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Please don't tell me "see a therapist" I know that already.

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[โ€“] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 31 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I mean, she has a lot of investments in this system... seems about right for a capitalist.

She thinks she earned it.

She forgot how much I helped her.

She forgot how every time she made me translate stuff. How I literally filed her taxes every year.

But then she says that's something so insignificant, and that she could find an accountant to do it. And she refuses to find a lawyer, and literally made me starting doing legal paper work stuff when I was 16.

But of course, that's insignificant.

She told me to go to a court case with her to translate, because she doen't trust the court interpreters. Then she messed up the paperworks, lost the case, then cries in court, then blamed me for not "helping", wtf bitch you messed it up.

And she got so petty, she voted against the judge in the next retention election ๐Ÿ˜‚ (of course 1 vote didn't matter)

Holy shit that's just abuse at this point. For all you know she might be the cause of your depression.

[โ€“] meco03211@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago

Unless you need any of that investment she has when she croaks, I'd be cutting ties. That's a toxic person.

[โ€“] HowRu68@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

that's insignificant.

Sorry, but she comes across as a narcissistic person. Probably you have guessed that already. Won't change your day to day reality, but it helps you when you are establishing your own interpersonal boundaries and contactmoments (small#E).

[โ€“] sqw@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 2 days ago

she sounds so bitter and hurt inside