Boils down to US labor laws, healthcare, maternity leave for both parents and income distribution.
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We lost a neighbor to suicide last year. The impact on the neighborhood has been substantial. So many lives touched in so many tangential ways.
My brother-in-law killed himself years ago. The effect on his family will never go away, like he threw a stone in a pond and the ripples never end.
Human beings are social animals. Most of us are disconnected from our "tribe" or "herd". We aren't meant to exist like this. The oligarchs have designed a system to make everyone hate each other ... its working as intended.
Everyone is isolated watching corporate propaganda on magic boxes. No safety net, no community. Move from wage slavery location to propaganda consumption location in an enclosed box.
Human beings aren’t built for this lifestyle.
I have looked at my own life, and if I could choose one realistic change that would improve my quality of life, it would be more genuine (read: non-transactional) social connection. More friends, and more time with my friends. More sense of community.
Epstein did not kill himself. Nor did Seth Rich or Deborah Palfrey, Micheal Hastings, or Marilyn Monroe. really...
We weren't evolved for this.
For thousands of years we were hunters and farmers and such, working hard in the summer and hibernating in the winter, saving night time for relaxation and fun (yes I am vastly simplifying and am aware of the exceptions).
So of course people are freaking miserable as drones for the 24-365 corporate hive.
BUT PROFITS ARE UP, UP, UP! STOCK MARKET 50k BABY
Something critical to note is that help is not really out there. This is the kind of news article that usually gets people to post 988, but if you’ve called 988 you know how much of a joke it is. They will “triage” you, where you either get the cops called to take you to hell/inpatient or you spend half an hour plus on hold for someone to say “sorry that sucks :(“
Inpatient institutionalize increase suicide rates after release. You get maybe fifteen minutes of actual “treatment” while the rest of it is being treated like a criminal. Good luck keeping your job after disappearing three days without being allowed to access your phone!
It amazes me when I see TikToks and videos from patients in inpatient facilities in other countries. In the US, wanting to kill yourself means that you are a horrible criminal and you will be punished for it.
The hospitals don't really help, either. I was made to feel almost worse than i did just being depressed.
The ones for children are even worse. Zero accountability. Adults with no reason to ever be supervising a child.
The society must persist...I am so sorry.
In 2023, suicide rates were highest among 85+ and among men.
Rates are also rising among rural white men.
- Easy access to firearms. Men are more likely to use a gun than woman though this is changing.
- Social isolation. Worse in rural areas and among single men.
- Old social nets like church and fraternities are shrinking. Black men in rural areas are more likely to attend church where social support is available.
- Lack of mental health care. Men are less likely to seek out mental health care even when it is available.
- Financial stress (job loss, status loss, pressure)
I blame commercials and PSAs. I stopped watching TV in the mid-2000s and have ad blocker online. Watching TV today is like stepping back into Plato's Cave. You don't realize how psychologically damaging commercials are.
As an example, a few years ago I watched a live stream of the local news during a weather event with ads that couldn't be blocked. Four hours later, I had seen the same commercial for an HIV drug at least 8 times. I had the thing memorized and I was very, very aware of HIV all day as it replayed in my brain. I don't ever think about HIV. But I was forced to. I'm usually happy go lucky but after that ad, and other ads for a myriad of other drugs for diseases, plus PSAs reminding me how my life is a vicious jungle with death just a step away, I felt pretty bummed. Some of those PSAs are down right mean spirited.
Without ads, I can control my exposure to the horrors of the world. With ads, you're at the mercy of the station or website drowning you in human misery. There probably needs to be a law to limit those kind of commercials. Like one PSA a week and one pharmaceutical commercial a day.
It also goes the other way. I was watching a documentary on youtube on some ugly historical subject and I'd get these happy go lucky ads in the middle of it. "Uhhh, you want to associate your product with this?"
Agree, but I don't think it's limited to ads or PSAs, I think everyone with empathy is having a real hard time, because the news and the internet is constantly making them aware of, just, awful things. War and famine abroad and at home, all while like, 800 people in the world sit atop mountains of gold, doing absolutely everything in their power to destroy the planet and subvert democracy. We've been past the climate change "tipping point" for YEARS, and we're still growing our oil and gas consumption. Anybody that cares about peoples suffering, is going to suffer, because we can't empathise with everyone, everywhere, all at once. And yet, that's what we're asked to do, everytime we see the news. We're still trying to play todays game by yesterdays rules.
