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I come on here every so often to see what's going on, and every time I leave disappointed. This is my top 3 grievances at the moment:

  1. This place feels dead. It's usually quite, but lately it really feels like a ghost town. Idk what the actual stats say, but I feel like the amount of comments, posts, and variety seem to have gone down quite a bit over the past few months.

  2. The amount of genuinely hateful content has gone up. I feel like Lemmy as a whole used to have better moderation even just last year compared to now. Every time I get on here, I'm seeing more and more gross content that's either racist or bigoted or just downright gross. This content doesn't get taken down even when reported. As horrid as Reddit's moderation is, it's still not this bad.

  3. Outside of the tech communities, there's no information hygiene anywhere in sight. The news subs publish the most questionable of sources, sometimes outright misinformation... and nobody cares? People don't criticize weak sources or call out false claims or even value accuracy. I've seen multiple instances of users saying something false and getting upvoted for it and a person correcting them getting downvoted for it. Like, what's even happening?

I don't know, I feel like when I joined a couple of years ago Lemmy was so much better. It felt more active, the community felt more down to earth, kind, and friendly, and the content was higher in quality. There was much optimism surrounding the Fediverse that's not there anymore. Now it feels like a more left wing version of Voat than a genuine Reddit alternative. Am I the only one feeling this way or do other people feel the same?

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[–] Jaegeras@piefed.social 4 points 21 hours ago

I want to see more micro-communities. I want to read about how passionate people are about niche hobbies or interests that appeal them.

I'm tired of the staple stuff like, we always have to have politics, memes, news, games .etc We already have an abundance of those.

[–] moxymarauder@thelemmy.club 1 points 16 hours ago

I just came from Reddit, so I am still in my honeymoon period. Feels like a breathe of fresh air to me.

[–] jefferyjefferson@lemmy.org 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I think it's in a great position and only needs more instances that respect freedom of speech.

Probably my biggest complaint is users saying there should be more censorship. You have the block button, use it.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

Tech communities make sense. That's where a lot of it started on other sites (Slashdot, Digg, Reddit) and the first user-base I'd expect to move. The rest will likely stay where they're "comfortable" until the water gets too hot

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

It's like Reddit a long, long time ago before it started going to absolute shit.

So I'm liking it.

Personally, I'm experiencing the opposite as far as activity. I joined about 1.5 years ago and there's definitely been a noticable increase in activity in that time. I'm seeing more upvotes and comments than when I joined.

[–] bonenode@piefed.social 33 points 2 days ago (1 children)

First of all, no, does not feel dead to me at all.

Secondly, be the change you want to see. You've been here 2 years and 8 months and according to your stats you do not even make a comment a day. The more people like this, the more dead the place feels.

[–] MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca 25 points 2 days ago

OP has commented 800+ times though, which, is modders of magnitude more than 99% of people in the world.

Maybe there was a less spiky way of making your point?

be the change you want to see

I'm absolutely guilty of it too so this as much for me as you but if we want more folks to engage, maybe we ought to try to be kinder to those who actually do.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 41 points 2 days ago

That's not how I experience it. A few key blocks and I'm not seeing a bunch of assholery. Content isn't endless, but there's almost always something to talk about.

I suspect it depends a great deal on subs, interests, and sort order.

[–] twinnie@feddit.uk 4 points 1 day ago

My two main issues are that I don’t want to keep seeing the same post repeated again and again as I scroll, and I want to be able to find a topic and not have to wrestle with all the different communities around the same thing. I just search for a simple topic and often there’s 20 with the same name and I have to find the one that everyone’s using.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

There are too many unhinged nut jobs who are only here to cause drama and stir controversy, and way too much emphasis on their pet issues. They suck and if you get in their cross hairs they will harass you for days due to their intensive sense of personal victimhood and moral righteousness.

I want more reasonable laid back people with interesting things to say who are decent to each other. But it doesn't seem like the numbers of those folks are growing, more just a consistent number who probably have massive block lists or have de-federated from the problematic/extremist instances.

