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How do you date? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 days ago by tophneal@sh.itjust.works to c/autisticandadhd@lemmy.world

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I know /how/ to date in itself, but I'm curious how other AuDHDers go about meeting people to date. Ive only been let down and demoralized using mainstream apps, and the advice of "go find a group hangout" feels very antithetical to my entire being. I hate being in large groups where I know no one. I'm pretty jaded by the idea of just waiting for that right person to come along too, when it feels like it has happened, there's usually a reason we can't even entertain dating, such as meeting them after they've just started a new relationship with someone. I feel ready and would really enjoy finding someone that doesn't need all the masks and can love me for who I am, but I feel like I don't know how to go about meeting the right person.

So I'm curious, how do you meet people for the purpose of dating?

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[–] tophneal@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, though I imagine those replying mean well, little to no hope/opportunities I hadn't considered have been inspired. I was prepared for that beforehand though, there's no simple solution to this for us ND. I hope when you return to this thread you find an answer that resonates with you and helps find you a loving partner.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Thanks, I hope you do too!