearest, most beloved pajama. It still fits, somehow

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 7 points 9 hours ago

My friends and I have been doing clothing swaps with the local femme community and honestly its been a huge game changer for closet refreshing! We had like 260 people come through last time and anything left after the swap is done is donated to local youth/addiction/women's centres :)

I've gotten some of my favourite outfits from the swap!! And it's completely free!

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[–] MrShankles@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I do have some gym shorts that are old enough to vote... I'm actually wearing them right now lol. They're not even bad off by any means (just a singular cigarette burn from college), but I've never had another pair last as long. They're not even any type of brand name nothing, just sturdy I guess... and oh so comfy!

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 11 minutes ago

I've got a vintage pair of Converse tennis shoes that I got shiny new back in the mid 1970s. Still wear them on occasion. They were the shoes I wore playing basketball in high school.

I tell my Daughters that one of them will be the lucky recipient of them after I die.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 46 points 10 hours ago (15 children)

There's no point to discard something that is still useful.

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[–] sudoMakeUser@sh.itjust.works 14 points 8 hours ago

Yeah I do this. I never buy clothes myself. Usually kinda just acquire stuff over time. It goes good -> everyday -> work -> rags

I definitely own a shirt that is "good enough to fall off a roof in" and half a t shirt in the wood shop I cut up for wiping on varnish.

[–] TachyonTele_Esq@piefed.social 22 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I just went to the thrift store last month for clothes. And this is absolutely correct. The entire store was huge, and then there's two racks for men lol.

Something interesting I noticed is most of the men's clothes are nice shirts. Button downs, dress shirts, polos, all sorts of different fabrics, there was even a wedding shirt in there. Not a lot of tshirts, unless they're made of something different.

My theory is the men's clothes that ends up in thrift stores are the nice clothes given to them as gifts, or the wife found it and added it to her bag of clothes to donate.

[–] Saapas@piefed.zip 15 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Or stuff someone had to buy for some occasion

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 5 points 8 hours ago

Buy for an occasion, change body shape, donate, repeat…

[–] insomniac_lemon@lemmy.cafe 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

My clothes are cheap, and my nicest shirts are half-plastic.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

As someone who's always hot (and as someone concerned about micro-plastics), the widespread use of polyester in clothes is something I loathe. If I'm lucky, I'll find 100% cotton in my price range. Still looking for some quality linen, I hear that's the best for hot days. Would love to try it someday, if I can ever find it.

I don't shop for clothes online - it's nearly impossible to ensure sizing is accurate, and the place I live isn't a good location to have boxes sitting outside all day.

[–] insomniac_lemon@lemmy.cafe 2 points 2 hours ago

Shopping isn't really convenient for me where/how I live, so I just do aggressively mediocre sewing repairs. That often don't even last because polyester (and I didn't use backing). Just using binder clips on the waistband of pajama shorts I got as gifts years ago.

[–] PumaStoleMyBluff@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

I have never seen a linen shirt in my life 🫤 I would have to buy it from Amazon or a specialty online store probably

[–] Mpatch@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Well fuck, where do you think all that dust and lint in the house comes from? Shit doesn't just magically waltz in all by itself. Takes effort, you know. You're welcome.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 11 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

I swear some of my underwear is 50:50 underwear to holes ratio.

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[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] cannedtuna@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago

Well, I usually, not intentionally, have a pile of rags by my garage door that kinda sit there for grease, oil, etc. till they get washed separately, so I’d assume probably something along those lines for the guy who made this.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 14 points 10 hours ago
[–] DickFiasco@sh.itjust.works 8 points 9 hours ago

The final use of a piece of clothing is as a wick for a Molotov cocktail.

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