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A meme is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads by means of imitation from person to person within a culture and often carries symbolic meaning representing a particular phenomenon or theme.

An Internet meme or meme, is a cultural item that is spread via the Internet, often through social media platforms. The name is by the concept of memes proposed by Richard Dawkins in 1972. Internet memes can take various forms, such as images, videos, GIFs, and various other viral sensations.


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[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 2 points 1 hour ago

I'm all for hating the Giants as a cowboys fan. But I'm curious what role it plays in this meme.

[–] python@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Russian could have been such a woke language if Russia wasn't such a right-wing shithole. It's kind of elegant how you gender verbs when talking about yourself, because your conversation partner can just pick up on it and gender you accordingly.

[–] csolisr@hub.azkware.net 0 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Non-native English speaker here. I was appalled to learn that English conjugated for animacy, and could swear "it" was the gender-neutral pronoun because that's what was used in Pokemon for example. I'm also not a fan of toggling conjugations mid-sentence, so I prefer to construct sentences with the plural "they", the expression "that person", or even the singular "one(self)", whenever I can

[–] beejboytyson@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's not. In academic writing the gender neutral is they/them.

[–] csolisr@hub.azkware.net 1 points 1 hour ago

Which is why I was appalled to learn it late in life that "it" was reserved exclusively to non-humans, for some reason that didn't exist in my native Spanish. The rest of my explanation would be better written on a longer blog-post of mine.

[–] napkin2020@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 hours ago

Korean, having to know the person's age, social status, relationship and all just to call someone.

[–] pyrflie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 hours ago

It keeps looking at us precious.

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 7 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

I have friends who use it. It feels kind of weird and wrong for me as if I'm objectiving them but if that's what they want it's what they get.

[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 6 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah I'd be quite uncomfortable with calling anyone "it". I'll gladly use they/them, I'd be down to learn some neopronouns, but calling someone "it" is something I'd rather avoid. Even if someone likes "it" pronouns, I'd still feel incredibly weird doing so in public. Calling people an "it" is often done here to mock androgynous people. It feels dehumanizing. If I were to do so in public, it would mean they people around me (who don't know the other person's preference) would probably assume I'm doing so to mock them.

[–] AlolanYoda@mander.xyz 1 points 2 hours ago

On the other hand, when I was learning English this was the weirdest thing to me. What do you mean you have a gender neutral pronoun and it's not acceptable to use it to refer to someone we don't know the gender of?

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I admit I use "they" when they're not around and luckily it rarely happens that I need to use their pronouns when I'm out with them.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I have friends who use "it". It feels kind of weird and wrong for me as if I'm objectifying it but if that's what it wants it's what it gets.

ftfy

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Great job, what would I ever do without you?

[–] Event_Horizon@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

To me "it" dehumanises someone doen to an object.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 10 hours ago

No joke: in my native German dialect, women are grammatically neutral.

My then gf was completely shocked when visiting my birth region for the first time.
It still married me, though! :-)

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago

You know what’s weird? I’ve caught myself saying “it” about people a few times passively lately and then correcting myself and wondering where the fuck that came from

[–] Draegur@lemmy.zip 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I use 'it' to describe ME :3

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 points 13 hours ago

I have "it" in my Discord description, along with cpt.

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago
[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago
[–] bystander@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 day ago (4 children)

In Chinese, verbally the world for he, she, and it are all the same pronunciation. It is only differentiated in writing.

[–] stray@pawb.social 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The written form was neutral until Western influence inspired the creation of a female version, replacing the first radical "person" with "woman".

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 15 hours ago

I think some Chinese forums use "TA" (as in the 2 English letters) to be gender neutral

[–] Rubanski@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Don't forget the word 祂 for divine beings as the 4th

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 points 13 hours ago

Going to randomly call people 祂 to fuck with them.

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