There is also a new influx of really really dumb people who spam stupid content, who on the surface seem to be teenagers? I don't know what is up with that. I have blocked a bunch of accounts that are doing this, who ask this community and others like it, really dumb stuff like 'why doesn't my poop smell?' 6x a day.

[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I basically feel the same. Not sure if it's just a side effect of how scary things are in the world right now, but I feel like the amount of escapist content has dropped a lot lately. By escapist I mean enjoyable things that aren't focused on the real issues of the day. We all need that kind of thing to stay sane, and it's in shorter and shorter supply on here I find.

The amount of politics leaking into every sub is also increasing rapidly it feels like. I block accounts that only ever post doom scroll content, but some of the bigger meme/entertainment posters have also started to mix in more politics and doom scroll lately.

I'd love to see more regular people on here with diverse interests, but I imagine it's not going to increase due to the prevailing types of posts these days. I've honestly considered stepping away from here myself, but I don't have another place in mind to go to yet.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

It's an affect of people's warped social media brains that think nobody else can be different than them or think different than them. Who read everything through a distorted lens due to their anger issues.

I mean, I can't even say 'The Jewish population of the USA is 7.5 million'. Without random people telling me that is anti-semantic, and others saying it's pro-genocide, and both groups reporting the comment until it gets removed. That's how messed up these folks are, that they can't even allow statements of basic facts.

Or they will say it's 'fake' or 'conspiracy' information... lol

[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's an affect of people's warped social media brains that think nobody else can be different than them or think different than them. Who read everything through a distorted lens due to their anger issues.

The bad news is this predates social media. The even worse news is social media makes it louder.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Eh, in my 20s in the 2000s it was surprisingly chill in my life experience. People didn't really care about politics or your skin color or any of the shit they freak out about today. But it was brief and it came roaring back in the mid 2010s.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

The oligarchs freaked the fuck out after OWS and ruined everything with an insane brainwashing campaign.

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[–] rossman@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago

It's not bad! But it requires a learning curve to actually find stuff vs having the algorithm find stuff for you.

But without active community posts and stuff, it does feel more slower paced. But the price of no corporations and ad free experience is hard to beat.

I'm surprised there aren't more links to substacks. I don't expect lemmy to be a news aggregator but to be more like a source of opinions instead.

Cant expect a reddit alternative without corporate interests involved.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 14 points 2 days ago

It's fine. There's enough activity to keep me in content (as much as I need content), and I don't see the hate as much as you report.

The only thing wrong with it from my perspective is that Trump and American politics is poisoning it, but they're poisoning the entire world so...

Sounds like you should adjust your subscriptions?

[–] Libb@piefed.social 20 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (9 children)

This place feels dead. It’s usually quite, but lately it really feels like a ghost town.

The place has a much smaller population, of which an even tinier amount is active. So there is much less content published. One solution is to participate more but too few people seem willing to do it. An other solution would be to make the space more attractive to more users but, like you noticed...

The amount of genuinely hateful content has gone up.

I've been saying it since I first joined the Fediverse: default experience is... trash, unless you're looking for some echo chamber for your pre-existing biases that is. Some may enjoy that experience, I certainly did not, and most people won't either.

  1. New/default experience should be an empty feed, with a few limited broad suggestions allowing them to slowly get in whatever they're interested and willing to read (even trash content if that's their thing).
  2. Learning to use the filtering tools is key and should be encouraged.
    Personally, I have had a real nice and pleasant experience browsing Piefed because I learned to use those tools: 1) limiting my home page to 'Subscribed' only (filtering out all political/memes/low effort content, because 2) I carefully select the communities I'm subscribed to, 3) Piefed making it so simple to filter out keywords and annoying users alike, I never hesitate to use that and, no, I don't care to block them even if we're already short on users: my time is too precious to waste it with serial haters and complainers, or self-proclaimed white knights for such or such 'noble cause'.

Outside of the tech communities, there’s no information hygiene anywhere in sight.

