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[–] Skua@kbin.earth 117 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Cats not looking at you is often good! It (usually) means they trust you enough to not feel like they have to watch you. Obviously a cat that likes you will often look at you, but a cat that doesn't trust you will likely be keeping a close eye in case you do anything threatening

[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 47 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Somehow I can enter a room where my cat has his back to me and make noise at him or pet him or pick him up and he never even looks back.

I don't understand how he knows it's me. But also I'm not a cat.

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 43 points 1 month ago

Well we can recognise people by their voices and, if we're around someone long enough, even by the sound of their footsteps, right? And cats have far better hearing than us

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The same way humans know who's who. Footsteps, voice

[–] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Cats can also smell you. Ideally, the humans cannot smell you

[–] rainwall@piefed.social 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He can smell you better than he can see you.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

'oh no, here comes the smelly human again...'

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

Yeah but it's their smelly human!

[–] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 12 points 1 month ago

Wanted to say the same thing! A cat staring at someone is a pretty hostile signal - staring contests between cats are pretty much always the unfriendly type.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 77 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] texture@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

this is the way

[–] HejMedDig@feddit.dk 53 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 15 points 1 month ago

Yeap. "Curious" about breakfast!

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 50 points 1 month ago (3 children)

"Yesterday". Most cats take more time than that to adjust to a big change like that!

[–] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Are you saying someone could put any text over an image of a cat? I doubt it, then it would be lying. And people wouldn't do that

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 month ago

Actually I was saying that whoever wrote that was being silly for thinking the cat didn't like them. I can't even imagine a scenario where text over an image of a cat isn't accurate. That just doesn't happen.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah my kittens took about a week before they would actually come out and be visible while we were in the same room. For that first week, they would only come out to eat when we stepped out or were asleep and they’d hide all day if we were in the room with them

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Can confirm. Takes four to six months minimum. If you have other cats sometimes it can take years for them to feel comfortable in their new home.

[–] Shortstack@reddthat.com 39 points 1 month ago

He is the best cat. Treasure him

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 26 points 1 month ago

My boy cat switches between hiding under the bed and running around like a maniac throughout the day, but bedtime is snuggle time.

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Congratulations, you have been adopted. Please do not resist.

[–] Krompus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

One of my favourite details in the legendary video game Dwarf Fortress is that dwarves can adopt most tame animals, with one exception: cats who like dwarves adopt dwarves who like cats. 😻

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

He's wondering what you think you're doing in his bed.

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Cat body language is different. Not looking means he doesn't consider you a threat. Staring means agression.

[–] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 5 points 1 month ago

Staring in most animals is aggression.

[–] BryceBassitt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My cat tells me she wats to play by staring at me. I guess its less of a request and more a threat

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 2 points 1 month ago

Or she learned that you respond to eye contact

[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

When I met my SO she had two sister cats. One you could hold like a baby and the other is friendly but didn't like to be held and fought pretty hard to escape. She said she doesn't like to be held. Long story short that cat will purr in my arms when there's milk about to be served because she is a milk hound. Bribery aside I think the cat just doesn't like when her human is walking around while holding her. Like car sick but for cats I think.

[–] AlexLost@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Almost no cats like to be moved outside their own power. I've had cats forever and most don't care to be held but almost all hate to be carried.

[–] hopesdead@startrek.website 9 points 1 month ago

I have to look after my mom’s three cats for two weeks, which she insists will want to sleep next to me.

Usually they don’t want to be near me.

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Ya boi was testing you. Looks like you passed! . . . for now. 😄

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago

Baby just needed a day to adjust, what a cutie.

[–] Yondoza@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

This cat's a juggalo fo sho.

[–] Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Hims the goodest man.