The reality of the situation is that in the lifetime of your child, they will see complete economic and agricultural collapse. Why do you think that syphilitic pedo rapist wants Greenland so bad? Because projections show that giant iceball is going to be our best farmland in 60 years. Meanwhile any nations near the equator will be absolutely fucked. Chemical manufacturers in the US have so captured the government, that they've been poisoning all your water and food for decades without as much as a peep from regulators. Gotta get that new glyphosate weed and bug killer! nevermind it's been banned by almost every country except our dumbasses.
if this were minecraft, I'd say that all we really need to do to save our species, is kill about 3-400 billionaires, redistribute their wealth, put a blanket moratorium on oil and gas usage, transitioning the worlds fleet of cars to electric (or just abandoning them all together in favor of trains), and establishing a one world government. Just think of the amount of artistic and scientific endeavors we could achieve if man were allowed the freedom to breathe and live. Imagine if you had universal healthcare, universal pre-k and daycare, imagine if you were given a 4 year college education just as a matter of course. Imagine if rent control existed, and a universal basic income to allow you a basic standard of living. Imagine how much happier you would be.
Hey, we're only like 3-400 billionaires deaths away from achieving it.
...in minecraft
That's part of it. Never earning enough to live is the other. The economic disparity in the US is greater than it was before the French Revolution. No matter how hard younger generations work, they can't earn money at a rate that exceeds price inflation and experience. 60% of this country is doomed to never get ahead and the other 40% just don't realize it's so bad for everyone else they're killing themselves.
Blame social media. We have studies that show direct correlation between suicide rate and instagram, for example. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1461444819850106
Frankly, I'm just glad that there may be a tax on advertisin (and other things) to try and shore up health care costs in Michigan.
Can you blame them?
The US is a fucking hellscape
I spend quite a bit of time there. I'm over several times a year and I genuinely don't know how people can live like that
There's a constant thin thread of fear, wrapped around everything, running through everything
People are afraid of the people around them. They're afraid of their government, they're afraid of the people who are supposed to be there to protect them, they're afraid of their employers, they're afraid of the unknown
I'm very careful not to take my charmed life for granted
You mean it’s not like that everywhere? Seriously, are there still countries where you can feel safe in your day-to-day life?
Yes, and it's kinda worrying to me you have to ask. But there are absolutely places where you don't live in the fear the next person is trying to fuck you over or harm you
I seldom lock my doors, and even if I lock the front door, the back door is always open for my dog to go in and out as he pleases
I never worry about being hit, and firearm crime here is vanishingly rare
Nowhere is perfect. My nearest pub isn't the sort of place if ever go because the regulars are morons, but I live somewhere peaceful and serene
the most thing i noticed that both parties are afraid of is giving free or extremely cheap healthcare to everyone, mainly because keeping it private helps keep the parties into gop/dem.
For-profit healthcare is beyond disgusting
Slavery never went away in the US. It was rebranded, encompassing all but the ruling classes, with people's health tied to their employment
All so some people who were already rich could get richer, and the cost to the American public is a fucking disgrace
Long live Luigi!
Having Trump as President is how I imagine it's like living with an abuser. A constant state of anxiety — never knowing when or where the next blow will come, but knowing it's coming. You stop planning for the future or enjoying the now and just focus on keeping your head above water one more day. The constant stress actually creates knots in my back that sometimes put me down for days.
And when he's finally out of office you didn't notice you've been holding your breath for four years and you just want to weep with relief at surviving and escaping.
As someone who lived with an abuser for almost 30 years, can confirm, this is very accurate.
I'm totally enraged, and actively compilling a list of people on the Epstein list, and the billionaires. What's keeping me out of "trouble" is my family getting itself into debt. Once I'm done with debt however...
I will try the pacifist build a community approach first, but I'm already ready to throw down rhuthlessly.
My daughter is 15. She hates guns. Hates being around them, the sound, the idea of harm, etc. 4 weeks ago she came crying afraid for her friends and ICE. Last week she told me she wanted to learn to shoot. (I inherited a lot of guns. I bought a few myself. I come from a conservative family and I am the black sheep, the one that "changed".) Still trying to get ahold of someone from Blazing Sword as an instructor. I want her to learn from someone with actual teaching instruction, rather than backwoods learning that I got.
Kids are terrified. Schools are scary, the law is scary, the dungeon dwelling creeps are now villified. I can see why suicide is increasing.
My teenage daughter and her friends were planning a walk out at school to protest ICE. She texted me that the school administrators and "resource officers" (aka cops in schools) physically blocked all the exits so nobody could leave.
The superintendent in Mustang Oklahoma suspended all of the kids who walked out.
As a kid I would have loved the free vacay from that.
Are we great again yet?
Among 10-14 year-olds?
At that age, your biggest problem should be losing a video game save file, or at worst losing your first pet. All while still surrounded by loving and supportive adults.
What the hell are we doing?
This take from adults always perplexed me. I’m surprised I made it out alive