I've never seen much of any kind of (an information) hygiene, anywhere online. Certainly not on Reddit... save on very few selected subs... exactly like I can see here.

But once again, one can easily filter the worst offenders in a matter of seconds. Then, it's up to anyone to stick to it: once I blocked them, I certainly don't 'check from time to time' to see if they're getting any better. I let them play in their shit pool to their heart's content, throwing more of it at one another: it doesn't concern me anymore. And for that I must say I quite like the filtering tools piefed gives us.

the community felt more down to earth, kind, and friendly,

It depends where you look at. When I joined (two or three years ago? I was on Lemmy, before switching to Piefed) the amount of sheer hate that was expressed and that I witnessed was... disturbing, to say the least. I don't think it has become worse but I could not tell since I learned to filter the sources out.

I wish for the devs to more seriously consider the out of the box experience for a new user and, maybe, consider that not all new users will share their political/personal/philosophical values or biases. I certainly don't agree with many of the ideas I can see expressed around here, but I'm also old enough to be fine with people having different opinions, and patient enough to see if I can make the tool work more like I want it to and reduce what I consider noise.

edit: typos.

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[–] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I see this thread has many people saying that they don't see a problem and it must be because of the local and personal blocklists.

I see comments saying it's because they are using Lemmy or Piefed.

I've blocked nothing. I scroll through /c/all every day and I don't feel like there is a hate or dodgy content problem.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 days ago

Likewise. I think people are forgetting what it was like on reddit. Shits kind of popping here now and running into the odd tankie or chudd is nothing like having them in a full brigade or admin team like reddit

I've actually been having a pretty good time lately. I like that the communities are smaller and more personal (especially compared to coming from reddit where some of the communities I was in were massive).

[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 13 points 2 days ago

Depends where you're looking. It's not as active as Reddit for sure, but it also has far fewer non-humans too which seems to be the majority of Reddit these days - either repost bots or even comment bots so the activity isnt real, it's a mere simulation. I don't fear that here. PugJesus is real. 😃

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'd say it's sort of the opposite. When I first looked into the Fediverse, Lemmy.ml was the juggernaut sub. They were and sort of still are filled with tankies (literally stands for Marxist Leninist). Now there is more variety of instances, Piefed has better moderating tools and combines cross post comments which is why I used that, and user base is slowly growing over time as Reddit and everyone else continue to fuck up. Sure there is still a lot less content, but that's infinitely more preferable to liking a comment and then someone pointing out the comment was stolen from an 11 year old post by a bot.

[–] mech@feddit.org 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The hate is definitely spreading, and nuance is going out the window.
Threads about some subjects legit scare me, with the rabid hate and demand for ideological purity that oozes out of the comment section.

[–] rimu@piefed.social 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] NateNate60@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I feel like the voting culture of Lemmy is not conductive to good conversation or anything more than blind agreement. It's certainly helped by the fact that Lemmy's algorithm is more willing to show newer posts and comments (as opposed to merely popular ones), but people on Lemmy seem to be very willing to downvote content that they don't agree with, or downvote news that they don't like (regardless of the informative quality of said news), or just downvote anything that may contradict their pre-existing notions of how stuff works. It's more hostile than Reddit, and it seems like everyone, especially in the political communities, is wanting to start an argument here, sometimes over the dumbest things. Look in your average Reddit comment thread, and you see pages of jokes, memes, people sharing stories, and just generally having a good time. Look in your average Lemmy comment thread, and you see two people arguing over a dumb political point.

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[–] fizzle@quokk.au 6 points 2 days ago

This place feels dead.

I've been here every day for the last few years and it doesn't really feel that way.

The amount of genuinely hateful content has gone up

I haven't really encountered any "hateful" content. There is however a lot of far left teenage dweebs who can be just relentless. Over time I've become more trigger-happy with the block button.

no information hygiene

I suspect you may have encountered this on posts from some of the instances I have blocked. They're very well known and many instances have defederated from them. the news communities on lemmy.world don't seem terrible ?

