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[–] UncleArthur@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Breakfast

Elevenses

Brunch

Lunch

Afternoon tea

Dinner

Supper

Midnight feast

[–] Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago

Alright, calm down Frodo

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 8 points 1 week ago

But what about second breakfast?

[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Elevenses is GOAT.

[–] waz@feddit.uk 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What meal is this? The middle of the day? Or the one after work/school? Because I feel it’s incorrect for the east/west split in the south.

  • Lunch in the middle of the day
  • Tea after school - when you’re a kid
  • Dinner after work - as a grownup
  • Supper is optional and before bed. (Bad for you)

Location: new forest/hants.

[–] rjek@feddit.uk 5 points 1 week ago

I'm in Manchester and your interpretation is 100% correct. Although... I did grow up in Hythe.

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I guess highlanders just starve?

[–] Klear@quokk.au 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There can be only one, and he doesn't call it anything.

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 7 points 1 week ago

It's a kind of magic

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They asked multiple people but couldn't understand a word they were saying

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Fuck this shite xenophobic bigoted patter

[–] Small_Quasar@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Ironically at least some of the Highland accents are often cited as the clearest English and the easiest to understand for non-native speakers.

I went to Madagascar 20 years ago. I turned on the radio in my cabin and it was tuned to BBC World Service. It was a bit of a trip hearing another tuechter's voice in the south Malagasy desert.

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[–] Skua@kbin.earth 3 points 1 week ago

No wonder Orkney and Shetland have left altogether. Maybe they moved back in with Norway

[–] SavinDWhales@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Who wants to live forever?

[–] Olap@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

As a sometimes highlander: dinner far more common, but tea is the same thing

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 1 points 1 week ago

They eat as and when they catch something, with their bare teeth.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

In Northern Scotland, they just don't eat.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I'm so far north i'm not even on the map. We mostly eat fish and wind for our 'tea'.

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[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago

Yes. These all have different meanings to me.

Supper is a meal typically served in the evening, it’s the last meal of the day, but it’s informal.

Dinner is more formal, an afternoon meal with social elements and/or formality. It can be the last meal but doesn’t have to be.

Tea is an afternoon snack, typically served with tea, hence the name. Tea might be skipped if you have an early dinner.

[–] DakRalter@thelemmy.club 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In primary school in the 90s, we'd call lunch dinner (dinner time, dinner money, school dinners) but if you brought your own food it was packed lunch. But at home, we'd say dinner for the evening meal.

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago

They still do that at my kid's school, so he gets two dinners a day. Chaos reigns.

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

I was so confused when I first heard someone ask "what's for tea?". Uhm, tea I guess, maybe a biscuit??

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm from the North but I tend to use dinner for the evening meal, rather than tea. Dinner in my mind is the "big" meal of the day.

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[–] fozid@feddit.uk 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Tea is a delicious hot drink, I have a little milk in mine. Breakfast is the first meal of the day after getting up. Lunch is a midday meal. Afternoon tea is a posh cup of tea, with a pot, and some snacks like scones, cakes and finger sandwiches. Dinner is an evening main meal Supper is a late evening snack.

I'm from the north west.

[–] Guilvareux@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago

I’m from the middle of the midlands. This is absolutely correct.

[–] thehatfox@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Tea. Dinner only used for Sundays or Christmas.

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dinner is the main meal. Lunch/tea is a smaller meal.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago

Lunch is the main meal. Breakfast is a rushed coffee at best. Dinner is an unenthusiastic munch that takes place anytime between 4-11pm

[–] Psaldorn@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've lived in all these regions, I just say food now. Safer that way

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 5 points 1 week ago

Followed by "psspsspsspss" to anyone within earshot

[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 4 points 1 week ago

"Dinner," tea is daft, twee and confusing. I'm from + Live in Tea heartlands though

[–] MurrayL@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

IIRC this is a class divide indicator. The fact that class maps well onto geography is just correlation.

Middle class has breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Working class has breakfast, dinner, and tea.

Supper is an outlier and definitely more unusual. In my experience it usually indicates a smaller evening meal.

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[–] urno@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dinner = posh Tea = pov Supper = aristocracy

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[–] sh3llcmdr@feddit.uk 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Breakfast Dinner Tea Supper (optional)

My test is what you called the school staff who served your midday meal. Was it a "dinner lady" or "lunch lady"?!

[–] thehatfox@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The school thing is a good point. We called hot meals at school dinners, that were served by dinner ladies.

But we also had packed lunches that we ate out of lunchboxes.

[–] sh3llcmdr@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

Damn you and your logic!!

[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Do you call it Christmas Dinner or Christmas Lunch?

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[–] fox2263@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Annoyingly, lunch is dinner (dinner ladies at school) but also the evening meal is dinner if I haven’t had dinner (lunch) 😂 then it’s tea time.

[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

I grew up saying 'Tea' for the evening meal but changed to 'Dinner' at university - just to fit in.

When talking with my parents though, I still say Tea.

It very much does come down I think to what was historically the main meal of the day - which makes this both a regional divide, and a class divide.

[–] Lembot_0006@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago

They tried to teach me English in school ~30 years ago. At that moment it was "dinner" for the meal near the midday and "supper" for the evening meal. Breakfast for morning.

Sounded quite logical and convenient.

[–] GandalftheBlack@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

Having moved from a tea-saying region of England to Northern Ireland, I haven't heard anyone say "tea" around here for an evening meal

[–] smeg@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dinner if it's hot, lunch/tea if it's cold, supper if you're in an Enid Blyton story.

This country is obviously in decline, cold tea

[–] thlibos@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 week ago

Dinner is around 2pm and the biggest meal of the day. Supper is around 7 pm.

[–] twinnie@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

I live in the south west and it’s dinner for tea.

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