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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] FreakinSteve@lemmy.world 4 points 54 minutes ago* (last edited 53 minutes ago)

I so wish that I could grift the fuck out of the goddamn Nazis and get rich off of their idiocy but I would feel icky with dirty money.

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 24 points 3 hours ago

Yes and i would choose to have morals anyway

[–] vane@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

It depends where you want to go. Knowledge is always bigger than power, power gives money but knowledge gives depression and suicide thoughts. The fast escape path is obvious.

[–] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago

Sure but it's lonely at the top. If you rise to the top by backstabbing people, you'll end up exactly how some people right now are, and you keep trying to accumulate more and be great or whatever messing up everything else and being hated.

While a simple life with your loved ones will give you satisfaction. And satisfaction is the key to happiness. Rather satisfaction is the ultimate happiness.

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 7 points 4 hours ago

House MD Pilot

[–] lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world 27 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

This is only true in a world that is mostly full of people with morals. A society built on lying and manipulation inevitably collapses - look at what is happening to the United States. They elected an amoral lying manipulator and in just six months their society is unraveling. They just passed a law that took money away from hungry children and sick people so that their psychopathic leader can better persecute his enemies: that is, anyone who opposes him. ICE just became the best-funded "law" enforcement agency ever created. It is obvious to everyone except a handful of naive idiots that ICE will be used against US citizens to consolidate MAGA's power in an attempt to create a permanent regime. These states always collapse sooner or later, though, because morality is the foundation of law. No one is going to invest in a country where their assets can be seized and they can be imprisoned on the caprice of a senile madman. You can't have trade without trust - all that is left in places like the US are predators and prey.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 17 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

This unraveling has been going on a lot longer than just six months. It's been accelerating hard since the Patriot Act after 9/11. And even before that, Republicans had been lying about their support of free markets for generations.

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[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Depends what you mean by "further". It is a trait that definitely serves well in some very lucrative areas like business or politics. But it very easy to ruin other aspects of your life like your relationships, your public image, and can run you afoul of the law. In areas of work where your image is paramount, being a liar and manipulator usually only gets you so far because it's very hard to maintain those lies and hide the manipulation under massive public scrutiny, particularly if you're doing illegal stuff in addition to it. Of course the wealthier you are, or the more fanatical your following, the more you will have others lie and manipulate on your behalf, so... accountability can decrease that way.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

it very easy to ruin other aspects of your life like your relationships, your public image, and can run you afoul of the law.

Not when you succeed to the level that you can ignore the laws - which isn't just one man in the US, not by a long shot.

That's why I included the last bit. The law is more relevant when you are not someone too special. The higher you get, the less it matters, if only because more people have fallen for your manipulations or are cognizant of them but support them for whatever reason, and will defend you no matter what from actual justice.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 5 points 5 hours ago

That depends on how much people with morals stick together. People are isolated so that they can be manipulated.

[–] Eknz@lemmy.eknz.org 17 points 8 hours ago

It may seem this way at times, however, it really depends on the system you're participating in.

Have a play around with: The evolution of trust - https://ncase.me/trust/

[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago

Depends on how you define "further". I'd like to leave this earth knowing I had a positive impact on those i met while I was here. I can sleep easy at night, even dispte all the hardships in my life atm, knowing I'm doing the best with what it is I have. Also, in my early 30's, I started to really internalize the, "having nice things means keeping things nice" i.e. you don't need new shiny things all the time. Take care of what you already have and you'll never be without.

I can't lie and manipulate my way into being a kind and honorable man, friend, son and brother. Me achieving those things brings me greater peace of mind and satisfaction than anything I'd ever need to lie my way into to get.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 points 6 hours ago

Unless you meet someone like me, who does not wait for aithorities to resolve things.

My co-workers did that literally hours ago, admited everything within moments.

[–] benni@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago

It makes a lot of sense. Lying and manipulation are done specifically to achieve goals. A defining characteristic of morals is that you're supposed to follow them even if it's neutral or disadvantageous for you. If someone follows "morals" to achieve a personal goal, they're not actually following morals, they're just acting in a way that incidentally looks moral.

[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 125 points 14 hours ago (8 children)

I've got 2 kids in primary school. We teach them to be kind and caring, that cheaters never win. That bullies are bullies because they are not happy.

However a study came out that compared bullies and non bullies. Bullies kids are more likely to be successful financially and socially based on studies. I was sad for humanity when o found out.

It makes sense, in the same way that it makes sense that CEO's are more likely to be sociopaths. Human brains are made for small societies. When it's a larger society, negative traits can be helpful to get ahead. It's likely part of the reason we experience wars and famine and billionaires.

[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 1 points 23 minutes ago

The human brain really seems to be built for small communities. Once the village you live in is bigger than about 150 people, all sorts of weird things begin to happen. Some people no longer feel like they're a part of the same group as everyone else. They begin to feel like they can get away with anything, maybe even steal something, or hurt other people. Being greedy doesn't feel wrong any more, altruism feels like a weakness etc.

I've been thinking about these things, and I've come to the conclusion that the world we live in is not optimized for the human mind or physiology. We've specifically designed a world that is bad for us in a number of ways.

[–] TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I was curious about the studies. The only thing I came across about outcomes was this BMJ review that says:

Bullies were more likely to have trouble keeping a job and honouring financial obligations. They were more likely to be unemployed.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I'd also want to see the same methodology when assessing being happy, have many close friends you can trust etc.

[–] Doll_Tow_Jet-ski@fedia.io 74 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I love you put billionaires next to other disasters

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 17 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

In many ways billionaires are worse than the other disasters listed.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 hours ago

Mostly because people aspire to be billionaires. Society would be much better off if people aspired to be hurricanes.

[–] brachiosaurus@mander.xyz 3 points 7 hours ago

successful financially and socially

Going around with a machete makes you more successful predator. Being successful financially doesn't mean shit and neither does having followers on social media.

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[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Really depends on where you are. These people won't get as far in stable communities where people know and talk to each other. If you are doing these things habitually as a way to get ahead, eventually everyone will figure out what is going on and will, at the very least, exclude you from the group.

This pattern is the case with most people who are especially dickish or unpleasant in one way or another. Sure, a very small number of them gain power and influence in the world at large. But most of them live shitty lives. They have few friends, and the friends they do have are shitty like them. They have no money, because they have trouble getting and keeping jobs - even low paying ones. When they manage to find romantic partners, the relationships tend to be tumultuous, since the only people they can attract are just as shitty as they are.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Especially in today's sociopolitical climate

[–] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 hours ago

Especially in today’s sociop~~olitical~~athic climate

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 4 points 8 hours ago

I wish this wasn't true, but it's tragic that it is.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Absolutely true and stating otherwise is just crowd control.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

See, we used to exile those types. Modern society lost that ability and now we have CEOs.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

That's where Luigi enters the stage!

[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 24 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Yay capitalism! Perfect reasoning not to feel bad lying on a resume.

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[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

That depends on how shallow you want your life to be.

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