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If not get rid of it, how to decrease it?

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[–] wirelesswire@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 week ago (7 children)

As long as the internet remains easily accessible, you're not going to.

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[–] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bad news, 1. It's impossible 2. They aren't just on the web.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

right, has OP ever not had a noisy neighbor? or like been in public outside?

barely a week goes by I don't meet some horrible person who goes off on a service worker and at least once a month someone goes off on me. periodically i have neighbors who harass me for not good reason if I spend too much time outside in porch or my garden, to come and 'helpfully' tell me what is 'wrong' with my property. even though i live in a condo building, as if I am solely responsible for the entire building...

last week i was returning my shopping cart and this lady like came running at me and started screaming at me that i was 'being too slow' and grabbed my cart and ran off with it. it was BIZARRE. there was an entire row of them by the entrance to the market, but she zeroed in on me in the middle of the parking lot and decided to harass me because my walking was too leisurely for her or something.

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[–] Chezus9247@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Uhm.. block them? Or what I love to do, don't interact with them, dislike their posts if they are really shitty. Then you'll either get blocked by their communities(shoutout to those weirdly specific AI "communities") or you just see them often enough to know their name and just block them, because after all it's not like you want to see their posts anymore. As long as there is no harm in what they're posting, there's no need to annoy mods about it.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

the mods on fedi often agree with the trolls though, because the mods themselves have troll beliefs.

reddit was the same. i got banned from many subreddits for not agreeing with the mods political or social agenda.

one time it was for posting a picture of my cat, it got me a site-ban for 'inciting violence'. by the indoor-only cat people.

[–] IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtf 1 points 1 week ago

trolls have beliefs?

trolling is only for the lulz

[–] WongKaKui@piefed.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How to rid the Web of trolls, bad actors, misinformation, et cetera?

M U R D E R

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

flashbacks to batmetal

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

By creating upright societies, I guess.

"Evil lurks in the datalinks as it lurked in the streets of yesteryear... but it was never the streets that were evil."

[–] Womble@piefed.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Damn the writing in SMAC was so good. How do they get you nodding along to a Christian theocrat thinking "Well I dont like her, but she makes some good points"

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Everyone else was insane. 🤷

Well, Morgan was just a self-centered capitalist and Lal was consumed with the fantasy of reviving his wife (understandable tbh), but the others were cuckoo extremists, lol. And then the space nun comes around saying things like "hey maybe creating self replicating colonies of nanobots is NOT the best of ideas".

[–] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Don't feed the trolls.
It's a rule almost as old as the intranet. It doesn't work, but there isn't anything better.

[–] deadcream@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 week ago

Trolls are a dying breed now. It's all automated bots that don't care whether you "feed" them or not.

[–] HeHoXa@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago

"How to remove humans from the internet?"

Actually we might be well on our way

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You're not going to.

Go outside or read a book.

[–] arsCynic@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago

Go outside

Believe me I do, plenty, and increasingly so.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I do t agree with “block them”

Actively bully them. Call out misinformation.

On my Nextdoor a guy was constantly posting stuff that was just false. They would occasionally get a response from other neighbors. After the 3rd “I don’t think this is legit info” responses I finally called them out with “stop posting things that are factually incorrect. Take this post down. I’m reporting you.”

Holy shit did the neighbors unload on him. 30 responses later, which is likely the most active post of the month, he took it down and apologized.

People just needed one person to get the ball rolling.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

That mostly worked because you're talking about neighbours, they knew where the troll lived and he was aware of that.

[–] arsCynic@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Actively bully them. Call out misinformation.

I strongly disagree with the former, I agree with the latter. Imagine you're your neighbor and you read the same advice you just wrote. You've now justified him bullying other people despite him likely being in the wrong. Moreover, one rarely knows the mental stability of strangers met online and offline, and some people really, really cannot handle criticism and will resort to unhinged behavior.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago

i mean unless they can dox you they are not a real world threat. at most they will report you and try to get you banned, which is annoying, but not going to really impact you in a large way.

in real life, yes, troll type people will try to ruin your social reputation. i had women in college spread claims of sexual assault when i rejected them for sex. they got their comeuppance eventually but it sucked to be harassed by random people who believed their lies. and a lot of people are increasingly mentally unwell and unhinged and will resort to violence if you upset them.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love that you did this, and that it was successful, but TBH I don't have the time and energy in my life for doing the lord's work this way. I just block and move the fuck on. I assume if they don't get attention they will go away, but either way I'll have made it not my problem and others can make the same decision or not.

