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[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

They hare anyone who doesn't fit their standard of conformity

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 4 points 2 days ago

I find them aesthetically off-putting, but I don't assign any "value" (positive or negative) to it. I view it as a fashion choice. I'm sure that my own choice of style is not to some people's liking either.

I'm not the target audience for it anyhow, so whatever.

[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 58 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I mean, I’m an anarchist and I don’t find women with septum piercings sexually appealing.

Then again, I am a gay man.

[–] kamen@lemmy.world 41 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Then again, I am a gay man.

Small detail.

[–] DreadPirateSnuggles@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Pollo_Jack@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

How about men with septum piercings?

[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 days ago

Pretty hot, ngl. 🤷‍♂️

[–] sheetzoos@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Septum rings were originally used to control livestock.

Real ones love people with septum rings because they're submissive and breedable.

[–] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 109 points 4 days ago (34 children)

I just find them unnattractive; generally not into piercings or tattoos. To each their own...

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 35 points 4 days ago

Same, and it's not something I really care to shout from the roof because why does my opinion matter and I don't want to tell people what to do in the first place, but it's also something I can never say even in passing because of what group of people it puts me in

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 18 points 4 days ago (16 children)

Same.

Although maybe "unnattractive" isn't a good fit because I do understand that it's not a woman's default objective to "be attractive" to me. It's more just that maybe I'm a bit weird about ears and noses. If you have something hanging out of your nose my lizard brain alerts me that it's probably a booger. My more sophisticated hominid brain is aware that it's not, but this creates a kind of unsolvable feedback loop that's unsolvable.

Yesterday I was interviewing a candidate for a job. I'm genuinely trying to listen and engage with this cacophony of booger not-booger booger not-booger going on.

[–] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 24 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)

I didn't say it was anyone's objective to be attractive to me. And it isn't. I just have (as does everyone else) the agency to decide for myself what I find attractive or not.

Thank you for pointing out the possibly ambiguity of my response though, so I could clarify.

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[–] FrChazzz@lemmus.org 91 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Am I the only one low-key annoyed that the photo does not show a septum piercing (I understand it's called a "smiley" piercing--done on the frenulum of the upper lip)? It's Alysa Liu's signature look.

[–] noseatbelt@piefed.ca 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Nah I was squinting at the picture trying to find it.

[–] Phantaloons@piefed.zip 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

your wife walks by

400X view of some girl's nose on your monitor

"...I don't even wanna know"

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 58 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Ha! I thought the punchline would be something like "they're an effective deterrent."

[–] missphant@lemmy.blahaj.zone 97 points 4 days ago (3 children)
[–] trashcroissant@lemmy.blahaj.zone 48 points 4 days ago (1 children)

That rainbow hair looks cool af

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 22 points 4 days ago

Unfortunately, not for very long

[–] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

That's pure gold!

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Oh damn! That response is fucking brutal.

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[–] spacegoat@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

I don’t necessarily find them unattractive but I find that I don’t have confidence to approach women with them.

[–] SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Where I live I think you can get these kinds of piercings at 16. And I've never met anyone that still have these that over age 25.

When I see these I automatically think the person is a teenager.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

I know plenty of bisexuals in their 30s with one

[–] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I have one I'm 39. But I don't wear a ring in it. Just a tunnel so I can stick stuff through my nose and freak people out

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[–] thlibos@thelemmy.club 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I don't know what's wrong with me but septum piercings on women are the sexiest thing ever, for some reason I don't feel the same way about them on men.

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[–] oxideseven@lemmy.ca 23 points 4 days ago

I love septum piercings, and piercings in general. And tattoos. And weird hair.

[–] MBech@feddit.dk 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I'm sorry what? You gotta be over 18 to get a septum piercing in USA? Why???

[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 30 points 4 days ago (12 children)

Infection liability, gotta be old enough to sign that you won't sue for infection or disfigurement.

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Aww why nitpick? She's gorgeous, young, talented. At least for now. I can't figure out why she hasn't become America's (always temporary, revolving crown..) sweetheart in a bigger way than she has. America has gone all goo-goo eyed for far less talents and looks than she's got going on right now.

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