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That's literally the whole point.
This is more of a philosophical discussion, I guess.
Nope, I'm European. I'm also much further left than Bernie Sanders, and yeah I definitely see the lack of suits there. It might be a rejection of formality, but I don't know... I'd be much more inclined to say that it is a rejection of the establishment and a way to approximate themselves with everyday people, by dressing more like the average person dresses on a daily basis.
The point of the dress-code in politics, at least partially, is to signal that you are meant to be there. It's supposed to help you be taken more seriously -- this goes in tandem with that thing I said about the suit looking intentional. It also equalizes everyone; By looking similar, you can focus on what they have to say and less on what they're wearing ("Oh look, that politician is wearing a cool shirt... Wait, what did they just say?").
Not wearing a suit definitely brings some eyes your way, which is also a reason some politicians do it -- like Zelenskyy, who's not wearing suits because of the war, but also because it stands out and forces people to think about the war. Still, as you might've seen, the White House was rather upset with him over this; Not wearing a suit signals that you don't belong there, and many people (American fascists or not), are gonna see someone that can't even wear a suit ("Can't even put on a suit, how're they gonna steer a country?").
The suit has meaning. It's communication.
By having rules, this communication becomes clearer. Every deviation matters and is noticed.
I mean, I just don't see this at all. We might be from different countries (probably), but I just don't get that association at all. It's a suit. It's the uniform of business, as you said, but... Yeah, it's formal. It says special event, or lawyer, or something. Then again, it depends on the suit, so I wouldn't even go that far, frankly. Some suits just say "fashion". That's my opinion, anyway. Maybe it's because over here we have suits as traditional academic wear... Some pictures follow.
Yeah you definitely sounded like it, but again I just didn't want to do some virtual-armchair-diagnosis or anything LOL I've heard many neurodivergent people have trouble with clothes and formal events. I have some pretty bad social anxiety, so I relate to that, to a certain extent.
Well, yeah, but those are just shitty events for shitty things. The only event you listed that I would maybe debate was the restaurant, but then again I haven't ever stepped foot in a restaurant with a dress-code.
The colour is different, the fit is completely different, the shirt is different, and yeah the tie is different (the 2nd suit is wearing a camp collar shirt, which is actually explicitly informal). I mean, pretty much the only thing they have in common is that the pants match the blazer, meaning, they're both suits.
Is this the same as well?
To me, they're clearly all completely different, quite frankly. They're all suits, but very different suits for very different occasions.
Well, whatever, I guess.
Well yes I thought Zelenskyy looked great in that thing he was wearing. I thought it looked pretty kick-ass. To me personally pissing Trump off would be a feature, not a bug 🤭 But I don't have any responsibility to save a war-torn country of course. There's that. I do agree with Zelenskyy's reasoning, he's not a president who just sits behind a desk to sign papers.
But yes establishment, that's what I associate suits with. That's a better description than "old money" which I said.
For me it tends to have the opposite effect. I remember when my boss always wore this formal stuff and one time we had an issue and she came from home in a hurry to look at it. She was just wearing jeans and a T-shirt and I remember thinking "wow she is actually a nice person" 😆 . But yeah I'm not very (neuro) typical. Though a very typical thing of autistic people is that they love rules and I personally hate them with a passion.
I like the big capes, I sometimes wear them as part of a gothic/alternative outfit, though no suit under it but more like some mesh top. But I wouldn't wear a suit at university if I had to.
And no I do think that last one is very different because the fabric is very fluffy on that one.