I had a friend I used to argue with all the time. He would post blatantly false shit on Facebook and I'd call him out. And we'd go back and forth until ultimately he would concede that he "didn't really know that much about it." And then the next day he would post the exact same lies like we'd never even danced that dance.

I can't confront that level of willful idiocy. It cost him nothing to post lies, while I'd spend an hour or so researching facts, providing links, and explaining that oil industry insiders might not be a great source for climate science (for example).

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I’m not arguing with the poster, I’m speaking g up so others aren’t afraid.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

all that does is further solidify them in their delusional beliefs.

and on fediverse, they just label you a nazi/facist/zionist and tell you that you are brainwashed by nazi/facist/zionist 'propaganda'.

[–] aaa999@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

im not trying to give out redemption arcs i wanna reduce the quantity of bad guys' political activity and reduce the effectiveness of their remaining political activity

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

and what if your actions just have the opposite effect?

hostility breeds hostility. resentment breeds resentment.

you're shooting yourself in the foot to spite the other guy. just like they are doing. you are them.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There’s no reaching these people but they can get booted off their platforms so others don’t get sucked into their nonsense.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago

they control the platforms on fedi.

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Get rid of them entirely? Not happening.

Severely reduce them? Ban advertising. As it stands, you can spin up hundreds or even thousands of free accounts on any given site for not much investment, which means banning a troll account doesn't do much. Without advertising, the web would require you to pay for access. If people have to pay real cash for every BS bot account and trolling shitpost, they would be less inclined to spam or harass people.

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[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

As far as the whole web, you can't, and if you care about free speech you shouldn't try to. Everybody talks about getting rid of these people, but the unspoken assumption is that the person making the statement or people in their in-group will be deciding who gets a voice. A rule of thumb I use when thinking about laws or administrative controls is to consider whether they could be used against me should someone who doesn't like me gain power.

As far as individual sites, have clear guidelines and enforce them. Be open with people why they're being banned (looking at you, YouTube). On the Fediverse, block and defederate.

[–] devolution@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Only by mass culling of humans as a whole. There's no other way because humans inherently want to make things worse and have to be taught empathy and respect.

[–] mecen@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Bots seem to be the biggest problem though

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[–] MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's the nature of social networks. People mostly upvote (or whatever term) content they like/agree with, without vetting it. Contradictions or discomfort are voted down.

Some of what we call misinformation is just ignorance, some is people who lack context and some is on purpose but for a "good" cause. Similarly, one person's bad actor is another's reasonable critic. (In debate, you often examine something through someone else's lens/given framework, which necessitates examining from a position with which you do not agree. Which is often called bad faith acting.)

Trolls are the silliest and I don't get it but again, any community large enough will attract a weird subset who want to mess with it or, legit don't have the social skills. (I think of a sad account that saw a star trek or wars joke and wandered in to tell people they didn't like the series because it was for kids and then seemed to relish in the backlash. But looking over their comment history, they seemed an otherwise normal person.)

So, unless we really fundamentally change the nature of social media, I don't see those as solvable problems.

And if we could solve those issues, would people even want it? Would folks want to constantly see things that implied they might not be good people or that their politics or beliefs might be wrong? I think back to a post, somewhere on the fediverse about a vegan criticizing carnivores re: climate change. Even in the Leftist fediverse, it was downvoted to oblivion. But had it been about say cars, ai etc making the same point...

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

my favorite part about fedi is people demanding to see your sources, you show them, and they tell you to f yourself you're nazi/zionist anyway. and that if you belied well-sourced facts and news, you're a troll, because THEY KNOW the truth and if you don't agree with it, then you are just a baby-raping monster of a human being.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

There is one way, but we don't want that.

[–] freeman@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (3 children)

For starters we need someone to set what is a good or a bad actor, what is misinformation and what is Truth.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

that's easy, it's who/what agrees with me and my beliefs.

that's all it means to people.

if you think that's wrong, well, you're probably an academic. but in the real world nobody cares about anything other than whether something makes them feel good, or feel bad. including academics outside of an academic context.

some of the most petty dumb and vile people i ever met were academics.

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Destroy capitalism

[–] IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtf 1 points 1 week ago
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