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Autistic guy here and sorry for the political rant. There is a lot of intense and horrific things happening all over the world like the recent war with Iran. But let me say this. If you voted for Trump and your friends and family cut you off because of it, then I do not feel any sympathy for you.

Especially if you have a loved one who is neurodivergent or is special needs. The amount of grief and hopelessness this administration is bringing to thousands, if not millions, of families in the USA is indefensible. Families have been torn apart because of his draconian policies towards immigration. Legal immigrants and regular tourists are being jailed because they committed a minor infraction. Education and social safety programs are being gutted, while the ultra-wealthy keep getting richer and richer.

Canada, Australia and Europe, which we have seen as friends for the previous couple decades, are moving away from the USA after Trump's annexation threats of Canada and withdrawing from several agreements. And I don't fault them for boycotting the USA as there are other friendlier countries to travel to and buy products from. Compared to Europe or Asia, the only good things we have going for us here are the universities and the national parks. Yet Trump and most of his cabinet want to dismantle the national park system and remove all federal funding from these universities. I'm not sad that Canadians and Europeans (and Australians) are boycotting the USA, and at this point, I would happily boycott the USA as well if I didn't live here. I'm sad because I really enjoy talking to international people. Plus many of these cultural ties between certain states and certain provinces (like BC and the NW USA, or Quebec and the Maritimes with New England) have been severely damaged and will be very difficult to repair. What makes traveling fun for me is having fun conversations with international people from all over the world.

All of this to make the USA safer?! Really?!

Now that Roe v. Wade has ben overturned and many states are implementing harsh laws preventing women from getting abortions, the USA will very likely its own Mahsa Amini. And when that happens and another wave of nationwide protests happen, Laken Riley will really be turning in her grave when she finds out her death was used for far-right authoritarian policies to dismantle healthcare for millions of women.

Safer from school shootings and gun violence since Republicans want to ease all gun restrictions? Safer from diseases since there is an anti-vax skeptic who is the secretary of the US health and human services and wants to remove all vaccine requirements? Out of fear that vaccines cause Autism which has been debunked countless times by countless scientists? Safer from pollution now that several environmental regulations have been eased? Safer for plane travel now that majority of the FAA has been fired? Safer traveling out of the country because American citizens (who even have Global Entry) are being put into waiting rooms for hours.

You voted for him to lower the cost of groceries and gas prices?! How is $2.80 per gallon of gas expensive, unless you casually drive a large pickup truck? Due to the tariffs and now the war in Iran, gas and gadgets are going to become A LOT more expensive. People in Oklahoma are going to be in for a very nasty shock when they are suddenly paying Massachusetts prices for utilities and food in a matter of time, unless the entire world can forgive the USA at this point.

If you voted for Trump in 2016, I would still think you have a good heart, even if our political opinions are different. If you voted for Trump in 2024 after Trump proved to the entire world that he has no respect for his political opponents, the constitution and law by putting members of the entire US cabinet in danger on 6 Jan 21, then I don't think you have a good heart and you deserve to be ostracized.

This is why I have such a heard time sympathizing with those who lost friends and family connections because they would rather die of heart failure or cancer than have a well-qualified woman be president, and instead sympathize with those that did cut off friends and family if they voted for Orange Man. I hope everyone who voted for Orange Man will financially suffer. Because we don't have a difference in political opinions. We have a difference in morality and ethics.

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[–] Windex007@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I agree that they brought it on themselves.

There are a few concepts that are getting muddled here, blameworthyness, and empathy. Both for you as the observer, and they as the subjects.

I don't think it's good to equate the two. They're distinct.

Should a laid-off oil worker struggling to feed their family be worthy of empathy from a republican voter if they themselves had voted Democrat? Would you celebrate the republican proudly declaring they had no empathy?

Would Elon Musk be celebrating your announcement now? He has declared empathy to be weakness, and you've announced that you've managed to squash yours for a large swathe of the population.

People can be to blame for their own pain. Does that mean they deserve no empathy?

And, what have you done to yourself in doing so? What human part of yourself have you killed or let whither to get to where you are now?

It's easy to be empathetic to people who are like yourself. It's more difficult to be empathetic to those different.

Regardless of blameworthyness, I don't think we should be proud of our ability to feel no empathy for others. It may be the case, but that's a personal weakness.

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[–] SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Yep, it's a classic Leopards Ate My Face. They got exactly what they voted for.

A couple I knew in college, basically they'd been together since childhood, moved to rural Minnesota, because conservative. They were militantly anti-mask and anti-.odern medicine. They refused the COVID vaccine and the whole family got sick several times. The husband finally died, on a respirator. His wife blames Biden. Sad.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (5 children)

This is just great thinking

think about it. the Reps can use this endlessly to justify their apparent lack of empathy towards democrats

So under this framework, all the actions they are taking currently are fully justified, not only by themselves, but by the perceived "enemy"

Basically you have pigeonholed yourself into a pickle placed between 2 boulders called "a rock" and "a hard place", as you now cannot complain about anything they do as, well, that's the framework you are spouting about

So all is good with the world when you get shown no empathy

After all, in your heart of hearts, you voted for this 😉

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[–] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 week ago

I feel similarly about people who voted Labour in the last UK election.

[–] Steve@communick.news 1 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Then it sounds like you have an absolutely normal amount of empathy as an American.
Which I should add is incredibly low, and my greatest shame of being an American myself.

If you can't feel bad for people who don't know they're victims of what may be the longest and most expensive con this nation has ever known, I don't know what else to say.

[–] And009@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

From the outside it looks to be a deep rooted issue. I don't think it's the grooming, rather a lack of shared cause.

Trump is bringing you together unlike anything.

[–] Steve@communick.news 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] And009@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

More people converting away from far right now, than in the last 5 years

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I hope that’s true, but there’s no real evidence in the news. While it’s amazing and inspirational how many people stood up to protest, that doesn’t imply any political conversions. In fact it could indicate further divisiveness

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world -5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

LOL

"Well-qualified woman"

There are no qualifications for president, and if there were, neither Trump nor Harris would be suitable candidates. What kind of doofus looks at 25% unemployment and tells people to 'just be joyful' for three months of a campaign and says they won't change anything, again in full knowledge of Americans' impoverishment and Biden's unpopularity? (Not to mention her wet fart of a primary campaign in 2020.)

But if you want a woman with half a chance of winning, AOC is literally filling football stadiums in red states right now.

I have sympathy for them. Most Americans didn't vote for Donald out of ideological concerns. They voted Donald because they've gotten progressively poorer for four years while Joe Biden did nothing meaningful to help them.

[–] CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Americans are being lied to all day, every day, by complicit corporate media backing an ever more corrupt establishment. This is not exclusive to Republicans by any stretch of the imagination: remember all the people clamouring against the "Bernie Bros"? I'm sure some of the people taking this extreme position against Republican voters were also bashing Bernie Bros and saying "it's her turn".

Where did that get you people, huh? Sanders and AOC extend an olive branch and fill up stadiums, while you continue to try to drive even more wedges between us. "He will not divide us"? You were right, because OP and people like OP are all too happy to drive the wedge in on their own. Trump is not the thing you're fighting against, he's effectively what you're fighting for. Go ahead, keep driving people away to the right and see what happens.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Absolutely.

Beating fascism means fighting side-by-side with people you don't like, just as when America allied with Russia.

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