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I volunteer at a food bank, and the company that sends us our food decides what we get. Last Tuesday they sent so much produce we could not fit it all into fridges. We were trying to give away cases of the food on Wednesday, but people were turning it down because they had no place to store a case of tomatoes, or cauliflower. This was what we had left after last Wednesday's morning give away. Not pictured the 5000lbs of watermelons, the 2500lbs of onions (those will last a lot longer).

The company that supplies us wants to move from sending shipments every other week, to once a month. This would cause even more no produce loss.

It is so frustrating to have all this food for it to go bad. Even if we got the same volume of produce, but there was variation in what it is we could give it away easier.

Edit: I posted this in a comment.

Because of bureaucracy we have to request this. If it is found out we are giving away the food to unapproved recipients we can lose all of our funding. If we give to unapproved recipients and they in turn give us prepared food to give out, that is okay.

Word got out that we were loading up my pickup with food and taking it to the homeless camps. I did get a number of them to start coming to the bank to get food. But it was easier when I could take stuff to them.

We are not allowed to simply give it out to anyone. This is not like a church pantry where all of the food is donated by the community and's parishioners. There is government funding, as well as private businesses, which I am guessing get their money back from the government for funding this. If we could simply give it to anyone we would not be in this situation.

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[–] Pnut@lemm.ee 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There isn't a food shortage. There are significant problems of wastage created by marketing value and poor distribution. Many solutions have been brought up over the years. To deaf ears. Because your local grocer needs to put 1000 tomatoes out to mostly rot because it looks aesthetically pleasing.

Okay but to be fair it's very pretty

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Silly idle thought (for real): Suppose in a situation like this, particularly if people complain on the internet drawing attention to the fact that there's 1000s of pounds of produce in a space that likely doesn't have funding for strong security measures, a group of interested parties brought some trucks and took it without explicit permission or consent from the organization.

What's the impact to the org in situations where this isn't given away to unauthorized parties, but gets stolen instead?

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I am in contact with someone now that may be facilitating something along these lines. Not to the extent with which you propose, but I am working on something.

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Fair enough - glad you're trying something to address this lot! Believe it or not, did actually mean this as a 'what if/what are the ramifications for orgs like this if that happened', but probably best not to entertain that yourself at the moment.

As a total aside, good song to keep spirits up today might be The Last Saskatchewan Pirate by Captain Tractor - very last line before final chorus is relevant :)

Good luck with what you're doing!

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 days ago

If someone came and stole it all our parent entity would likely tell us we can no longer keep the door open to allow a breeze to come through the building. Or they would install metal bars on the doors.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago

Do you have a Sikh temple nearby? They cook for the community.

[–] Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee 8 points 6 days ago

They do this because they can write off the "donation" (e.g. garbage disposal)

All of this produce was going to go bad, they know what date it's going bad, but they overproduce or customers cancelled orders or under ordered.

UNFI, the massive breached company, is going to have this same thing play out across the board from product wasting away in their warehouse.

[–] BruceLee@sopuli.xyz 5 points 6 days ago

I would set up a food collection spot just a few feet outside and ask people if they are kind enough to consider taking a case or two to donate there. This way I can redistributed the way I want with that second charity.

Thank you for your service ʘ‿ʘ

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

We are not allowed to simply give it out to anyone. This is not like a church pantry where all of the food is donated by the community and’s parishioners. There is government funding, as well as private businesses, which I am guessing get their money back from the government for funding this. If we could simply give it to anyone we would not be in this situation.

Yep. That's really dumb. When people talk about government inefficiency, this is what they mean.

Is there any chance you have enough (wo)manpower to prepare and preserve it? Even watermelon can be pickled, dehydrated or made into a jam.

[–] kamen@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

You're doing your part, but someone else isn't. Everyone should learn as part of their upbringing that wasting food is bad - just like littering and thousands of other things. Unfortunately we live in a world where someone has to be fined for them to realise they're doing something wrong.

