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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (4 children)

The only birth control that is 100% effective is not having sex.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Abstinence is not birth control.

That’s like saying the only way to build a house that doesn’t fall down is to not build the house.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Abstinence is extremely effective. However, it’s impractical and associated with moralists and the piss-poor “sex education” that Americans get.

But it is 100% effective.

And yes, the best way to build a house that will never, ever fall down is to not build one. It is impractical, and beside the point, but it is true!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The abject lack of sex isn't a way to make sex safer. It's dodging the danger of sex, not addressing it. Abstinence has 0% effectiveness as safe sex, as the lack of sex is not at all related to safe sex.

Playing linguistics games is exactly how abstinence gets pushed in the first place. Agreeing that these games are accurate, when they are wholley not, just reinforces those regressive polices.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It really is, avoiding risk vs mitigating risk. Birth control is summarized as avoiding unwanted pregnancies, not about baby safe sex.

And I'm not saying "don't have sex if you don't want babies" because that's stupid ass argument considering we have so many other options for birth control for you to choose from

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

The only safe way to fly is to not fly.

It’s not birth control.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Vasectomies aren't 100% foolproof.

Failure rates (first year) Perfect use 0.10%
Typical use 0.15%
"Vas-Clip" nearly 1%

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Now how in the hell is female sterilization not 100%?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Even after tubal litigation it's possible to still get pregnant if the fallopian tubes grow back together or if another tube/path forms. It's somewhat rare (0.5% of women who have had the procedure could get pregnant again)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Isn't there a chance vasectomies don't take either?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

It's a lot easier to double check in men.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

It's almost 100% because "proper usage" includes periodic checks.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

But the same thing can happen with vasectomies so why isn't it showing anything there?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Vasectomies are a lot easier to double check. A woman released 1 egg a month. A man released a LOT of swimmers every shot. Go in a cup and check for swimmers.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Yeah sure but that's not what sterilisation means. To be sterile means you're not making any gametes whatsoever, which typically means a complete removal of the gonads (ie an oophrectomy or orchidectomy). Otherwise you're not sterile, you're just infertile.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Guessing it's more female "sterilization"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

I remember hearing that in rare cases, getting their tubes tied can actually heal.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

OK that’s great and everything and hurrah for the snipped, V for Victory yadda yadda…

But really, a chart on contraception made by Dr. Dick Beatty?!

I’m crying over here

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I don't get it. Does that mean on average a couple using condoms for 10 years will be pregnant 1.5 times?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The only birth control that is 100% effective is having HOT GAY SEX™

Alternatively become a Buddhist monk and hit yourself in the balls until you're infertile, I guess

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

And there I was, thinking my vagina must be broken because I somehow still haven't got my girlfriend pregnant 🤦‍♀️

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 days ago

Go back to the dark ages already