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[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

All day long I'd probably get bored ngl. That looks like a primo reading spot though

The mosquitos would ensure that chair remains empty, just like it is now.

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

Too many flies on my face. Not worth it.

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Me with ADHD: That's pure torture.

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If you have to sit still yes, but a) lots of different twigs to fidget with and b) lots of different/moving things to focus on and let the brain wander on details and scenarios.

Agree all day maybe not, but some time yeah

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I need to do stuff, maybe build something, maybe climb something.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I guess I'm the 1%.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

With a book, absolutely

[–] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Pass. Does masculinity require me to be a solitary misanthrope...?

[–] qarbone@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Maybe like 5 to 7 hours, but yeah that's some good sittin

[–] dr_robotBones@reddthat.com 2 points 6 days ago

Send me there

[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

All it's missing is the fishing pole.

[–] KulunkelBoom@lemmus.org 1 points 6 days ago

With the proper supplies, of course. A comfier chair, good smoke, at least cold water, perhaps a fishing rod and some lures, some tunes... All day in that chair, as is, probably wouldn't happen with most guys.

[–] mech@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It looks like it's in the middle of a hiking path, so it would be very socially awkward to sit in other people's way all day long.
Literally hell!

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You collect a toll from the walkers.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

Maybe with a fishing rod.

[–] Kazel@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

anything wrong?

[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 79 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Why just men? Pretty much anyone seeking nature, the outdoors, and some quiet time would like this.

Until sunset, when the big skeeters roll in.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago

We have day mosquitoes now, even when it’s hot and dry. The brown striped bastards that fucking bite in a row if you don’t catch them.

They arrived 4-5 years ago and now we have to put on bug spray to do practically anything in our yard.

[–] liuther9@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago

You wouldn't get it

[–] Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world 45 points 1 week ago

I worry that's why the chair is empty. Someone got carried off by one of the larger mosquitoes.

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

I defintely know more women that could just sit there and enjoy it than men. Now you add a fishing rod and some cold beers that would level if not completely flip the playing field.

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 76 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If it's cool enough that the bugs aren't out, then yes definitely.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 26 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Yeah, bugs are the one thing that could ruin it.

Otherwise best day ever.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

We got my wife's dad like a beekeeper hat for when he goes fishing. We'd like to get him back, you know.

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[–] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 36 points 1 week ago (2 children)

That spot looks like it would be swarming with mosquitoes.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Get a small fire going, or a thermacell

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I've considered the thermacell before after reading about its supposed wizardry, but I dunno still seems like it can't be that healthy/environmentally friendly. What's your experience?

We have a portable leave-no-trace firepit that does the trick for the evening.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 1 points 6 days ago

Tbh i've not used them. apparently they're the same thing as mosquito coils though just more... concentrated

As for healthiness. probs more healthy than malaria, or other mosquito born diseases.

As for environmentally friendly. i think the horse has bolted there tbh. have you seen how they're powering some of these data centres?

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[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

Absolutely. Not even a doubt. Bring my speaker for some music, a few preroll's, and a 6pk of beer and it would probably be a perfect day.

[–] Crostro@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

Unless there's biting insects

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Adhd'er checking in. I wouldn't last ten minutes in that chair before getting up out of boredom.

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[–] farmgineer@nord.pub 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Couple of hours is fine, more with a book. Otherwise, I guess I'm the 1%. Oh, and allergy meds first is a requirement

Edit: WTF is autocorrect even doing?!

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Daaaamn, is that a Grosfillex Miami monobloc resin outdoor patio chair in white!?

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[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

masculinist gender ideology

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

switch me to a adirondack chair and I'm 100% about it.

Depends on the temperature, humidity, mosquitos, and, of course, snack selection. But yes!

[–] ZoteTheMighty@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, that looks fucking great, where's the meme?

[–] meowcar42O@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago

just appreciate the nice view, zote

[–] 1995ToyotaCorolla@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In our garden I have a bucket with a seat lid. When I love just sitting and watching the plants do their thing

[–] mech@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago

Put a hole in the lid and you don't have to get up for any reason.

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[–] certified_expert@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Accoding to the likes, 92% agrees. So maybe not 99%, but still high!

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I've heard there are other genders on Lemmy than just men

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