I have a large ice chest and a heavily restricted diet due to medical issues and my food banks won't give me fresh produce unless I show proof of residency (they want you to have a refrigerator). The little daily snack pack with oreos and soda they give you otherwise isn't worth the trip.

[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 107 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Also: Where is this? It’s a small world, some Lemming might pick up a cauliflower or two.

[–] Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

This same thing plays out at many major food banks countrywide.

Find out where the manufacturer's warehouses and production plants actually are, and the nearest large food banks will be the recipients of their trash.

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 61 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (13 children)

Rural nm (edit NM is the state abbreviation for New Mexico, a lot of US residents, our president included, think we are actually Mexico, but they still recognize the postal abbreviation NM. Using it is a work habit I have.)

[–] socphoenix@midwest.social 67 points 1 week ago (1 children)

For the tomatoes you might see if there’s canning groups on Facebook for your area? It takes a metric fuck-ton of tomatoes to make a can of sauce so they’d likely be able to use quite a bit of them.

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 28 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I think the bigger problem is that there are at least 50 trays of tomatoes there and it'll take a bunch of kitchen space and time to process all of them, all of which has to be done on next-to-no notice. It'll also take a lot of time and supplies to can them all - though at least whatever they have the time and space to process will be shelf-stable in the end.

[–] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

The real question is who the fuck is this "company" that is supplying them with far more stock than they could possibly handle, and why the fuck are those incompetent morons handling so much produce at all?

What the food bank can manage would be known. All "excess" should be handled by the supplying company, instead of making their oversupply the problem of volunteers to manage and dispose of.

I'd be willing to bet the profits of the supplier, or lack of funding to distribute the stock over a larger area, are the reason for this entire situation.

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[–] oz1sej@feddit.dk 103 points 1 week ago (55 children)

Seldom have I seen a better example of why universal basic income is so preferable to food banks.

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[–] TOModera@lemmy.world 49 points 1 week ago

At the food bank where my mother works, she finds pig farmers are a good source to get rid of almost gone food. While it's not solving the feeding people part, it does help with disposal. Good luck, hopefully you can pickle some of it too.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 37 points 1 week ago (9 children)

American Charity*

*Terms and conditions apply

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[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 35 points 1 week ago (3 children)

If I were in that situation, I would try quickly whipping up some homemade posters and put them at our market square, maybe in front of schools, and in front of grocery stores. I would make sure to specify why these are given away, otherwise people might be suspicious.

That would probably illegal, but …well… who’s going to sue a food bank over hanging a few posters for 2 days?

[–] crank0271@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

In the US? Where we pour bleach on food that has been discarded to make sure that someone who is hungry can't eat it?

But yes, this is a great suggestion. Also, looking for a local farm or farms that could feed these to their animals (specifically chickens or pigs).

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[–] Kekzkrieger@feddit.org 28 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Tomatoes, dont need any cooling, storing them in the fridge does prolongs their live but they taste like shit afterwards.

Greetings from a German Italian who cries often when people put tomatoes in fridges.

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[–] Worstdriver@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I'm one of the returns clerks in a Costco. First thing we do every morning is process stuff to send the food bank. It irks me how much stuff we aren't allowed to send because the manufacturer won't allow it. Even despite that we send a lot every day. Everything that does spoil at the food bank goes to a local pig farm, who donates pig products back to the food bank whenever he can.

[–] GroundedGator@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It irks me how much stuff we aren't allowed to send because the manufacturer won't allow it.

Name and shame. This is such bullshit. I'm sure it's some to protect brand value, but IMO you earn more value through kindness and generosity.

[–] Worstdriver@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Well, all the Nestle stuff gets sent back to them. Pretty much all the big name cereal outfits have orders that damaged products are to be sent to a salvage company.

Happily most cheese and sliced meats can be donated, plus we generally send 8-10 shopping carts of baked goods and produce directly from us to them every day

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[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I wonder if your food bank can set up some kind of relationship with farms in your region. Those farms may be open to taking lots of spoiled produce as animal feed and compost material. In exchange they might share their crops with you.

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