All of that said ...

I don't particularly like the fediverse myself. I find I spend an equal amount of time on a redlib (reddit) instance. There's more content, it's more engaging, and news seems to drop there first.

As a tangentially related aside... switch over to piefed. The lemmy devs are supporting all three problems you've mentioned IMO.

[–] PlzGivHugs@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Personally, I haven't noticed a decrease in content, but I have noticed a significant dropoff in quality of content, and in it's place, has mostly grown toxicity. None of the racism, or anything that extreme (although, from what I've seen, my instance moderators have been doing a good job,) but so much of the content is insults, unhelpful snark, doomerism, elitism, and just general bad-faith arguments. It feels like all those who wantted to be helpful or supportive have given up or left, meaning no high-quality content and no meaningful discourse.

That said, it also feels like a wider cultural shift thats happened in the last year or so. Online culture as a whole feels more toxic, with fewer places to go for positivity or constructivity, and far more hate and abuse.

[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

I feel this. I've been feeling like I'm getting less and less enjoyment out of my time here. It's hard to even think of another place to go though. Like you said every platform is a mess these days in one way or another it seems like.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 11 points 2 days ago

I feel like your comment of (2) contradicts (3) to some degree. I agree the wider culture of lemmy is progressive/left, but that at least indirectly contradicts the prominence of racist content that you claim exists.

[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
  1. So how often do you post and make the change you want to see?

  2. Hmm.

  3. Can you give an example of this "weak source or false claims" in the news here? I see the usual suspects when I look: Reuters, guardian, AP, BBC, Al Jazeera, etc.

I never browse all though, I only go to the 50 or so groups I belong to, and remember to sort by scaled once in a while.

I do believe there are more bots or at least propaganda accounts, or maybe people causing friction. Don't know if its state sponsored or just a sign of the times.

[–] missingno@fedia.io 7 points 2 days ago

It feels like activity has dropped off a bit since the last Reddit exodus. And I worry that this platform is never going to see the kind of critical mass I'd want out of it, to be big enough that I can use it to discuss more niche topics and fandoms than what's currently on offer here. I see communities get made and die off on the regular from people who want to use this platform they way they used Reddit but quickly realize they can't.

I'm still here because I believe in the ideals of a federated platform, but I just don't know what the future holds at this rate.

[–] WagnasT@piefed.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I think this place starts to feel dead when atrocities are committed, then we get zillions of the same posts, rightfully so because these things should not be ignored, but then it seems like nothing else is really happening here.
I agree with you on the shitty sources. The ones that spread misinfo will spam a wall of text with links to 'sources' and trying to call them out becomes an overwhelming chore. Then the extremely toxic 'did you read the article??!?' when the source is just some shitty opinion blog. It's exhausting, which is why they do it.

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't really see the widespread racism you claim exists here, with Lemmy being one of the least racist Western online spaces I've ever been in...

And idk what you mean by dead. Compared to what? I feel like I see the same usernames pop up often, because we have a community of regulars. I don't think I need it to be more "active", and it certainly beats the more bot-infested "larger" online communities.

Also, if you really dislike the "leftist" population/takes on Lemmy, why don't you just go back to Reddit? Like, in earnest, they have a lot of uhh "right wing" stances and all big subreddits support the American empire and silence anyone who disagrees. Just make a new account and resettle there, it'll be more to your liking!

[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Your last paragraph is probably what OP was writing about. You don't have to be right-wing to dislike Hezbollah, Hamas, the Ayatollahs, Chavez and Maduro, and the Castros. But you'll get shit on quite a lot here for that. "Centrists just enable fascism" is a common take.

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[–] OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

From the communities ive interacted with, defs feels dead compared to other places. Does suck when scrolling through the news feed and getting caught up way too quickly.

But there seems to be a fair chunk of aussies on here thats kept me on here

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Building critical mass is difficult because people created communities that have barely any activity.

The way you build a platform is to encourage less categorization until a specific topic needs to be split off.

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