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I've been thinking about this more and more. According to the sidebar, this community is "A place to share alternatives to popular online services that can be self-hosted without giving up privacy or locking you into a service you don’t control." Based on that I don't think Plex qualifies.

Privacy: Plex clearly records the metadata of what you watch. When I used it, it would send me a report by email of what my "friends" were watching. Even with that turned off, their services still track telemetry.

Control: Plex has all of it. They can (and do) make unilateral changes to the service, how authentication works, where you can run it, etc.

So I ask, when you are hosting something that is entirely dependent on a commercial entity to function, is Plex really selfhosting in the spirit of this community?

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[–] german@pawb.social 20 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Please don’t try to gatekeep software or turn selfhosting into a Professional Redditor Larper shitwar like iOS vs Android. Literally no one needs or wants that.

You can criticise Plex for its many shortcomings, that’s valid. Even better if you contribute to Jellyfin so it can overcome its shortcomings. But saying Plex is not self-hosted for puritan reasons is not a good look and smells like StackOverflow and elitist neckbeards; you’re disqualifying people from the community just because you, in your infinite pedantic wisdom, cannot comprehend that they also have valid reasons for using what they use.

By this logic:

  • If you use the internet, nothing you access through it is self-hosted, because your ISP dictates if it’s allowed or not. Tailscale, WireGuard, OpenVPN, or a direct port connection are all subject to this. However you can access Jellyfin remotely is subject to this.
  • Docker isn’t self-hosted - you depend on Docker Inc, their image registry will be aware of some details about your host, including your IP, which is technically PII and is directly linked to you.
  • Let’s Encrypt certificates aren’t self-hosted because they’re an external CA and collect data like your email.
  • Jellyfin is not self-hosted, it depends on TMDB and OMDB which are commercial or external.
  • Pi-hole is not self-hosted as it depends in many cases on GitHub or external resources for its block lists, and it depends on public resolvers to operate.
  • Ubuntu is not self-hosted because Canonical controls everything and has telemetry
  • Neither is Windows, Mac, Debian, Arch, or even FreeBSD - they control updates and packages and if they randomly become evil, they have levers on you no matter what. Maybe TempleOS lol.
  • Nextcloud is not self-hosted because they control the add-on store, update servers and has telemetry.
  • The BitTorrent protocol isn’t self hosted because you rely on trackers and they collect telemetry about your client
  • Media piracy isn’t self-hosted because you’re relying on other people to produce it for you
  • If you get phone notifications, emails, messages, or whatever else - those aren’t self hosted. Even if you host Ntfy you’re still relying on Apple or Google notification relay servers.

I could go on.

By any stretch of this line of thinking, even the mere act of downloading any software in the first place disqualifies it from counting as self-hosted, because you didn’t build it from scratch and you depend on an external resource, your ISP, a DNS resolver, your operating system, your hardware (microcode, BIOS), your browser, and so on and so forth. The logic breaks down very fast. Don’t.

[–] EmotionalSupportBees@lemmy.today -1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Sir this is a Wendy's

Fr tho why would you even start?

OP is clearly talking about the core values of this community (named SelfHosted btw) and whether or not the parent company of Plex (clearly a self-hosted piece of software that happens to be a critical component of Plex's SaaS product) operates in the spirit of this community and your galaxy brain is over here arguing the semantics of the dictionary definition of the word self-hosted lmao

You were so busy trying to come up with examples of how they're wrong you forgot to correct them about the name

"Sir you're actually talking about Plex Media Server, Plex the company is a company and clearly not a piece of self-hosted software"

[–] imhungry@leminal.space 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Making fun of someone to deflect from their valid criticism hasn't worked on me as an audience to an argument since way before I hit puberty, but I understand it might still work on some other people.

[–] EmotionalSupportBees@lemmy.today 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Sure any criticism is valid, it''s less valid when they miss OPs point, and after a certain length it becomes unnecessarily condescending.

