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[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 23 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Why is it always maid outfits? I don't mean to be clueless, I just know women's fashion rather vast and this seems oddly narrow.

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 35 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Most trans girls are massive weebs, there really isn't much more to it. And if you don't agree, feel free to try and fight me.

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Why would I fight you? I don't really have an opinion here; it was a genuine question about something I found odd and I appreciate the answer.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I think that was in jest, but don't trust me, I can't read subtext. I only trust regular text

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

It was half in jest. I have no intention of fighting anyone.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

i accept your challenge. cup and ball competition at high noon

[–] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Depressed Japanese men like the idea of a woman who has to do everything they say. They shared it with depressed white men, who shared it with depressed closeted trans girls

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Are they still closeted if they're dressing up for regular meetups like this? 🤔

Then the trans girls come out of the closet, but their tastes are still informed by their closeted time

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 21 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Tbh I really don't get it. I prefer the Greek goddess aesthetic

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Yeah at some point I may even get one of those bicep bracelets

[–] bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works 17 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Trans women have their own subculture regarding clothing. Teenage male fantasies have a bigger influence than main stream women’s fashion.

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Unix Socks make intuitive sense to me for some reason, but maid outfits not so much. Different fantasies then I guess?

Edit: fixed link

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 11 months ago

Both were popularized by anime.

Clocking trans folk by poor fashion choices is easier than by their face.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's slutty but standardized. You don't gotta make style choices

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 5 points 11 months ago

Huh, never struck me as particularly slutty but ok.

The standardized/low(ish) effort part does kinda track with the other half of the meme though. I hadn't thought of it that way.