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[–] WanderingThoughts@europe.pub 96 points 3 days ago (2 children)

One study I found is where they let people (their control group) check some data about effectiveness of a certain shampoo. They all found the correct answer. Then they let people do the exercise with the exact same data but said it was about gun control. Suddenly a part of the participants failed at basic math and had a lot of rationalizations.

Some folks will not just accept any fact or data that goes against a belief held by their peer group. Giving facts will even be seen as a personal attack.

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I think Veritasium did a video on that.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Would love to see it if you have a link.

[–] Pilon23@feddit.dk 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'd imagine this is what OP is referring to

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Certainly is, thank you.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Lol, I think I'm probably the one that will mess up the data because I'm a pro-gun leftist and they just assume that every democrat is anti-gun

[–] Auth@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sometimes people will make a broad statement then link a study that supports it and act like boom that makes it a fact. No it doesnt. A study supporting your statement helps support your argument but it doesnt make it a fact. The real world is extremely complex and there are so many factors that can make something true in one place,space or moment in time and worng in another.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

This is the same logic anti-vaxxers use.

Yes, sometimes a few studies or even one study is compelling enough to confidently make an assertion that requires evidence to the contrary.

[–] Auth@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah there are some fields where thats the case sure. From what i've seen in online discussion the studies very rarely support the claims being made. Even if the research supports the claim, studies tend not to make bold assertions and strong claims like people arguing online tend to do.

[–] Agosagror@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Theres only one good way to change someones mind over something that they have become entrenched about - for example politics, but anything where the reaction is a no rather than a what.

And thats to listen to everything they say, and ask the right question at the right time, a gentle interjection, something that nudges them to question something themselves. At somepoint they might even ask you about you perspective, and you need to give the right kind of answer.

Its slow and painful, and for big things it takes years and years of work to get someone to change. But its the only way ive found to truly work.

[–] forrgott@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 days ago

The way I heard this explained is you have to show compassion. And if they disagree on something important to you, that might be hard! But I think it's right on the money.

That said, I appreciate the way you break it down; especially that you point out the fact it can definitely be slow and painful.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

I don't post the links to change their mind, I post the links to show the rest of the world why they're wrong.

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 2 days ago

There is also a thing that people sometimes change their mind under the weight of evidence, but not immediately. It often requires you to think about it, collect your thoughts and all, and it takes some alone time

[–] loomy@lemy.lol 53 points 3 days ago (3 children)

it matters a lot how the information is presented

[–] neon_nova@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 3 days ago (4 children)

That’s really it!

If it is a combative exchange neither side will concede.

It’s better to pretend to be ignorant or on their side and then ask questions that lead them to the truth you want them to see.

[–] Tahl_eN@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I actually react well to combative. Not right away, but it puts me into a "I'll show you" mood that drives me down a rabbit hole of research. If you're right, I come out the other side with the data and admit I was wrong. But I assume I'm not normal.

[–] SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I do the same thing. I’m also perfectly comfortable saying I was wrong if I was, and most people aren’t. I assume you are the same.

No one person can know everything. But learning and updating the information that shapes my picture of reality is something enjoyable. I’d like it to be as accurate as possible. It blows my mind that many other people aren’t like that at all. No intellectual curiosity whatever.

Though I do prefer more even-keeled discussion over combative tone. It’s just unnecessary and produces bad feels.

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I do the same thing and I am not at all comfortable in saying I was wrong if I was, but I generally do it anyway because, well, fair is fair and I was indeed wrong plus it's better than I discover it and will from there onwards be correct, that that I keep on spouting bullshit, so ultimatelly having been pointed out as wrong ended up as a win.

That said, if the other person was an asshole in our discussion (for example, using personal attacks and insults) I won't openly admit to them that I was wrong as I don't want to give them the satisfaction (though I'll internally accept I was wrong and correct my take from there onwards).

[–] lurch@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago

Yeah, "normal" people have no time or are too lazy to do that.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I’ve done this a few times with trumpets, but they always flip back after they realize what just happened.

Usually end up hearing something like (hunters laptop, Jan 6 was all FBI agents or whatever Xitter bullshit is popular).

[–] henfredemars@infosec.pub 10 points 3 days ago

This is a sign of emotional intelligence. When people get emotionally invested in their argument, they don't want to lose, and they often won't let themselves believe they can even lose even when they have.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

That’s both the strength and horror of LLMs. They are super good at presenting information in a pleasing way to the user… but can you trust that what it says is correct?

To the majority of humans, a pleasing presentation is treated as evidence of truth, despite that being a logical fallacy.

[–] Quadhammer@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That's just like your opinion, man

[–] loomy@lemy.lol 1 points 3 days ago

no, it really ties the whole room together

[–] nucleative@lemmy.world 25 points 3 days ago

Yeah it matters a lot how the conversation is set up.

Is it "you and I versus the facts"?

Or "you vs me"?

Competent people can disagree and also identify where the facts are missing and the assumptions begin that lead to this. It doesn't have to be a fight if they look at the data as something to discover together.

[–] NerdInSuspenders@leminal.space 27 points 3 days ago
[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Theres a technique called deep canvassing where you don't question the second parties beliefs or tell them things but instead build empathy, make the conversation about them, ask them about themselves, and then tell them things they probably didn't know as a way to let them decide for themselves that they were wrong before.

If a person thinks a car is purple but it's actually beige an expert could ask about their car and their own car and how they have similar costs or routine maintenance to form a connection, then talk about the sources of pigments and introduce indexes or catalogues of colors, and the person would see on their own how purple relates to blue and red and how beige relates to yellow and come to the correct conclusion on their own.

[–] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 3 days ago

Things are more complicated than that. You have the guy you argue with who won't admit they're wrong but maybe in the aftermath will shift their opinion a little and after many discussions like that agree with you. Than there are many passive bystanders, undecided and won't comment but maybe find your point more persuasive

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Changing someone's mind in a public debate isn't necessary to show everyone they're a fool. That's usually enough.

Whether they ever get sick of being a fool is entirely up to them. If they're wise & mature, they will & maybe even admit it. Some people never do & it's mostly their problem at that point. Humans gonna human.

[–] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Winning a public debate is much more about rhetorical skills than being right. You can be very knowledgeable in a topic of your research, still lose because you can't put it simple while your opponent has simple answers to complicated questions and a catch phrase and some slogans

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Winning a public debate

Never claimed "winning" (in that sense) mattered, only that we can show facts don't support a fool's conclusion (ie, "show they're a fool"). Whether others care to recognize that or let themselves get misled by invalid rhetoric is up to them: some have better discernment than others. Upholding facts (or logic & truth) so others can accept them when they're ready (not to indulge their biases) is "winning" enough to me. Humans still gonna human.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Bullshit without linking the studies.

It's also a muddy case whether the statements are about the existance of people or all people.

Some people run on facts, others on emotions. They have to be convinced differently.

[–] Eximius@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Somehow beautiful. Calling out bullshit, but also agreeing.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago

No one is going to listen to you if you act like a know-it all. It has nothing to do with whatever you're saying.

[–] buttnugget@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I mean, they’re both right. Without seeing the studies, we can’t know exactly what was being investigated, but obviously people have the capacity to change their minds. It just depends on what timeframe, how much evidence, potential removal from propaganda system, etc.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 11 points 3 days ago

Without seeing the studies, it's hard to know if they were good studies that support her position or not.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 2 days ago

Sad proof that refuting bullshit takes infinitely more energy that it took to spread. If you tell someone that they are under attack, that someone they already distrust is their enemy, it goes straight to the lizard brain.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 days ago

however, if he did change his mind, you would need wrong