I'm not trying to deflect from their criticism or how it displays their misunderstanding of OPs point, I'm trying to say they were being an asshole about it

[–] german@pawb.social 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Sorry if I came off that way. About misunderstanding the point - look at the other comments. People are making the same points as me. I don’t think I have misunderstood anything here, and I don’t think being a long response automatically makes it any less valid to understand how nuanced and all encompassing our dependence on third parties is.

You’re the one saying “this is a Wendy’s” which feels quite condescending in a post explicitly asking for opinions on how where Plex falls in the selfhosting community, including as defined in the sidebar.

[–] imhungry@leminal.space 3 points 6 days ago

I don't think they were being an asshole about it.

[–] Internet@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 6 days ago

But you're not locked into Plex. You have your files already on your hardware and you have the ability to reuse those files for any other service.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago

If you can't download the software and then run it on an isolated, air gapped network like on a desert island, then it isn't self hosting.

[–] gergolippai@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

at this point, Plex is self-shooting-in-the-foot

[–] lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 6 days ago

Plex used to be for the community. Their recent decisions have proven otherwise, they are seeking more of the almighty dollar so the imaginary money line will keep going up forever.

Sounds familiar.

So I don't disagree with you on principle.

Now technically, Plex is self-hosted as you run the server program on your own hardware and can determine whether you want to use their authentication servers or roll your own internal thing.

[–] wr2623@midwest.social 2 points 5 days ago

Well that would be the description of the community, but the actual rules section doesn't say anything about privacy/control.

So at the end of the day Plex is self hosted (you run most of it) so it should qualify. It might not 100% match the spirit of self hosting it does still meet the definition.

You can argue most Jellyfin/emby installs have the same problem because most users are still are dependent on external services because of things like metadata plugins.

And on the privacy front those plugins aren't any better than Plex. For instance The Movie DB which is the primary movie and TV metadata provider for Jellyfin has a privacy policy that clearly says they will use and share any interaction you have with the site including location and personal information. They almost certainly keep track of what is in your library. They don't have a user account for you that they can use to track across IPs, but if your ISP keeps you on the same IP for long periods of time they have a good idea of what you are watching.

You can run Jellyfin without those plugins enabled but unless you want to build/collect manual nfo files to import that data you are going to have a subpar experience.

Same problem for the **arr stack since they need metadata as well. Some of which go to different providers so you are giving out that information to additional parties (i.e. Sonarr goes to TheTVDB which has a similar privacy policy).

You can configure the arrs to write out nfo metadata and have Jellyfin consume that so that at least you aren't giving away your info to two external parties.

[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago

Many of us are caught on the convenience of Plex and actively are working to replicate that with alternatives.

There are a few features that are not replicated anywhere else:

  1. the Plex magic proxy
  2. combined libraries
  3. Easy to use apps because of 1

Its a matter of not having these being more annoying than Plex is.

[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 2 points 6 days ago

If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch then you must first invent the universe

  • Karl Sagan
[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world -3 points 6 days ago
[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 119 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

Is really Self Hosting?

I don't really get hung up on the nomenclature and definitions. If you run your services off of a VPS and call it selfhosting, more power to you. No skin off my nose. If you run your services off of a homelab rack that dims the lights whenever you power it on and you call it selfhosting, more power to you. If you're running your services off of an old repurposed, disposable vape unit, and you call it selfhosting, git sum. It's a big umbrella and we can all coexist without nitpicking each other. Gatekeeping is something I don't do, and it gets tiresome to hear others regurgitate the same trope over and over again.

ETA: @CallMeAl@piefed.zip, nice profile shot.

[–] zener_diode@feddit.org 23 points 1 week ago (7 children)

If you run your services off of a homelab rack that dims the lights whenever you power it on

If you are in this situation, then you definetly should get some more power, or at least a UPS to make sure you don't trip a breaker.

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[–] Kushan@lemmy.world 93 points 1 week ago

It's self hosting by the literal definition that you host the server yourself.

That it's closed source and sends all kinds of data to another server is an entirely separate (and valid) concern.

As much as I agree with the concerns around Plex, I would rather we didn't start gatekeeping the self hosting community with arbitrary requirements and grey lines around what is and isn't "true self hosting" or whatever. I would far rather we inform people and let them make their own choices about what they want to host on their private devices and networks.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@piefed.social 60 points 1 week ago (1 children)

... well, at some point any hobby grows to the point where purists show up.

There's give and take with everything. Is it "self" hosted if you rely on Docker - a 3rd party with control over their own infrastructure? Or hosting it on a Debian OS? Is it really "private" if it's connected to the internet at all?

Are you running the Plex Server application on some hardware so other devices can access the library? Hey, that's self-hosting. That's it.

[–] czl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 47 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I guess I’m not selfhosting at all, I use a power grid that I don’t control.

[–] gedfromgont@piefed.ca 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Have you mined the minerals though?

Or to put it in another way "to truly selfhost you need to start by creating the universe".

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[–] CameronDev@programming.dev 49 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I don't think there are any hard and fast rules for what is self hosting. Lots of people use cloudflare, which would fail both of your criteria as well.

At least with Plex/cloudflare/others, your overall control and privacy is better and more in your control than it would be with other non-self hosted alternatives.

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[–] remon@ani.social 34 points 1 week ago (14 children)

As long as you're running it on your own hardware, it sure is.

Privacy: Plex clearly records the metadata of what you watch.

Sure, that doesn't really have anything to do with self-hosting, though.

Control: Plex has all of it.

They have no control at all over the contents of your media library. Even if they shut down everything, all your media is still there. They merely have control over a user interface that can be replaced.

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[–] jay@mbin.zerojay.com 26 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's why I also consider cloudflare against the spirit of the community but I'm not going to give anyone hell over doing things how they want to with their own stuff. Freedom to do things as we'd like is part of the reason why we're all here, right?

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[–] Coleslaw4145@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If you are hosting software services (proprietary or not) on hardware you control, in a network you control, then you are self-hosting. What the service itself actually is is irrelevant.

[–] Alloi@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago (18 children)

im out here wondering why anyone would hand anyone credit card information to watch already downloaded pirated content.

open source to me means open source, not open/paywall/ source.

i prefer my open source free with a lil jank. as god intended.

[–] TheSambassador@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Because I'm lazy and want to be able to watch my stuff from anywhere, and let my friends access my library easily across all their devices.

Setting up Jellyfin for remote access is not trivial. Maybe for a lot of self hosting people it's fairly simple, but it's not nearly as simple as just downloading and running the Plex server software.

I paid for a lifetime account when it was 250, and I felt like it was worth it. At 750 like it is now, I probably would actually have considered figuring out Jellyfin. As with everything, it's a money/time analysis and it's less of my time to host Plex.

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[–] jlow@slrpnk.net 15 points 1 week ago (17 children)

For me, if I can't use it when the internet is down it's not self-hosting, so Plex certainly isn't for me.

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago

You can use plex when the internet is down.

[–] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Mine works when the internet is down. Why doesn't yours?

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[–] False@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Just as much as Tailscale is self hosting. Tailscale is probably more concerning from a security point of view.

[–] CallMeAl@piefed.zip 14 points 1 week ago

To me, Tailscale is not selfhosted at all. That's why headscale exists.

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[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm going to shame people for using something that used to work well. This will help me by making me feel superior, and it will help others by shaming them. What a good idea I've had!

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Do you really feel attacked by this post?

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Attacked? No this post alone doesn't make me feel attacked.

Though it's about weekly that we see a post saying essentially "there's no reason anyone should still be using Plex...", or "jellyfin is superior to plex because of x and y". And honestly, it's tiring and it feels forced. Like if jellyfin were so perfect, would it really need this many posts propping it up?

Anyway, what bugged me about this post was the level of smugness. "Does Plex even count as self hosting?", "is this really in the spirit of the community?"... God damn, that sounds like the least bearable person in the homeowners association.

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